It's not too early to get married-Elvin/Civet, a young man who is a "girl after the flower season", is wearing a slim CELINE dress with big flowers, carrying LouisViton's new multi-pocket doctor bag and Ferragamo's high heels. Yes, this is indeed the hottest trend in Europe and America this season. But only these, it seems, have not really reached the peak of fashion. Recently, The Diary of a Single Woman by the British writer Helen Foldin has triggered a worldwide upsurge of "sister-brother love". The British "Daily Express" declared that "the latest necessary equipment for women this season is to have a man younger than you. There is a classic saying in Diary of a Single Woman-"Men in their thirties have a lot of problems and are bored. They sigh all day long, have anxiety problems and are seriously paranoid, thinking that all women will try their best to get them into the marriage trap designed by themselves. These days, I am only interested in young people in their early twenties ... "Of course, the love between brothers and sisters is more than that. Recently, Associate Professor Guo, vice president of Chifeng College in Inner Mongolia, put forward more subtle opinions. She said that according to the national 1% population sampling survey data in 2005, the age groups of 2 1, 22 and 23 were 65,438. Therefore, if China can formulate some measures to encourage "sister-brother love", it can not only reduce the number of older unmarried women, but also prevent the problems caused by more men than women under the age of 20, which can be described as killing two birds with one stone. Guo also said that the average life expectancy of women is longer than that of men, which is a universal law of human society. According to world population statistics, the gap at the end of last century was 4.3 years (63.3 years for men and 67.6 years for women). If a "brother and sister" family is established, the time for husband and wife to live together will be shortened, more elderly women will inevitably be widowed, and the time for widowhood will be prolonged. If you can choose "brother-sister love", then this situation will be improved. As far as modern women are concerned, "matching siblings" is also a trend. Think about it, today's women are self-centered and financially independent, so they don't need a potbellied person to pay for their dinner, and they don't need to spend a boring and' responsible' weekend with people of their own age. They prefer the fun and jokes of sunshine boy. They want to be considered independent and sexy. Some people call women aged 30 to 35 mature women. Looking ahead, women of this age gradually fade into adolescence, and looking back, it is a daunting menopause. Some people call this period the pre-middle-aged age of women, and we say it is the post-flower season when women spend an inch of money. Then a 30-year-old woman meets a 20-year-old man, and a sibling love begins. However, it is a headache for women to choose what kind of man, how to talk about the result and how to ensure the happy and long-term marriage of your brother and sister. Summary-Brother and sister are matched, life is not tiring/Nannan According to the theory of "Being is reasonable", the prevalence of brother and sister love is not only popular, but also has many benefits. Now you might as well count to one and two. Benefit 1: Brothers and sisters love to make money for men-as the saying goes, "A woman is a mistress, holding a golden brick". Managing money at home is not a one-off event. It takes several years and a lot of money to train young MM, and your sister-in-law and wife have already saved the down payment for your new house. For women-men don't worry about spending money indiscriminately, just be a shopkeeper of cutting and cutting. What woman doesn't want to make her own decisions at home? Mastering financial power-it is easy for a sister-in-law to give a woman this "gift" when she is in love. Benefit 2: My brother and sister love to work hard and complain to men-my sister won't hook up with you like a little woman, asking you to wash the dishes in black and white, and she will do it 246 times ... Living with her, life is neat, everything is orderly and comfortable! It doesn't matter how much housework you do for women. As long as you feel comfortable, doing housework is also a kind of enjoyment and you can lose weight. Benefit 3: Brothers and sisters know how to touch men: Most young women like to have temperament. She is right and you are wrong; She is wrong, you are still wrong, and you like to run away from home if you have nothing to do. And a woman older than you will use silence properly and know how to take a step back and broaden the horizon, which will make you much more relaxed. For a woman-you are very patient, how can she not understand the truth afterwards? A little injustice, in exchange for his unswerving dedication to you, why not? Benefit 4: Brother-sister love will take care of men-men are children to some extent, spoiled, willful, and need women's spoil and care, which is definitely something that my sister can get. For a woman-he is uncomfortable wearing other people's clothes, and other people's cooking is not delicious. He can't live without you! So, what are you worried about? Benefit 5: Brothers and sisters are steadfast in their love for men-young women are proficient in karaoke and sing every night. Your sister doesn't like these things anymore. She prefers to stay at home and live a comfortable life. It's reassuring