Filial piety is the most beautiful daughter-in-law in the world.
Although it is the hottest dog days of the year, there is still a breeze blowing by the river in the morning. _ _ pushed the wheelchair home before the fiery red sun shone too bright. The old man in a wheelchair always has a smile on his face, which shows that she is full of love for the daughter-in-law in front of her.
For ten years, _ _ has waited on her paralyzed mother-in-law so meticulously every day. In the immigrant village of Jinshan community in _ _ county, the villagers all say that _ _ the old man is unfortunate because she has suffered too much on earth, but she is very blessed.
Because she has a good wife-Liang.
_ _ The old man is unfortunate. _ _ _, who is 80 years old this year, is a hardworking and simple rural woman who married from Tongkang Village in _ _ _ County to Caikeng Village in the adjacent coral township. Her husband, Zhang, an old party member, has been the village party secretary for more than 20 years. Because her husband was busy with the work in the village for a long time, the farm work at home fell to _ _, and she gave birth to three sons. In that era of material shortage, it is conceivable how difficult life was, but she survived. Later, the sons got married one after another, and the two old people lived with their youngest son and daughter-in-law.
In _ _ _, because of _ _ construction, _ _ and the people in the village left their homes for generations and were arranged to emigrate to Jinshan community in _ _ county to start a new life. However, unexpected events happened. In the second year after emigration, Zhang, the husband of the old branch secretary _ _ _, died of sudden cerebral hemorrhage overnight. The bereavement gave _ _ a heavy mental blow, but unfortunately it still came to her frequently. In _ _ _, she suddenly became paralyzed by cerebral thrombosis and couldn't take care of herself at all. Just this year, her eldest son was diagnosed with gastric cancer, and her second son was diagnosed with intestinal cancer, and both of them reached the advanced stage and later passed away. The unfortunate arrival of fate _ is a pity, but we also thank her because she has a-
Good wife.
It is my responsibility to feed, dress and bathe, take care of my paralyzed mother-in-law and honor her for ten years. _ Since 1986 married the Zhang family, I have been very satisfied with my married life. My husband, Zhang, is an ordinary township cadre who works in the township government dozens of kilometers away from home. She takes her children to farm at home. At that time, although the family income was average, the in-laws were in good health and the family was harmonious and happy. After immigrating to the county seat, there was no farmland, so she rode a tricycle as a coolie and later cooked for the workers in the factory. "At that time, three generations were very happy. I didn't expect a series of changes later to change the situation in my family. " _ say. Now the task of taking care of the elderly falls on one person. "My two brothers died unfortunately. I should take care of the elderly, but the place where I work is far from home, and sometimes I have to work overtime on weekends and I can't go home. " Zhang said that his old mother had been in hospital for more than two months. After leaving the hospital, she used to work in a factory and could get multiple salaries. Seeing the old man lying in bed and unable to move, _ proposed "Stop earning money outside and stay at home to wait on her mother-in-law." In this way, I haven't left this house for ten years, and I have been with my mother-in-law all the year round. "Daughter-in-law and daughter are the same. Now that I am married to the Zhang family, my husband's parents are my parents. It is my responsibility to serve the elderly. "
Never leave, that is, there is love in your heart. It is easier said than done for a person to wait on her paralyzed mother-in-law all the year round, and it is difficult for others to understand the ups and downs. Feeding, bathing and dressing are all things that must be done every day. Old people have difficulty swallowing, and they should deliberately cook porridge every meal; With the aggravation of illness, the elderly can hardly swallow porridge, and they have to cook rice paste, jiaozi and noodles for their mother-in-law every meal. The old man couldn't go to the barber shop for a haircut because of his mobility, so he cut it himself. At first, he couldn't cut well, but now he is very skilled. What is more difficult is that the elderly are incontinent. Maybe when they get wet and dirty, they have to change 7 or 8 pairs of pants a day. Even if diapers are used in winter, they often get dirty. Old people not only can't take care of themselves, but also lose their language ability. What you need can only be achieved through the pronunciation and gestures of babbling, and only _ _ can quickly understand the meaning of the elderly and meet their needs. When asked about the experience of serving her mother-in-law in recent years, even if _ _ had no complaints, she was proud to say that she devoted herself to it. Over the years, she has supported all the old people, and she has taken care of every toilet. She has never slept in wet bedding because she has been wet for several years. "The old man is not easy in this life. When they are old, they suffer from illness and paralysis. When the younger generation has no reason not to take good care of them, everyone is old. " _ _ said that after her mother-in-law was paralyzed, she would help her turn over every night. Because of illness, old people often can't sleep at night. _ _ Talk to her and give her a massage. Sometimes she turns on the TV to accompany the elderly until three or four in the morning. As long as it doesn't rain, she will push the old man out for a walk, as we saw at first. In the winter of _ _, the old man fell into a coma again. People around me said that they couldn't save him this time, so they spent money to make the old man suffer. But _ _ immediately called 120 and sent the old man to the hospital for emergency treatment. After the doctor's full rescue, the old man finally woke up. Since then, _ _ has never left her mother-in-law. She said that her mother-in-law was very kind to her before, and even if there was a glimmer of hope, she would not give up. If anything happens to my mother-in-law, she will be very sad.
