A famous idiom allusion-lying on the ice to find carp, has always been a carrier for us to convey the good moral character of filial piety, and it tells a story of Jin Dynasty.
There was a man named Wang Xiang whose experience was unfortunate. His biological mother died when he was very young, and his father later inherited the woman Zhu. However, his stepmother never got married in Wang Xiang, and she often scolded him in front of her husband, which made Wang Xiang no longer popular with her father.
Although stepmother is everywhere, Wang Xiang doesn't seem to dislike it. He longs for the love of his parents because he doesn't understand maternal love. One winter, Zhu said he wanted to eat carp, but because the lake was frozen, it was difficult to catch it, and no fishermen sold carp at all.
In order to satisfy Zhu's wish, Wang Xiang lay naked on the ice, melted the thick ice with his body temperature, and finally the ice cracked. When two carp really jumped out of the ice, Wang Xiang took them home, which made his stepmother laugh.
Wang Xiang's sincere filial piety not only touched his father and stepmother, but also was praised by villagers in Shiliba Township. This story has also spread to this day, becoming a classic in filial piety, in line with the "disciple rules": hate me, be filial!
In the past, Wang Xiang was lying on the ice fishing for carp, but now Chen Yurong has cut his liver to save his son. One is a son and the other is a mother. What changed was identity. Invariably, family relationships never ask for anything in return and don't care about feelings. 1 1 years ago, Chen Yurong, who was moved by China, did not hesitate to cut his liver to treat his son. How are their mother and son living now?
Sudden illness, at a loss
Chen Yurong, an unpretentious rural woman, what makes her no longer ordinary is the brilliance of her maternal love. Before this incident that touched China, life in Chen Yurong was simple and orderly. She is an accountant by profession. Due to professional factors, she keeps things in order and takes care of every member of her family properly.
For his son Ye Haibin, Chen Yurong also spent a lot of energy and time to cultivate him. But just as my son grew up smoothly and mischievously, a bolt from the blue exploded in their house.
It was Ye Haibin 13 years old. Chen Yurong and her husband found their son's recent behavior a bit strange, such as unclear speech, unclear expression, and even when he walks on a flat road, he will fall down! The couple did not ignore these details and quickly took their son to the hospital for examination. Results The report after diagnosis was really not optimistic.
Ye Haibin suffers from a congenital disease called hepatolenticular degeneration. This disease is like a poisonous insect hovering in the body, eating away at Ye Haibin's health bit by bit. Now Ye Haibin shows various symptoms, indicating that the lesion is slowly eroding his internal organs and needs to be treated as soon as possible.
Chen Yurong was in a hurry. She was at a loss about her son's serious illness. She can only ask doctors everywhere, ask and read all kinds of cases. During that time, Chen Yurong was exhausted.
The illness worsened and exceeded the burden.
But what scares her most is the sudden deterioration of Ye Haibin. In 2005, Ye Haibin, who had stabilized, suddenly coughed violently at night and vomited a pool of blood! This frightened Chen Yurong. She heard the sound, and her husband rushed to send their son to the hospital again.
The doctor said that Ye Haibin's condition was not optimistic and suggested that he be hospitalized immediately to arrange surgery. However, the cost of this operation is astronomical for Chen Yurong's family, who can't afford such expensive medical expenses at the moment. So, after consideration, Chen Yurong and her husband still discussed the insurance benefits to see what happened after Ye Haibin.
Under Chen Yurong's careful nursing and insurance treatment, Ye Haibin's situation is really much better. On the surface, it looks no different from ordinary people, but the alarm has not been lifted. Three years later, Ye Haibin vomited blood again at night, and the doctor tried his best to bring him back to life.
This time, Ye Haibin's surgical treatment is not negotiable. If you want to live, you can only change your liver.
After hearing about the conditions of the operation, Chen Yurong was anxious to save his son. Without thinking, he suggested to the doctor to operate on his son with his liver. Because of blood relationship, Chen Yurong's liver really meets the standard, which can solve the problem of waiting for liver source. However, Chen Yurong's weight does not meet the standard, and high fat content will lead to unqualified liver source.
The only way is for Chen Yurong to lose excess fat!
Running to lose weight touched China.
Compared with the delay of my son's illness, losing weight is the dawn of hope. Chen Yurong is full of motivation and wants to get rid of all the encumbrances in the shortest time. In 2009, Chen Yurong was 55 years old. It is obviously too difficult to lose weight by high-intensity exercise.
Therefore, Chen Yurong chose the dam outside her home to lose weight. This dam is usually a road that people often walk after dinner, about 5 kilometers long. Chen Yurong gets up at five o'clock every morning and starts exercising, so he walks back and forth along the dam. Although the pace can't be too big, in order to improve efficiency, Chen Yurong has increased its speed, which is somewhat similar to the race walking.
People who don't know Chen Yurong's family will be surprised to see her exercising like this every day. Why are men over half a year old still tossing about losing weight? Of course, there are people who know the situation. They are deeply impressed and moved by Chen Yurong's daily appearance on this dam, rain or shine.
A * * * lasted for 200 days, and Chen Yurong walked more than ten kilometers every day. Under such self-discipline, Chen Yurong's weight plummeted, the fatty liver that had not passed the test finally reached the standard, and his son's operation could continue, which made Yu Chen cry with joy.
On the eve of the Spring Festival in 2009, Chen Yurong and his son were pushed into the operating room together. One was eager to save the other, and the other was waiting to be saved. More than three hours after the operation, not only Ye Haibin's father and relatives, but also some media friends and strangers who heard the news were waiting anxiously.
With everyone's blessing, the operating room opened and everything went well.
Chen Yurong became a scenic spot on the dam because of her weight loss experience, and she was unexpectedly nicknamed "Runaway Mom" by netizens. It is a great honor to select the people who touched China in those years. Chen Yurong's life these years is actually complicated and sad in the original words. From rolling in the deep's fear to the happiness of the rest of his life, his son Ye Haibin's body has always been concerned about this ordinary and great mother's heart.
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1 1 years later, some viewers still occasionally think of the "runaway mother" in those years, and some reporters go to Chen Yurong's home to learn about their current life. Now Ye Haibin has basically recovered, and his family life is happy, while Chen Yurong has an active life. At the age of 66, she also wants to enrich herself through work.
Chen Yurong's story is not uncommon. In this unexpected situation, most mothers may choose to cut their liver to save their children, but such a special situation really happened to Chen Yurong.
After more than 200 days of self-discipline and weight loss, Chen Yurong witnessed her hundreds of kilometers on the dam in front of her home. On that dam, Chen Yurong may be silent, may shed tears and sweat, may whisper what to do about his son's illness, but there is absolutely no step, and Chen Yurong wants to give up.
Her story was selected in Touching China, which is a typical example, representing that Chinese mothers don't care about returns and are not afraid of hard work. Disciples Rules says, God, why is filial piety so difficult? Love me, Xiao Fangxian. The same is true of maternal love, which will be selfless and ubiquitous regardless of whether it can be responded.