No. 1 Ma Baonan is my college classmate, Xiaohe. Although Xiaohe is a little dark, he is handsome and smooth and obedient, so he is very popular with female students in college. His wife is also our classmate. The two people have a good relationship and often show their love in class. We always think that Xiao He is gentle and considerate, which is simply a model of a good man at home.
However, the couple are very unhappy. It turns out that the gentle and considerate Xiaohe has a mother who likes to criticize. Xiaohe is a soft-hearted mambo. Not long after they got married, little black mother moved into their house. Because Xiaohe is a salesman, he is often not at home, and Xiaohe's wife often works late because of work needs. Xiaohei's mother calls her son every three days, saying that her daughter-in-law abused her and refused to cook for her. Although Xiaohe knew that her daughter-in-law would not do this, she stood on her mother's side and asked her to be more tolerant of her mother-in-law. At first, the daughter-in-law could bear this unwarranted charge, but after a long time, her mother-in-law's problems became more and more, and the quarrel between Xiaohe and her daughter-in-law became more and more. In less than a year, the two ended in divorce. The students are crying.
No.2 Ma Baonan is a male colleague of mine, Xiao Li. Xiao Li's wife's family is in business, and the business is quite big; Xiao Li is just an ordinary family member. After they get married, Xiao Li's mother often shows off to her neighbors how rich her daughter-in-law is, and she will be rich in the future. Xiao Li's mother often borrows money from Xiao Li to satisfy her growing vanity and shopping desire. At first, I borrowed less, 35 thousand, and later I borrowed 12 thousand In fact, everyone with a discerning eye knows that this kind? Borrow? If you borrow something, you can't get it back. Xiao Li naturally knows. Xiao Li's wife and Xiao Li discussed the problem. Their family's money was not blown by the strong wind, but earned by her parents. We can't let our mother-in-law lose her family endlessly. Xiao Li also agreed not to lend money to mom at will. But whenever my mother borrows money, Xiao Li lends it without a bottom line. Sometimes when Xiao Li's wife doesn't give money, Xiao Li and her colleagues lend money to her mother, but in the end, her wife pays back the money.
Because of Xiao Li? Foolish filial piety? The two eventually ended in divorce. Before the divorce, Xiao Li's wife helped Xiao Li pay off more than 400,000 foreign debts.