Abide by filial piety, that is the criterion of being a man. As the saying goes, there is no dutiful son for a hundred days, but _ _ winter goes to spring for ten years, and she takes care of her paralyzed mother-in-law without regrets and is praised as "the most beautiful wife" by local villagers. _ said that over the years, when serving her mother-in-law, she also shed a lot of tears, not because she couldn't go out to work to earn money, but because the old man would lose his temper inexplicably. Whenever this happens, she will hide and wipe her tears, but when she turns around, she has to apologize to her mother-in-law to prevent the elderly from worrying about her illness. "Over the years, _ has never been to her mother's house, and her mother is old, but she can't take care of herself, which makes her feel very guilty. Once, Zhang organized his family to travel, and he wanted to let _ who had never been far away go out to play. _ Although she really wanted to see the outside world and take the train, she finally gave up the opportunity to travel because she was worried about her mother-in-law. _ She is 53 years old. Due to long-term fatigue, she suffers from severe lumbar spondylosis and often suffers from unbearable pain, but she never seems uncomfortable in front of her mother-in-law. The village cadre said that based on her family's situation, the elderly will be given disability allowance, and the village will help her family as much as possible during the holidays. " As long as the old man is alive, I will take good care of him for a day. I can't leave any regrets, because I didn't do it. "_ said that as the daughter-in-law of the Zhang family, it is proper to take care of the elderly, and filial piety is also the minimum criterion for being a man.
Filial piety is the most beautiful daughter-in-law in the world.
The filial piety of all virtues is the first to show filial piety.
_ _, born in February of 1974, is an ordinary rural woman in Haokang Village of _ _ town. She has spent twenty spring, summer, autumn and winter explaining the traditional virtues of "filial piety" and "love". Since entering Haokang Village and this well-written home, she has worked hard to be a wife, daughter-in-law and mother with her youth, intelligence and diligence.
First, filial piety, love for parents, family harmony and happiness.
After reading the following passage, I don't know how you will associate it. Maybe I think it's just ordinary life details that can't be ordinary in ordinary life. But I think, in today's world where money is paramount and the world is declining, _ _-an ordinary housewife has conveyed to us a good atmosphere and positive energy of respecting, loving, respecting and helping the elderly. From the ordinary, we can see a happy family. Respect the elderly and help and love each other. Over the years, she has practiced filial piety with practical actions, confirmed her filial piety, showed a simple and sincere frank feeling of a rural woman, and interpreted a beautiful image of a rural daughter-in-law who is loving, kind and kind.
