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How to chase a girl you like when traveling (meet someone you like when traveling)
On the other day, a fan left a message on the public platform and asked me: Ella, what should I do if I meet someone I like and the love that is about to start?

At that time, I wanted to answer her at once, saying, brave enough to love, we were the best on the trip. Long-distance love, two hearts in love, is a wonderful thing.

And I suddenly remembered the Korean boy I met in Prague when I first traveled around the world. I often say that love in travel is to meet at the wrong time in the best state. Although we will kiss each other because of the legend of the Charles Bridge, in the end, I decided to end the further development, because that young heart will always belong to the farther scenery.

I also collect the love stories of other fans and friends in their travels. Those beautiful trips just enjoy the beautiful journey without seeking results.

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Meet love on the trip.

no regrets for youth

Miss Anonymous: In the fourth month of traveling around the world, I went to Turkey. I fell in love with a boy in my master Capadocia. Their family runs a family hotel with a sofa to receive couch surfers from all over the world. This is the first time I like a person who travels far. The first love is beautiful. After getting along for half a month, I plan to go to Egypt. Under his repeated detention, I left by force. The day before I left, he implicitly retained me and said, "Do you know? You should stay for two more days, because Capadocia will be more beautiful in two days. " If you have seen the beautiful pink sunset in Capadocia, you must know how sad you will be when you leave.

After a month's trip to Egypt, I returned to Capadocia because I always missed it. However, when I came back, everything changed. I found that the members of this family hotel only accept business sofa guests, because the sofa guests who come to stay will definitely order hot air balloons and other items (in fact, many sofa guests I met later told me that many family hotels in Kappa will receive sofa guests like this). His family is very dissatisfied with my return, perhaps because of his family's influence, he is getting more and more alienated from me.

On a sad night, I was drunk alone. I packed my bags and left his house. My consciousness is hazy, so it is not convenient to find a youth hostel in the middle of the night. I cried and stopped a bus that picked me up at night. After confirming that there were many passengers on the bus, I said to the driver, "Would you please help me find a youth hostel with girls?" .

The next day, I woke up in a very beautiful family cave hotel. It turned out that I kept crying in the car, and at the same time a couple in the car had a quarrel with the owner of the cave hotel because of the order problem. The driver saw me crying all the time and asked the boss for help. Because the boss was not satisfied with the attitude of the couple, he decided to give me the luxury room that was originally left for them for free. I remember I asked "I might dirty your room" and the boss said "Never mind. Let's change the sheets tomorrow. Have a good rest today. "

The next day, I woke up in the warm sunshine of Kappa, and I thanked my boss for helping me. Then, I stayed in a youth hostel nearby. In this triple room for girls, I met very independent and confident Korean girls and American girls. During the three or four days of traveling together, we became good friends who talked about everything. They also taught me that we should love ourselves first.

I once thought, if I don't look back, can't that wonderful memory stay in my heart forever?

But if I don't look back and see the truth clearly, how can I meet strangers who helped me at a critical moment, and those long-lasting friendships with girls?

All unhappiness, when you move on, will dissipate with time. Then a month later, in my favorite Georgia, the paradise of Mestia, I met a national team skier. On the watchtower, we drank, chatted and shared our lives until three in the morning. I will never forget his melting smile, that beautiful feeling, just like returning to the first love. When he said, "You should come back in winter, because I can teach you skiing." I didn't have any special expectations at first, so I stopped planning the reunion. On the contrary, we cherish the present starry snow scene and leave the unknown to the future. Long-distance travel has taught me that sometimes I am invulnerable and sometimes I am gentle as water. If I must have a clear principle or attitude towards the "things" in my trip, I hope I can relax and have fun, and the rest will be natural. Everyone's experience in the journey is different, so I feel different about each country. It is no use regretting a "wrong" decision or indulging in the "good" of the past. In retrospect, no matter good or bad, it has become a precious memory.

When I was a child, I watched it before sunrise. Did you ever guess or even expect the hero and heroine to meet again? Now I understand that there is no result because the result is no longer important.

There are laughter and tears. Isn't that youth?

It is cruel to meet people who like each other during the trip.

Passerby A: On New Year's Eve and Spring Festival of 20 16-20 17, Yanji New Year's Eve, I came to some friends in Guangzhou, and one of them particularly attracted me. We play werewolf killing together, eat and sing K. He has all the looks I like, and he has all the looks I like.

Meet the boxing coach

Anisodamine: Almost every time I go out to travel, I live in youth travel. He was known by a youth brigade in Chengdu. That night, the girl in the same room called him out to play games. The boss made a vicious move and the loser was fined. He was unlucky that day and almost lost. When he came back from dinner, he saw that something was wrong with me and told me to go back to my room to rest, so he had a good impression on him. The next day, he didn't want to go because he was going to other scenic spots. 10 days later, I left Chengdu and returned to Shangrao, my mother who gave birth to me and raised me. He returned to Mianyang and continued to be a boxing coach. After that, he kept in touch intermittently until one day he told me that he had a girlfriend, and I decided not to bother you. Zhao, I wish you happiness and sincerity.

The best journey is never to look back.

Xu Qiqi: Let me tell you my own story. After all, I still love him until now, and I have no regrets. Although I don't know if it's right, I try to contact it if I like it. After all, knowing is fate, and his heart is hard-won. The best trip is never to look back.

