On emotional issues, generally speaking, boys are more active, because girls are deeply influenced by traditional culture and are shy, afraid of being rejected on their own initiative and unable to put down their face. It doesn't really matter who takes the initiative. What's important is that whoever takes the initiative can seize the opportunity and do what he wants, so that he won't lose the best opportunity to express his love, and he won't regret losing his beloved because of hesitation for life.

On emotional issues, boys take the initiative to help develop feelings and relationships. For boys, if they take a fancy to the person they love, they should take the initiative, do something to make girls happy, say something that girls like to hear, and get in touch and know more. With a certain emotional foundation, we should seize the opportunity to express our feelings. Doing what you want to do is not only a performance of being responsible for yourself, but also a performance of being responsible for the girl you love. Maybe the girl has been waiting for this moment. Your initiative will make girls happy, and it is also normal that if this girl meets the boy's wishes, the boy will take the initiative to pursue this girl. If girls have high emotional intelligence and understand boys' minds, boys will always feel very comfortable. Even if girls are not so attractive, they will make boys very excited. In this way, the feelings of two people will soon sublimate and the relationship will be closer.

On emotional issues, if girls take the initiative, the emotional development between men and women will be easier. As the saying goes, men chase women across the mountain, and women chase men across the veil. Even if the boys don't like this girl very much at first, they can't bear to live up to her enthusiasm because of the girl's initiative, and there is a high probability that they will choose to be with her. In the eyes of boys, instead of taking pains to please a girl who doesn't like herself, it is better to accept a girl who is down-to-earth and good to herself.

But girls should also take the initiative to observe, grasp proper limit, and don't care too much. If the boy's goal is not you, or he is more concerned about his studies and hobbies at this stage, or he is not ready, then your excessive efforts are not worth it. You take the initiative in everything, and he doesn't show any signs Such a boy is either a small white face to keep your appetite, or a cowardly and incompetent person who can't stand your feelings. You will never be happy with such a person.