She has been living with her father-in-law and sister-in-law since she got married. At that time, my father-in-law was in his sixties and was sickly. _ _ waited on him like a father. My father-in-law is in poor health because he does heavy work all the year round, and most of his diet and daily life depends on people to take care of him. Her husband wants to go out to work to earn money, so the burden of serving her father-in-law falls on her. In summer, my father-in-law's leg was swollen and covered with a layer of dense blisters, and when it fell, a foul-smelling liquid flowed out. Whenever this happens, _ _ always scrubs and medicates the elderly. In winter, in order to prevent the elderly from eating cold rice, he poured half a basin of boiling water from a small basin, put rice and vegetables into the basin and fed them to the elderly bite by bite. In this way, she served the old people enthusiastically and never said a word of bitterness or tiredness. After several years, she had no regrets. In her mind, her husband's father is her father, and it is her responsibility to take care of her father-in-law. My father-in-law also has deep feelings for her. He said to everyone:' As long as I can't hear my daughter-in-law's voice and see her shadow for a long time, I feel a little worried, as if someone is missing around me. A good daughter-in-law is better than a good son. Later, my father-in-law was incontinent. In order not to let her father-in-law feel wronged, she changed his underwear without shyness and washed it with warm water. The pungent smell made her vomit, so she had to put on her father-in-law, wash the clothes, and squat down to turn over her stomach. Neighbors said he was lucky, but his father-in-law said, "My daughter-in-law took good care of him and let me live for a few more years."
A daughter-in-law's filial piety to her father-in-law is like new clothes on her body. After a long time, relatives and neighbors will see it and be moved by her behavior. The old man basks in the sun in winter and is talking about a good wife. An eighty-year-old neighbor boasted to everyone: "The village is so big and there are so many daughters-in-law. She has never seen such filial piety."
Second, get rich through hard work and run towards a well-off society through diligence and thrift.
_ _ Diligent housekeeping, reasonable arrangement of family income, never extravagance and waste. Buy household goods, wash, buy and burn thrifty, simple and thrifty. I have never worn any famous brands at home, and even furniture such as tables, chairs and sofas are very common wood products, which are not even as good as those of many ordinary people in the village. Even if I go shopping in the city, I can't bear to spend money to buy a car and ride her pedal for three rounds. No matter how late it is, I can't bear to have a meal in the street. Even if I buy a baked wheat cake to go home, I will put it in the hands of my mother-in-law and children. When you walk into _ _ _'s home, you will feel a rustic atmosphere of farmers, but it is simple and not messy, with neat items and clean and comfortable environment.
Third, build a harmonious neighborhood and build a new style of civilization spectrum.
_ _ In her life, she always thinks of others, sets an example, affects the whole village and unites her neighbors. She gets along well with her relatives and neighbors, treats people sincerely and doesn't care about details. Everyone thinks she is very kind and friendly. Whenever the neighbor encounters an emergency, she will arrive in time and work for free. When it rained, everyone ran home, but she knew whose meal was still drying and needed help to carry it into the house. If someone is short of people to build a house, she will take the initiative to help cook. She always tries her best to do the things before and after running. Whenever a neighbor is seriously ill, she will visit in time and lend a helping hand. She took an active part in various public welfare activities organized by the town.
Fourth, love precipitates in praise.
A warm family is the source of power for a harmonious society. _ _ advocated the civilization of the whole people with their own practical actions, carried forward the traditional filial piety spirit of the Chinese nation, and the traditional virtues of "respecting, respecting, loving, supporting and helping the elderly". The affection for the elderly and villagers shows the excellent qualities of an advanced farmer. Her love is from the heart and never floats with material and honor. In the praise of the villagers, she is more simple and simple, and her love slowly sinks deeper. In this increasingly noisy world, her love and actions have brought us the spring breeze of a harmonious society and gradually precipitated a lot of love in everyone's heart. Isn't her filial piety to the elderly and enthusiasm for the villagers exactly what our society advocates?
Filial piety is the advanced deeds and experience of the most beautiful daughter-in-law in the world.
My name is _ _, and I'm 57 years old. I am an ordinary peasant woman in the fourth resident group of _ _ _ District _ _ Township _ _ Village. Thirty-six years ago, I married Ma, a villager in our village. Since I set foot in this family, I have tried to make this family a happy, harmonious, warm and loving well-off family with my optimistic personality and hard-working spirit. Only she knows how many ups and downs there are during the period. I silently interpret the traditional virtues of "filial piety" and "love" with my own practical actions, and show the beautiful image of a kind, kind and sincere rural woman.
