You just report a playful attitude, take advantage of the opportunity to associate with him, and erase your infatuation with his unequal status before you got fat.
Anyway, you are in a good state now, and there are many boys chasing you, so you must be confident with him, so that you can show your true self in front of him, whether he likes it or not, and you will be happy anyway. Remember, this is a game, and the game is heartbeat.
Then get rid of him when you're done. You have a good face and a good figure, and you are not afraid of being chased by a good man. =
If he doesn't tell you, forget it. Think about it, he spends time and energy to speak ill of you in front of others, in fact, because he cares about you very much, because you are too dazzling. He is sad because he didn't get you he wanted.
Then make him unhappy. This time is "If you are well, it will be a bolt from the blue". Haha, chop him hard!
You should love yourself more and be more beautiful. As a man, don't please him, because a woman who please herself is destined to fall in love with her country. =