I first met him on 20 14. He is standing in the west gate of the school in jeans and a green vest. I want to laugh when I look at this man who claims to eat by his face on the Internet. It's really inexplicable confidence. When I got on the bus, I was surprised that he really left a front seat, introduced himself and played games for a few minutes, and the whole tour bus venue became hot.

So, there seems to be no way, try to chat and try to see your heart clearly. I confirmed my heart on 15. Long time no contact, suddenly dreamed of him, holding hands, hugging and kissing. When I woke up, I had no tears and no wet pillow towel, only myself in a trance and the fact that I had to accept it.

However, I am in Shanghai and he is in Kunming.

20 15 I've been trying to chat with him, but it's not going well. He is very busy, busy with work and dealing with human feelings. Where does he have time to deal with a casual relationship without characteristics? However, I looked for more times and talked a few words.

I remember, he said that he had been to so many places, and the most impressive one was Phoenix. I still remember his birthday in the lunar calendar and his birthday in the Gregorian calendar.

I remember he said he wanted to quit his job and start a business. So, when he mentioned that he wanted to find a girl to help manage the official WeChat account, I volunteered, even though I was overwhelmed by my studies. He said, write a story, and I picked up a pen.

I have written so many short articles, but I can't write a complete travel story, because all I can think of is his lazy appearance by the Erhai Lake. He said he wanted to publicize, so I learned to do copywriting, learn to collect information, secretly turn on the computer in class, and help him improve the official number. I thought I had made it clear, even if I didn't mean to, at least he would feel it, but today, he asked me, what's wrong with you? Are you in love? I laid a smiling face calmly, ignoring my stomach suddenly twitching violently. Thank you for your concern, but I can't type it. I was not sad when he showed off his girl in the circle of friends, because I knew they were just friends. I am confident that I will become more dazzling in his eyes. Why should I be sad to give him two tickets for the music festival on his birthday? I smiled and told him that I was not sad to find a girl to watch it with, because he was not lonely in the distance. Let me wish him a girl with big breasts during the holiday, because I know he likes to play such harmless little jokes, even if I don't like it.

But why, this time will be a little sad? I don't think it's time yet. Why do I have a strong desire to tell him? I can't write this article because I can only think of you when I mention love. I am very unhappy because of your indifference. The hypocritical words of my friends are addressed to you. I am only worried that you have been looking for me on WeChat. But if I say it, it will only increase my troubles and even lose the qualification of friends and help.

People agree that the best journey is never to look back. Either you don't want to, or you don't want to.

Meet a clean little brother.

Despicable Patrick: When you meet someone you like during the trip, of course, it is: chasing! Go after it boldly ~ I met a little brother in Zhoushan last May, thin, white, white, white, white, white, white, white, white, white, white, white, white, white, white, white, white, white, white, white, white, white. According to my experience in Jianghu, this man is gay, which is not my type at all, so I show myself impudently in front of him, such as playing games to get back at my forehead. Later, I went to Guangzhou, and after a few days of getting along, I really liked this little brother ~ the kind that I especially wanted to touch him. Ahem, I don't like people touching me. I'm still the one who touches others. I'm obsessed with cleanliness ... Then, Guangzhou said goodbye, I confessed, and he declined ... But I went to see him again in September, and it was hopeless! Anyway, I haven't met the person I like, so I still like him and miss him, but I believe that when I meet the person I like again, he will become a thing of the past (my eyes are full of tears when writing this). Will he see this?

I met a man 13 years older than me in Taiwan Province province.

Miss Anonymous: I traveled to Taiwan Province Province and met a man 13 older than me. I like everything. I think God finally opened his eyes and met someone I really like. I told him what I thought, that I wanted to be together, and that he didn't want to get married and have children. Life is hard, and those things need too much thinking. The reason why his four ex-girlfriends broke up was to marry him. His character is also relatively cold, he doesn't care much about people, and he doesn't like being disturbed by others. So if I'm with him, I'll go back to the mainland right away. I don't think I'll see him every few months, because he's busy with work, which accounts for a large part of his life. I said I wanted to be with him, and he said yes, so let me prepare for the worst and maybe break up.

Because I am only 22 years old, my life experience is much worse than his. I always feel as low as dust in front of him, but I always feel that I can ignore it because I really like it. He is not a promiscuous person. He didn't even touch my fingers, but his view of love is so different from mine. I want to have a family. If he wants to marry me, I can come to Taiwan Province Province at all costs, but he doesn't want to. So in short, his answer is that we can't be too serious together. Now I'm back in the mainland, and I can only greet him occasionally on WeChat every day, because I'm afraid he thinks I'm bored and he doesn't care much about me. He said I could visit him in Taiwan Province Province at any time, but he didn't want to come to the mainland. So I want to visit him in Taiwan Province Province recently.

My parents firmly opposed it when they knew it, because I have been losing weight since I came back. They say this man is too selfish, and I am too young to understand, so I will suffer. But I really like it so much that I feel willing to pay, but I didn't expect it to be so painful.

Finally, I read your stories carefully. Maybe the ending of the story is not so good, but what I want to say is: when you are young, people and things you meet are like leaves on the lake, which break the calm but make you feel full of power. Love in travel, love and hate, parting and gathering are all beautiful.

* Image from the movie Before Sunrise.

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Ella Sanhei

A writer who travels around the world published "In this way, I slept on the sofas all over the world" through Weibo &; WeChat official account: Ella Sanhei travels around the world WeChat: ella3hei