36 years ago, I came to this home and regarded my parents-in-law as my parents. As long as my parents-in-law are willing to live with us, I will let them live with us. I have always believed that it is our responsibility and obligation to honor the elderly, and it is also an inculcation for us to be children before our death. Twenty years ago, my father-in-law died of illness, leaving my mother-in-law alone. I am duty-bound to support her. For more than ten years, our mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have respected and loved each other and lived in harmony. Now that her mother-in-law is old, it is the time when she needs me and the best time for me to repay her.
My mother-in-law is eighty-five years old this year. As she grew older, it became more and more inconvenient for her to eat and live. I insist on lifting and emptying the urinal for her every day, and we will move the small table to the place where my mother-in-law sits when eating. My mother-in-law has been suffering from gallstones for many years, and her teeth are almost falling out. I cook at least one light and rancid meal for her to chew and digest every day. As long as it is slack season, I will cook different meals for her every day, such as steamed buns, jiaozi, vegetable rolls, oil cakes and vegetable boxes, and I will cook whatever she wants. In recent years, my mother-in-law is not only clumsy, but also deaf She often answers irrelevant questions. You say east, she says west. Sometimes she has to say a word in her ear several times before she can hear it clearly. I took the trouble to tell her several times every time. Considering the problems in her heart, I always only report good news and not bad news. My mother-in-law often gets angry with me when she is in a bad mood, and her voice is very loud. I sometimes lie in bed and secretly cry, but I forgive the old man again and again when I think of my parents' teachings before my death. For decades, I have never quarreled with her once, and my face has turned red once, because I have always had a capitalized word "filial piety" in my heart. Last winter, my mother-in-law got angry and caused deep inflammation in her lower body. I personally cleaned and changed her dressing, and also cooperated with electric roasting and infusion. I insist on washing it three times a day and changing it once, taking great pains. Looking at my sick mother-in-law, I feel the same pain and sadness in my heart. I stayed at my husband's bedside for two days and two nights. After our careful care, my mother-in-law has recovered her former sunshine and cheerfulness.
I don't know how many years have passed, and my mother-in-law's hair is cleaned and trimmed by herself. My mother-in-law has been wide and fat all her life, so it is difficult to buy clothes that fit her. So I tore off the cloth from the market, sometimes I made it myself, and sometimes I sent it to the tailor's shop, often making two or three pieces at a time to facilitate the elderly to change it. I take care of my mother-in-law's clothes from the inside out all the year round. For so many years, I like to watch my mother-in-law put on new clothes. As soon as she puts on new clothes, she praises everyone, and her wrinkled face can smile into a flower. I am also very happy to see the happy life of the old man.
I don't know how many years later, in order to make my mother-in-law happy, we began to celebrate the birthday of the elderly. From the first one or two tables to the present three or four tables, I am busy for her birthday for several days every year, buying food and preparing meat, washing dishes and preparing tables and chairs. On her birthday, all her children and descendants came to celebrate her birthday. This day is the happiest day for the elderly. Looking at the children and grandchildren, the old man's face often smiles into a flower. Every time I am busy with the old man's birthday party, I never complain, although my back aches and my legs hurt. When I saw the flower on my mother-in-law's face, I felt everything was worth it. I want to say to the old man: Mom, your happiness is our happiness, and your happiness is our happiness. I sincerely wish your old man happiness and a long life.
In many years of life, I not only honor the elderly, but also live in harmony with my neighbors at all times. My mother-in-law has a particularly bad temper. She sometimes speaks rudely and often offends people. Every time I apologize to each other. Because of my humor, sincerity and enthusiasm, my neighbors also forgave my mother-in-law and often turned enemies into friends.
Since I entered this family, I have not only respected the elderly, but also got along well with my husband's brothers and sisters. My second sister, in particular, married to my neighboring village, Ma Shang Village. Her husband died of illness many years ago, leaving two orphans and widows to live alone, and the family was particularly poor. When we buy medicine for crops, we always buy one for her family, sometimes deliver it in person, and sometimes let others take it. In order to increase her family's income, I often find a job for her son. I heard that there was a shortage of people to dig wells and workers were needed to build houses, so I contacted him quickly. If my nephew doesn't want to say anything to her uncle, he will call me to communicate. I am also very pleased that my children trust me and treat me as a relative. Sometimes my second aunt's family is in urgent need of money, and we often help them tide over the difficulties when they are not well off.
