Reason one: You always look down on people around you.
Both boys and girls, probably from middle school, often complain that their peers are too naive; When I grow up, I will complain that the opposite sex in the social circle is not good enough.
You look down on the ordinary opposite sex, you don't have cool work experience, you don't earn enough, and your family is too mediocre; You think the other person is not beautiful, gentle and considerate, virtuous and interesting.
When you look up, you find that there are a group of people who are excellent enough, 99.9% of whom meet your mate selection needs, but they can hardly regard you as a real partner. Those goddesses and goddesses not only inherited good genes, but also spent a lot of time becoming relatively perfect people; Even if they are well-intentioned, compassionate and considerate of the people's sufferings, it doesn't mean that they will be with you.
At this time, you have two choices: 1, make up your mind to reinvent yourself, that is, find the best; 2. Be realistic, start to feel the advantages of people around you, and choose the one who has the most contact with yourself.
I don't know how many people will choose one. Please don't make up your mind impulsively, keep learning, broaden your horizons, lose weight, whiten your skin and stay healthy. Nothing is easy. If you can't do it, then choose the second way. This road may be good. Maybe when you turn around, there will be a shy, kind and upright young man waiting for you there.
Of course, the higher you go, the wider the scenery. It is not necessarily wrong to be afraid of being tired and unwilling to go to bed. Being content with the status quo is also a life choice. Of course, you can choose to be single.
It's just that you need to remember how good you want and how much you have to pay.
Reason 2: Your fanaticism scares everyone away.
A friend met a boy at an activity. Boys look very gentle, but they haven't talked for a few words, and boys immediately begin to flatter girls and say a lot of sensational words. My friend was scared to death and wanted to run away on the spot.
Don't think that only boys will do such a thing, and so will girls.
Catch a boy and harass him for 24 days. As long as the other party ignores him a little (obviously there is no special relationship between the two), the girls begin to feel awkward in all kinds of grievances, making everything embarrassing and inexplicable.
Although there will be happy endings in TV dramas, in real life, you are generally regarded as a psychopath. This is why we often see that many passionate and vigorous love always ends in breaking up. Because to die is to live, fanaticism itself is a kind of self-expression, which has nothing to do with "love"
The opposite sex can be chased, which is a very interesting thing, but it can't be crazy to exaggerate. At least you have to know what kind of person the other person is before you can express your good feelings.
Too fanatical emotions mostly come from brain tonic, self-fantasy, and excessive lack of love. Enthusiasm will only make the other person feel scared and run away, and then you won't find anyone. Being rational, logical and normal will make you look more attractive.
Reason three: not enough face, not enough heart.
When I went to eat at noon, my friend said, "There is no aesthetic education in our education." "The only discussion about beauty is how noble and beautiful the aunt who sweeps the floor is." Not to mention that our admiration for ugliness is almost crazy.
We believe that the soul is noble, so the appearance does not need beauty, and dressing is superficial; I like to buy good-looking famous brands, and beautiful and quality things are even more money-worship; You must like to eat mutton skewers and roadside stalls, and it is politically correct to wear clothes for 30 yuan.
I have met many talented people, none of whom are ugly.
Those ingenious professional men and women are often very good-looking. Although there is no objective statistics, I still think that people's looks can reflect your social level and mental state; Appearance is positively related to the spiritual level.
When you are clean and beautiful, the first good impression you give others is already an advantage. No matter how miserable your life is, please try to look better.
The hair that girls don't like seems to be attracted by boys who haven't cut their hair for half a year, whose clothes are wrinkled, their shoes are dirty and they laugh obscene; Boys should not like girls with messy bodies and faded hair and nail polish.
If you want to make your life easier, if you want to make yourself more popular, if you want to make your life smoother, if you want to make your life better, then-please try to make yourself ... >>
Question 2: When someone asks you why you are single, what do you say? Everyone thinks that people like me should not be single, so they won't consider me.
Question 3: Do you know why you are still single? This question is simple, but it is not because we are ugly. First, girls nowadays are influenced by idol dramas and have no marriage experience. Everyone wants to target idol stars. Even prisoners can accept this as long as they are handsome. It can be seen from the divorce rate of the post-90s generation. Second, there are still some who are looking for support and can sell anything as long as they have money. Third, there is a serious imbalance between men and women in China. Women can naturally demand high standards, but 90% of the stops are based on looks.
Question 4: Please describe the reason why you are single in one sentence. Isn't there a novel, movie or TV series called: unwilling to settle?
Question 5: When someone asks you, why are you still single? How would you respond tactfully? 10, I also want to know. Let me know when you find a good answer.
Question 6: Do you know why you are single? Because you are stupid. What does this sentence mean? Did a woman say to you, then you can go back to my stupid place, I know you like me?
Question 7: If you are single now, what do you think is the reason? You can't fall in love without money.
Question 8: Why do you choose to be single? It refers to a person who still lives alone without a spouse when he is an adult, either never married, divorced or widowed. Now it can be extended to no boyfriend (girlfriend), or it can be called single. This Singles Day (Singles Day), Singles are not alone.
1. No family members or no family members.
Zuozhuan? Fourteen years in Zhao Gong, "old-age illness, special introduction"
Du Jin pre-noted: "Jiete, single person also."
Reflection? Shu zhi? "The True Story": "Only the wife of the Temple Governor Zhang Tongshe is single."
Don Wang Jian's poem "Self-injury": "The official capital is rewarded with four rewards and seven products, and then the marriage is still single."
It means that you don't bring anything empty.
Lu Xun's preface: "On the night of January 28th, a war started in Shanghai, which became more and more fierce. Finally, we had to leave alone, leaving books and newspapers under the line of fire. " [ 1]
Question 9: Why are you/I still single? Today's college students are the same as the former middle school students. Now the postgraduate entrance examination is the previous college entrance examination. Now the diploma of 985 graduate students is equivalent to the undergraduate diploma of a university in 2000. Get into 985 and get married for nothing. Come on!