Chatting is a technical activity and the most commonly used way to communicate with people. Good language exchange activities are based on mutual trust.

The first step to build trust is to introduce yourself frankly.

Introduce yourself frankly. Too much ostentation will make the other person feel that you are flashy, and too much modesty will make people feel that you are not confident. It depends on what kind of first impression you are trying to make in the other person's mind. You don't deliberately exaggerate your strengths, and you don't hide your weaknesses. Everything you say and do makes the other person feel that this person is real and honest, at least as an acquaintance, not annoying. Congratulations, basically half the battle.

Here is, open the topic.

The topic is not random, it should be targeted. If you talk to a migrant worker like me about 32 types of coffee, it is a sense of superiority. If you talk about slimming methods in front of a 200-pound fat man, the final result is likely to be beaten, and the topic must be to your liking.

Emphasis: Pay attention to details, especially the details of behavior.

When girls don't talk, they are actually watching you all the time. While you are drawing her, she is doing the same thing, spitting, spitting, no matter what your bad habits are. Enlightenment is enough to make your efforts fall short. When you meet for the first time, you can describe your shortcomings, but don't really show them in your behavior. You can say that I am as stupid as a pig and want to arch a plate. It is extremely important to measure what you say and do.

Finally, let's make a summary. If you can do these four things, you can basically get an ideal chat.