Over the years, I have always felt that it is natural to take care of the elderly. My husband is also a dutiful son, and I am often moved by his filial piety. For decades, husband and wife have loved each other, respected each other as guests, cared for and cared for each other, and worked together to build a harmonious home.
It is often said that it is not difficult to do a good deed, but it is difficult to do it all your life. I have practiced filial piety for nearly 40 years, and I have only done my duty in my ordinary daily life. I believe: love can be transmitted, and my love has been deposited in the soul of my father-in-law who has died for many years; Precipitated in the heart of my husband who has been with me for many years; Precipitated in the actions of my three children who love me deeply; Precipitated in the hearts of my six brothers and sisters. In the future, I will continue to dedicate my filial piety and love to our harmonious society with my practical actions, so that this unpretentious spirit of respecting the elderly can be passed down from generation to generation in China.
Filial piety is the most beautiful daughter-in-law in the world.
In _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ When you get rich, you should not forget all the villagers. _ _ Called several left-behind women in the village to run the farmhouse with her. The sisters in the kitchen are talking and laughing, and they are happy.
_ _ a deeply understands this truth, and she also does it herself. At home, husband and wife respect each other, support each other, help each other, face difficulties, solve problems through consultation, and become a model husband and wife envied by everyone. _ _ Do your best for your mother's family and be impeccable for your husband's family. Some people say that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult to get along with and an insoluble contradiction. _ _ made the best excuse for this. In daily life, she respects her mother-in-law very much, and she has never been red-faced with her mother-in-law since she got married. Recently, my mother-in-law was hospitalized for a cerebral infarction, and now she is in the intensive care unit of Nanchang Affiliated Hospital. _ _ Husband was tied up with his job, so _ _ resolutely closed the farmhouse where business was booming, and waited on his mother-in-law, wiped his back and washed his body, ate and drank Lazar, without complaint. In order to keep an eye on her mother-in-law's recovery, she often stays up all night for fear of something going wrong. Doctors and nurses say that relatives and daughters will not change.
Some people say that if love only stays between family members, then this kind of love is insignificant, but _ _ family members extend this kind of love to relatives, friends, neighbors and strangers, and achieve great love. Their family has always been willing to care about their neighbors. As long as everyone needs help, the husband and wife will definitely help as much as possible without saying anything. When people mention their modesty and enthusiasm, they always give thumbs up: this family has nothing to say. In addition to caring about the neighborhood, their family can also actively call for and participate in various activities in the village. Take the lead in donating money for the Ya 'an earthquake, celebrate the birthdays of left-behind children and widowed elderly people with the villagers, and give help to poor families in society within their power.
Filial piety is the most beautiful daughter-in-law in the world.
"The _ _ family's daughter-in-law is too powerful, good for her old man's house and good for her neighbors." In Fuping Village, Shilong Town, _ _ _ _, everyone speaks of _ _ _'s daughter-in-law, and they all give a thumbs up.
_ _ is from Loudi, Hunan Province, and Chen is from Fuping Village, Shilong Town, _ _ City. 20__, they met and fell in love in Suzhou because of their working relationship. In _ _ _, they went back to _ _ to register for marriage, and _ _ followed her husband back to Fuping Village to live. In _ _ _, two sons of _ _ were born one after another. She runs a kindergarten in the village and organizes relatives and friends to help people in need around her. Under her leadership, the Chen family is happy, the neighbors are harmonious and help each other. Recently, _ _ family was rated as "the most beautiful family" in our city.
"It is a blessing for my family to meet such a daughter-in-law."
Living in _ _ _, which is far away from home, didn't take too much time to get used to it, because she has a good mother-in-law, Aunt Yang. The first difficulty _ _ faces is the language barrier. When she first arrived in Fuping Village, she had to stay at home because she was unfamiliar with the environment and had poor communication. The inadaptability of _ _ caught Aunt Yang's attention. After a period of observation, Aunt Yang took the initiative to shoulder the heavy responsibility of "matchmaking", and she often visited her neighbors with _ _.
