What if my girlfriend is fat and doesn't lose weight?

What if my girlfriend never wears a skirt?

How to persuade my girlfriend not to wear high heels?

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There will always be people who say that caring so much about appearance is obviously not enough love. Let's separate it as soon as possible. Why do people who like this theme have girlfriends, blablabla? I'll give a solution first, and then talk about my experience.

First, how fat is your girlfriend? Is it necessary to lose weight?

Is her body mass index above the healthy level? Is she prone to hyperglycemia, hyperlipidemia and cholesterol at a young age? Is it because she doesn't exercise all day and eats junk food? Did she start to have psychological obstacles and shadows because she was fat?

If the answer is yes, then I fully support your idea. Don't be tactful, just tell her, "Your weight is close to the dangerous value. Whether you like it or not, I will supervise your exercise and control your diet. It is absolutely impossible to be so fat. "

Generally, girls who are so fat will be nervous and anxious when they hear your words. However, you didn't dislike her appearance at this time. Your starting point is to improve her life, so don't be afraid of difficulties and contradictions at first. Persistence will definitely make her grateful. She will surely understand that being a healthy and beautiful girl after losing weight will make her happier than eating more cakes and fried chicken.

What should I do to gently persuade my girlfriend to lose weight?

Then, if the answer to the above question is "no", that is to say, her living habits are still healthy and normal, but her health is not good enough, then you really need to understand the truth that many things are not satisfactory.

You're here to ask "How to gently persuade your girlfriend to lose weight". You might as well go online and find out how many boys are asking "How to stop your girlfriend from losing weight". I can imagine what upset you: her girlfriend is chubby and always wants to eat snacks. She just saw her eating bread and sucking yogurt. Later, she cried and said that she was hungry and asked you to take her to eat chicken chops. That's it. The point is that she always eats like this, and her delicate face looks swollen. Other people's girlfriends have long legs and thin waist, and they look good in short skirts and shorts in summer. Look at her wearing a big T-shirt and wide jeans, and she doesn't pay attention to dressing up. Compared with other people's girlfriends, she really has no face, but she is very happy and doesn't know how to speak in distress situation.

But you know what other people's boyfriends are worried about?

"I liked her at first. I like girls with long legs and thin waist very much, but I feel disappointed after being together for a long time. She never eats dinner. Even taking her to various famous restaurants, she insisted on ordering only salads and fruits, eating greasy vegetables, counting rice grains and drinking several spoonfuls of clear soup. After eating, I put down my chopsticks and began to brush my mobile phone. She counted calories all day and ate an egg yolk moon cake in the morning. In the afternoon, she never eats again. She is really beautiful, and her chin is as sharp as a star. When my buddies saw her together, they all thought I was rich, but after a long time, I always felt that I could not live with such a girl for a lifetime. "

So, what you can't see is the besieged city.

No girl doesn't love beauty. She doesn't show nervousness now, but she hasn't fully awakened. Don't hurt your girlfriend with words like "Your clothes are too big for me" and "Look how beautiful and thin your girlfriend is". Never. Don't directly show your pursuit of skinny bones, or she will start a hunger strike and exercise as soon as she gets angry, and you will suffer if she loses weight. Oh, no, maybe she won't be your girlfriend.

If we have to teach you the method.

The key point is to subtly weaken the purpose.

1. Take her to various outdoor activities, such as mountain climbing, outing, cycling, swimming, badminton and camping. Nothing is more comfortable than sweating when you turn eating popcorn, watching movies and other activities into more interesting activities that you can go out.

Get rid of the habit of "taking you to eat delicious food", "I'll bring you whatever snacks you want" and "giving you a snack bag after the holiday", and urge her to drink more water at ordinary times. If it is better to have honey lemonade, buy more fruits with her, and let her develop the habit of eating less junk food at regular intervals for three meals. Barbecue hotpot is not mentioned for the time being. Within a month, your girlfriend will be very excited and exclaim with you.

2. Go shopping with her. My sister will be very upset if she encounters clothes that she likes but can't put on. Don't show disgust or regret. Tell her frankly that every dress has the right person. Even if she can't wear this dress, she is still beautiful. Then, she changed a little, and you gave a lot of affirmation, even an exaggerated surprise expression.

Girls are best coaxed. Sometimes when you are depressed, you will give up on yourself and eat and drink, but the person you like says to yourself, "God, you have lost a lot of weight. You look beautiful. I believe no girl can't help laughing. Don't worry, she won't work hard when she feels satisfied at this time. She will start to look at her figure carefully and become more beautiful.

Having said that, I must remind the theme: don't go too far! This sentence is too important to be said ten times.

Sometimes people will fall into a tireless and insatiable situation. You may find that your girlfriend starts counting calories too much and cares too much about fat content. When she gained a pound or two, she began to fidget. You will find that your carefree ex-girlfriend has become a strange and boring thin girl. Everyone's concentration and patience are limited. If she puts too much on her chubby body, she can't give you more care and love.

Do you really think that a girl likes a person, standing in front of him with a shelf, smiling without showing her teeth, and eating slowly with a small stack of sushi at the buffet? Do you really think she likes you more than the admiration of other members of the opposite sex? Do you really think you can spend your life with a fairy who doesn't eat human fireworks and get fat?

This is temptation, this is not love.

Because I like to be alone, I am curious about all the rare birds and animals in the world, whether it is thick red sauce or clear soup and white noodles, whether it is boiled and steamed or fried cold salad, whether it is cold salad with trembling teeth or pepper with smoking throat, whether it is crayfish in street stalls or exquisite salmon on plates. I really want to eat with him and be the most common, vulgar, contented and knowledgeable person. At that time, you will understand that lovers can't always hold the romantic surprise of concave movie tickets, couples shirts and candlelight dinners, and face-to-face mouth-to-mouth promises. Couples can eat cookies on the sofa and suck their fingers in the kitchen, saying they are delicious. I want a bite, too. They can still feel the incomparable charm in each other's hearts after showing the most sloppy, authentic and sloppy side.