If you want to be arrogant and lose yourself under the burden of obligation. When a person enters middle-aged and old age, although he is at the peak of his life and his work at home is still stable, his obligations to him are still very deep. The obligation to be an upright father, husband and son is too great, which will make him feel that he has returned to a voluntary prison when he returns home. At this time, he will forget that his family gives not only obligations, but also warmth and love. Therefore, because he is looking for the warmth that he seems to lack for a long time, he will want to get it from a woman who is completely different from his wife.
The urge to be "asked" again. There are enough materials to tell you the ways that men must love, including trust, acceptance, gratitude, praise, recognition and encouragement. With the stable development trend of the family, children grow up slowly and have their own opinions. It seems that no one in the family can reach the impulse of being "requested and recognized" by men. This impulse is very rare for a man. Lifelong efforts and the pursuit of perfection are to better realize this feeling, so if he can't achieve it at home, he will look for it and feel considered.
Restore the connection between empathy and husband's words and relieve stress. If he actively tells you the objective facts of the affair, it shows that he has a little obligation and goodwill to you, which is also the best time to grasp his guilty conscience. You should gently say' _ _ _' to him, thank you for telling me, which means you still want to maintain this family. I do not blame you for this. What hurts the feelings between husband and wife the most? Because because you are in pain, too. If your chemical reaction is anger, it will suddenly increase the already shaky relationship, and his next sentence is likely to be' divorce'. If you choose a gentle attack, let his inner pressure be released from the reservoir and relieve the pressure of this relationship, there will be room for breathing.
Save those beautiful memories caused by empathy and not loving her husband's words. After a dull married life, how to make the already boring feelings become passionate has become very important. I cooked a bowl of fish head soup that my husband used to like very much. I hugged him from behind and said, "honey, I remember the first time I asked you to make fish soup. I forgot to put salt in it, and you drank him without saying a word." I will never forget that night because it really touched us. " Why is he so heartless when he has invested so much? Can the emotional diagnosis be kept?
Save your sympathy for your husband and enjoy new things. You need to learn how to make generate's already boring feelings warm. Tidy up the house and rearrange it. When your husband asked you curiously why you did this, you talked about it: "I have been paying attention to some information about home furnishings recently. In fact, people's physical and mental health and mood can be adjusted according to home furnishings. The environment at home is endangering people's quality of life, so I'm thinking about rebuilding my home so that we can live in warm conditions every day, so that our body and mind will be healthier. Don't you feel more comfortable at home? " At this time, no matter whether he agrees or not, he will nod and say, "There is also this view, which seems to be right."
External brand image is temptation. Cosmetic surgery is not recommended for appearance modification, because cosmetic surgery may endanger physical and mental health, and the adverse consequences it provides are unimaginable. According to the body adjustment, there can generally be big changes, such as losing weight. According to your excessive body fat, your curves will appear and your face will be more three-dimensional. Keep fit, it will look better when you wear it, your mentality will get better and better, and your mental outlook will be better.
Spiritual beauty is a long-term style. If appearance is the direct value to impress friends of the opposite sex, then spiritual beauty is the key factor to maintain long-term elegance. If a woman only has attractive appearance, but her personal behavior is vulgar, then even if she is beautiful, men will stay away from her. If you want to attract your man for a long time, you need to understand the essence of self-cultivation. A woman's background and accomplishment are reflected in her words and deeds, and she can improve her horizons and knowledge through training, study and travel. Elegant words and deeds, calm and confident in dealing with people, can attract men for a long time, and it is easier to keep husbands who feel the same way.