The title of this hot search still hasn't left the topic of "waist"-"My waist hasn't changed after 6 months of pregnancy".

At a recent event, Gina, who was pregnant for six months, still had a slim waist. If you don't pay attention, you won't even know she's pregnant.

Compared with Gina who is not pregnant and pregnant, it really seems that there is no difference.

Lang Lang also laughed and called Gina's waist "unchanged". Then Gina showed her pregnant belly sideways. You can see the clue from the side, but it only bulges slightly, which is far from the impression that pregnant women have a big belly.

It is such a hot search that triggered a big discussion on the whole network. Some netizens pointedly pointed out:

Praising the "not pregnant" pregnant woman with a small waist is a deformed aesthetic. It is to guide all pregnant women in the society to look up to her, maintain a perfect image during pregnancy, and give up health in order to cater to male aesthetics.

Female stars in the entertainment circle are a very magical existence.

It seems that the baby is coming soon before I see it.

Not only did she not lose her shape during pregnancy, but she recovered quickly after delivery. Her belly looks like a zipper, and it is exactly the same after birth.

But in fact, most pregnant women are accompanied by edema, edema and obesity in addition to obvious pregnant belly deviation.

With the reference of these stars, the world's requirements for pregnant women are harsh. It seems that you have gained weight, and your body is out of shape because of your poor self-control!

Almost every woman will suffer from "physical shame" when she grows up.

Be fat, someone will call you "fat".

Be thinner, and someone will call you "shriveled".

Even if you are a perfect figure like a model, someone will find fault with your figure.

Physical shame, simply put, is to humiliate others because of your body.

The physical humiliation of women's figure has never stopped, and it has also spread to special groups such as pregnant women.

Yes, now that you are pregnant/have a baby, someone has come out to tell you what to do with your body!

When did you measure a pregnant woman by her figure instead of her health?

The reasons for gaining weight during pregnancy are far more than overeating and lack of exercise.

During pregnancy, estrogen and progesterone in women will continue to rise, which will inevitably lead to fat increase.

Moreover, during the prenatal examination, doctors attach great importance to the weight gain of pregnant women. As long as it is within a reasonable range, weight gain is normal. If pregnant women are nervous and afraid because of these remarks, they will have great mental stress, which is not conducive to their health during pregnancy.

My cousin Xiao Jing is a living example. She is a person who is particularly afraid of gaining weight during pregnancy. Her husband also said many times before she became pregnant that her relatives and friends became fat after pregnancy and never lost weight. It was terrible. Let Xiao Jing control her weight during pregnancy, and never change from a small waist to a "Russian aunt" after giving birth.

Therefore, Xiao Jing did not dare to eat enough food during the whole pregnancy, let alone eat nutritious things. Coupled with the severe morning sickness reaction, the whole person lost a lot of weight. Results During the six or seven-month check-up, the doctor said that the child was too young, and there was a possibility of stunting and premature delivery.

At this time, Xiao Jing regretted it too late.

There are not a few pregnant mothers like Xiao Jing who strictly control their weight during pregnancy. In the final analysis, society has put too much extra pressure on pregnant mothers.

I am pregnant. Health and happiness is the first rule. When did the perfect pregnant mother figure become the standard?

In addition to the "physical shame" on pregnant mothers, the current social atmosphere is extremely unfriendly to postpartum mothers.

Reports of rapid postpartum recovery are overwhelming, giving people a kind of:

The illusion that "it doesn't seem like a big deal for a woman to have a baby".

Princess Kate of England appeared beautifully seven hours after delivery.

High heels, pencil legs, a full set of exquisite makeup, dry and fluffy hair and even neat curly hair, standing in the wind, blowing my hair flying around, except for my stomach, I can't see that I just gave birth.

Yang Mi, Angelbaby, Hannah Quinlivan, etc. All the pictures in the media were discharged barefoot five days after delivery, and soon turned back into girls after delivery.

So these people who stand and talk like babies will yell:

It doesn't seem that difficult to have a baby? It's easy You women are melodramatic!

Everyone began to feel: why is it easier to have a child than to buy a dish, and it is the same for us ordinary people to have a child die once?