"Director, bring your daughter-in-law out again!" Aunt Yang has worked in the village committee for more than 20 years. In recent years, she served as the director of women in the village Committee and got along well with the villagers. With the help of Aunt Yang, lively, cheerful, diligent and generous _ _ gradually became one with the villagers. _ _ is very filial. She takes the initiative to do housework on weekdays. She doesn't forget to buy clothes for the elderly and take care of her grandfather who is over 70 years old during the Spring Festival. In _ _, Aunt Yang went to the People's Hospital of _ _ for glaucoma surgery. _ _ She took care of Aunt Yang in every possible way, and all the patients in the same ward admired her with envy: "This daughter-in-law is just like her own daughter, even closer than her own daughter."
"My daughter-in-law is very kind, filial and capable. I like it very much. " Aunt Yang took _ _ by the hand and said.
"My mother-in-law is also very kind to me. The first time I went home, I was worried that my' explosive head' would be annoying. I didn't expect her to be very open-minded and very good to my foreign daughter-in-law. " I was very happy when I heard my mother-in-law praise herself and talked about her first visit to Chen family. The villagers are always enthusiastic about their newly-married daughters-in-law. Until _ _ took his son back to Hunan to visit relatives, he could still hear the voice of the villagers teasing-"Xiaoyan, will you bring your son back?" "Director, aren't you afraid that your daughter-in-law will take your grandson away and bring it back?" Every time I hear the ridicule of the villagers smiling, _ _ mother-in-law replies, "I don't want to leave such a good mother-in-law." "I am relieved to have such a good daughter-in-law."
_ _ My husband and I have known each other for 10 years, and they have always taken care of each other; Married to Fuping Village for 8 years, _ _ got along well with her husband's family, and the family never blushed because of trivial matters in life. Under the education of _ _, her children are also very filial to their elders and often help the elderly to beat their backs and pinch their legs. The family also drove around on holidays, which made all the people happy. _ _ In order to close the affection between family members, family members who are far away from Hunan have been invited to _ _ for many times.
"Since childhood, my mother has taught us to be filial to the elderly and to be filial to our in-laws after marriage. Just like my parents, I also educate my children in this way. " _ _ said.
"We are so lucky to meet such kind people."
"Their home is really difficult. If they want to help, then help a little. " When it comes to the families I have sponsored, _ _ cried.
By chance, _ _ saw a crowdfunding message in the circle of friends: a primary school student in Tanghuang village next door was scalded, and his condition was critical and he needed a lot of treatment. _ _ My family and I put forward the idea of funding, and my family supported it. So, _ _ took relatives and friends to Tanghuang Village to check the situation on the spot. Confirmed by the village Committee, the injured child surnamed Dai, his father was blind, his mother was mentally abnormal, and the family conditions were very difficult. After confirming the authenticity of the message, _ _ through the WeChat circle of friends
Online channels such as mobilizing relatives and friends to donate money and materials, Chen's husband also mobilized his colleagues in the rural Taobao system to donate together. _ _'s loving behavior infected the people around him, and they also extended a helping hand. It turns out that as early as _ _ _ _, _ _ had already started to do charity work with his family. She learned from a friend that two girls in a nearby junior high school were facing dropping out of school because of family difficulties. After consulting with her husband, Qi Li, a family member, sponsored two girls to complete their junior high school education.
When she became a mother, she paid more attention to her children. She found that most of the children in the village are left-behind children, living with grandparents. She decided to start a kindergarten. _ _ rented a private house near the village Committee compound, renovated it, recruited teachers and students, and the kindergarten was set up. Children in the village can go to nearby kindergartens to reduce the burden on their parents and improve safety. With the efforts of _ _, the reputation of kindergartens is getting better and better, especially for parents who work outside the home. _ _ I know that children's growth is inseparable from their parents' care, and left-behind children are more eager for their parents' care. She establishes communication platforms such as WeChat group and QQ group for each class, organizes video calls between students and parents from time to time, and shares photos of students studying and living in the park in the group.