to put a woman older than you anywhere. For women-using the time when he can't accompany you to communicate with "girlfriends" and pull them into love life can also make up for the lack of contact with friends on weekdays. Benefit 6: Brother-sister love will put a lot of pressure on men-modern men provide houses, cars and wives. Sisters know how to live the best life with the least money. For a woman who gave you most of her money, your living standard has greatly improved. Besides, without you, he doesn't even know the bank password. Aren't you happy? Benefit 7: Sister-in-law's dating life is experienced for men and women older than you. After Qian Fan, they know what men need and think, know how to taste life and have a unique life. For women-as long as you suggest it, he feels like it. Although he says he is the head of the family outside, he is actually obedient to you. Benefit 8: Sister-in-law has a sense of crisis in love, which has no advantage for men and women older than you. They always have a sense of crisis, will constantly enrich themselves and devote themselves to family building to the maximum extent. For a woman-when she encounters a problem, your experience and knowledge will show her talent. He met with multiple-choice questions, and your wise advice made him suddenly enlightened. You are his wife! Benefit 9: Brother and sister have a sense of responsibility. Women older than you have been educated for a long time and are more responsible for their families, husbands and children, so your life will be better. For women, it is much better for two people to solve problems together than for two people to pass the buck to each other! Benefit 10: Brothers and sisters love the big picture. For men, women older than you have the virtues of traditional women, putting others before themselves and putting the overall situation first in everything. . For women-you know how to care about gains and losses, saving the country with curves is the specialty of sister girlfriends. What's more, without you, he is penniless and worthless! Wandering: A "flower season" man pursued me to dictate/Li Meng/Li Shuying At the wedding reception, I met a "flower season" man as the best man. Two years ago, my boyfriend, who had been in love for three years, fell in love with a rich girl one year older than him before getting a marriage certificate, and then resolutely ended those vows with me. This lovelorn relationship makes me very sad. After that, I refused to accept any man. My sister-in-law has been alone for two years, and I'm a 30-year-old woman in her prime. That night, I went to a female colleague's wedding reception and watched them walk into the marriage hall. I felt sad at the thought of being at a loss, and drank one cup after another. However, when I went to get the bottle, I was suddenly stopped by a man. He said seriously, "I have watched you for a long time. You have drunk too much, you can't drink any more! " I looked up and recognized him as the handsome young best man. I smiled and said, "Kid, leave me alone!" "After that, I struggled to get the bottle. The best man stopped and even poured me a drink. After the wedding reception, while I was waiting for a taxi, a handsome guy came by in a Peugeot 307 and asked me if I needed a ride. I didn't refuse. On the way, he told me his name was Mao Mao. I smiled: "the abbreviation of Louis Vuitton! This name is very famous. " He gave me a look: "I thought you would only keep people away like an ice beauty, but I didn't expect it to be so humorous!" " The man's flower rose went to work the next day. I received a short message from Simon Lu, and wanted to invite me to the island for coffee. I politely declined: "thank you, but I'm not available!" " He didn't answer. When I was on duty at noon, the extension phone of the reception office called and said that someone was looking for me. When I saw Lu Wei holding a bunch of red roses, I told him rudely, "Don't play these childish games in front of me. I am not the kind of little girl who is surprised at first sight. " He smiled and said, "I don't want to take advantage of red roses." Who makes you look like ice? " I finally smiled. It was May 1st, and I was worried about how to spend this long holiday. Lu Wei invited me to travel with a group to Siguniang Mountain in Sichuan, and I agreed. Along the way, this three-year-old man took care of me like a big brother. On the day I arrived at Siguniang Mountain, I couldn't stand the climate change there and was very tired. I soon got cold symptoms. Lu Wei watched me sneeze again and again, so he took out the brown sugar and fresh ginger that had been prepared long ago and made me a big cup. After watching me drink it, he said it was a secret recipe learned from his grandmother, and it was very effective in treating cold and cold! I thought: If only this man were three years older than me! There is no reason to refuse a man's love in the flower season. After returning from Siguniang Mountain, Lu Wei joined the pursuit of me-when I was depressed, he would appear in time to accompany me to have coffee to relieve boredom; I casually talk about where the snacks are delicious, and he always takes time to take me to taste them; Even, he knows what kind of books I like to read and what kind of cosmetics I am suitable for. Occasionally I will go to his company to help him sort out some contract materials and analyze the product market. After all, this is my major! Every time at this time, he always has