At this time, the husband who is not sensible will make up the knife: XX lost weight immediately after giving birth, why are you still squatting?

This has brought a lot of anxiety and pressure to many mothers and expectant mothers.

Not to mention that they have superior medical conditions that ordinary people can't reach. They have a whole team to serve pregnant women and children. Not only do they not have to drag their unhealed bodies to take care of their newborns, but they are also busy with 10 thousand trifles. They don't even need to breastfeed and change diapers themselves. They can also get the most scientific and top-level care from doctors and nannies at any time. They have enough free time to recover their health and state, and their mentality will naturally be good, because life is easy and effortless.

But this illusion really doesn't need publicity.

Sasha jackson keira knightley has publicly criticized Princess Kate, who has three children.

She believes that Princess Kate can hide the pain of childbirth. In order to maintain a perfect image, regardless of the pain of women's childbirth, Princess Kate's "perfection" is deliberately "faked". Compared with her own birth process, Keira said that childbirth is painful and bloody.

Another 36-year-old singer, Sister Fruit, took photos five days after giving birth, but was criticized for being ugly.

On the fifth day after delivery, Sister Guo still took a bust of herself on the social platform and wrote: No matter the hairstyle or makeup, it comes from Tired!

The fruit sister in the photo, whose belly is still bulging like a ball, is wearing nursing underwear that is convenient for breast pump work and a pair of high-waisted pregnant women's underwear. She looks very tired, and instantly looks much older. Her hands spread out to show her helplessness to the status quo.

As a female star with hundreds of millions of fans, it is really brave to disclose the real photos of her postpartum figure. However, netizens who are used to female stars having children, "unloading" and losing weight quickly after childbirth, in the face of such a real fruit sister, don't pay the bill this time.

Many netizens bluntly criticized: it's really ugly!

But everyone who has given birth to a child knows that this is the real postpartum figure! ! !

How can it be so easy to recover after giving birth? My stomach is not zipped!

Look at these, it is the real postpartum state!

This is what normal people look like after having children!

The stomach will not shrink back immediately, even after giving birth to a baby, just like having a baby in it! It takes a while for the stomach to recover slowly.

People who haven't experienced it don't know the real situation after giving birth, thinking that everyone who has given birth is as fast and well as those stars.

It is almost impossible for us to see in TV movies, including newspapers and magazines that celebrity pregnant women can immediately restore their perfect figure after giving birth!

It is not easy for a pregnant mother to give birth to a baby safely. Even with the advancement of science and technology and the development of medical care, women still have to take risks when they are pregnant and have children.

The dignity and price paid by women for childbirth is unimaginable to all.

"A data from the United States shows that 69% of women have postpartum injuries, more than 40% have moderate sequelae, and more than 20% have severe sequelae. With the fertility conditions in China, the damage caused is definitely higher than 69%. "

Women's common postpartum problems (here are common problems, such as uterine shedding and other serious problems are not listed):

Postpartum infection (including uterus, bladder or kidney infection),

Excessive postpartum hemorrhage,

Perineal pain (between vagina and rectum),

Vaginal secretions,

Breast problems, such as breast swelling, infection and blocked pipes,

Stretch marks,

Hemorrhoids and constipation,

Urine leakage, incontinence,

Hair loss,

Postpartum depression,

The discomfort in husband and wife's life,

The pain of pubic separation,

Sciatica and low back pain,

Chest drooping,

Separation of rectus abdominis,

Caesarean section will leave scars. ...

Many mothers have a deep understanding of the sequelae after giving birth, which is very painful, but it is hard to say.

For the simplest example, your body may be able to return to the state before giving birth, but your stomach is not.

Fatigue, edema, pain, obesity, postpartum sequelae ... these are the prices that women have to pay for giving birth to children. But everyone turns a blind eye to these and blindly creates the illusion that "fertility is very simple".

Therefore, praise pregnant women and stars like Gina less, and don't criticize ordinary people with the standards of stars.

Please also respect every pregnant mother's deformed and haggard figure during pregnancy and postpartum. Pregnant mothers and babies are healthy and happy, which is more important than anything else.