something to say: "This is the best combination of strength and strength!" But I told him that I didn't like that kind of "brother and sister love". He immediately took out Li and Wang Fei to render: "Since ancient times, there has been a saying that' women are junior players and hold gold bricks'. People's big stars believe this truth, not to mention ordinary people!" He looked at me and said, "Actually, you need my care everywhere, unlike my sister who is three years older than me." Looks like a sister three years younger than me! "Just when I hesitated to look around, my female colleague who just became the bride gave me a reassurance. She said: "Lu Wei is not an ordinary person. He has a good eye. The people he believes in and the people he seeks are all carefully analyzed. He is a thoughtful and responsible good man! "My female colleague also told me that in fact, Mao Mao told her about us. He decided that I was different from those impetuous little girls, saying that such a woman is a fairy couple who can spend their lives together. A few months later, I put on my wedding dress and became the bride of Mao Mao. Tip: The first trick to find your little man is to accurately grasp the little man's state of mind. Little men secretly love older women, mostly out of two kinds of mentality, one is to use, the other is love. To distinguish the difference between the two, it is necessary to test a woman's vision and wisdom. If the little man pursues you for your position and wealth, then I advise you to stay away from him as early as possible, and don't be confused by his fancy appearance and rhetoric! If he is impressed by your talent and charm, don't miss him. The second trick: the little man should be reserved in front of him and be liked by the little boy. You should not be complacent. After all, you are a woman who missed the flower season. You should keep a reserved attitude in time, leave an elegant and calm impression on him, don't refuse his roses and coffee, and even travel with him, but you need to observe and test his sincerity. If you leave him, he won't be too far or too close to you. Talking about such love in the fog is more conducive to the running-in of two people's feelings and achieving a best state. The third trick: don't hesitate to put on a wedding dress. When you accurately grasp the little man's state of mind and have his true love, your state of mind will relax. Don't have any psychological pressure, and don't be afraid of outside comments. You should firmly believe that age is not a problem. Once love is mature, don't hesitate to let the little man put on your wedding clothes happily! Suggestion: Don't talk about your's "brother-sister love". If you fall in love with your "younger brother", then use your mature wisdom to challenge the secular vision and let your love complex bear fruitful results. First: don't let the age gap cross in front of you forever. Forget the age difference and learn to be a little woman once in a while. Spoil when you should, and men will buy it. Except, of course, blind act young, which would be creepy. It is more important for you to learn to be a little woman and not to be too strong. Even if you are more capable and earn more money than him, he is still your lover, not your subordinate. Second: Don't train your boyfriend to be your "mother boy". A woman's natural "motherhood" will make you consciously or unconsciously show concern for the person you love, but in the "brother and sister love", he is more likely to rely on, and when they really mature, your "caring obsessive-compulsive disorder" will become the biggest obstacle to your relationship. If you always play the role of "mother", he will eventually need a little girl to practice and grow up. So, change your nagging and meticulous, and let your "brother" take some responsibility. Third: Show your confidence. Mature women's personal charm tends to be more perfect, and their career has also achieved certain results. Their appearance is mature and beautiful, and their inner cultivation is consistent. Their physical, psychological and social functions are in the best condition, reaching the peak of their lives, which is very attractive. Another aspect of self-confidence is not to be jealous casually. Don't always be nervous about his association with young girls. Since you are in love, you must have the qualities he values. So, first of all, you should pay attention to yourself. At the same time, with the progress of love, let him feel warm and relaxed with you, and thus have a deep attachment to your. Give him a relatively relaxed environment, but clearly express your needs, let him know your feelings for him, and express your appreciation, love and affection. Fourth: It takes a lot of courage. If your love is hindered, resist the pressure of tradition and custom with him. Your support is his courage to fight. Then, please cherish your hard-won happiness. Tips for getting along: 1. If you are shy, use body language to express "I love you", but avoid being too frivolous and make him think you are good at it. Think more about his wallet when spending, but don't insist that you pay the bill when you are not familiar with it. Encourage him when he makes achievements, but don't exaggerate to encourage his arrogance. 4. Keep a peaceful mind. Talking about a "brother-sister love" is not a crime. Do what you like, listen to your favorite songs and get enough sleep. 5. Both sides support, understand, encourage, trust and appreciate each other. ...