I have been a full-time mother for five years. Although it has not been pointed by the seven aunts and eight aunts around. But the psychology is also unwilling for a long time, especially in the first year. At first, there was a big psychological gap, and I felt worthless and completely derailed from society. Now I have adapted to this profession.
Big brother kindergarten big class. My day begins with buying breakfast at seven in the morning. At about 8: 20, the whole family went out to send the boss to kindergarten, and then I took the car to pick up the second child. Buy food on the road, feed the second child at home, play with you and read picture books. /kloc-sleep at 0/2: 30 and get up around 2: 30. When he sleeps at night, I have to mop the floor and prepare dinner. At three o'clock, take the second child and walk to the bus stop to see the boss.
Pick it up at 4: 30 and go to the playground for half an hour. It was already six o'clock when I got home. Come back to nurse the second child and bathe the boss. Have dinner around 8: 00, go to bed at 9: 30 and show the picture book to the boss or accompany him to do his math homework. Lying around 10: 30, I fell asleep listening to Newton's audio.
It was 1 1: 30 when it was all over. So today is over. Busy every day into a gyro, thank God for his care. Both children are easy to take care of.
So I don't think staying at home is easy at all.
I just became a stay-at-home mom. Let's talk about mine
I wake up every morning and I'm still much better now. I can sleep until six or seven. The first thing to do is to boil water and replace the boiling water yesterday. If the child is still awake, prepare breakfast for yourself quickly. If she wakes up, it is very likely that she can't have breakfast.
When the weather is hot, I will take her out every morning and evening. It's cold recently. I will go out at noon, and sometimes I can't go out all day.
Wash and feed the child when she wakes up, and then go to bed for the first time in a day. Every time she dozes off, she will cry for a while and hug her.
When she fell asleep, it was almost noon, so she prepared lunch for herself. Sometimes I wake up halfway, and then I start feeding her and accompanying her. Half-cooked, she can only keep it and order takeout instead, but sometimes she is naughty and can't eat it when it is delivered.
Sometimes I try to keep cooking, holding her in one hand and cooking in the other. She has been wriggling in her arms for fear of hurting her. Sometimes she has to give up when she is half cooked.
Sometimes she eats out, but now it's almost five months, and she has learned to grab bowls. Take it from her when your hand is not looking, and she will burst into tears, which is embarrassing.
What is better in the afternoon is that she will sleep for a long time, so hurry up and tidy up the room. She changed her dirty clothes and washed herself by the way. Sometimes when she doesn't sleep, she stays with her and coaxes her, and sometimes she coaxes herself to sleep.
After putting her to bed at night, she washes clothes and cleans. It's almost 12 o'clock, so I need to feed her again in the middle of the night. Fortunately, she doesn't need breast milk, but now the little guy has learned to play. Sometimes she plays for a while after eating milk, and she is already sleepy, but she still has to think about whether she will kick off the quilt and keep touching her hands.
My mobile phone alarm clock is 5: 00 to 6: 00, just for fear of falling asleep too deeply, but my girl wakes up earlier than me and sometimes wakes her up.
I used to think that being a full-time mother was very simple, that is, looking after the children. Now I think it is really difficult. Because of the nature of work, my husband travels for more than 20 days a month, so I take care of the children alone most of the time, and sometimes I insist on giving myself psychological counseling.
I am a full-time nanny and a second-child mother.
Many people say it's easy to bring a baby. If you don't have to go to work every day, just bring two babies to cook. Every time I hear these words, I always have an anonymous fire. Taking care of the baby is not as simple as you think. Taking care of the baby includes his daily diet. You should think about what to give him today to be nutritious and healthy, and what to do tomorrow. Arrange three meals a day, including washing clothes. Children's clothes are changed frequently and dirty, and it is possible to change two or three sets every day. The baby should be washed when he is asleep, but not when he is awake.
Let's talk about it. I always hug when I go out, just like my family is working outside and the traffic is heavy. I take care of the baby more carefully, I can't relax for a moment, and my spirit is highly nervous. I'm not free yet. I take care of my two children by myself. Wherever I go, I always take care of my children. Now my friends around me will not call me when they go out to play, even if they call me. It is inconvenient for me to take care of my children for a while, which will also affect their interest in playing, so I am basically around my family and children now, and I have no free time at all.
Finally, to sum up, it is not easy to take your baby to work, but it will make you out of touch with society.
I am a stay-at-home mom. Dabao is three and a half weeks old and Bauer is one year old. I brought my own. I'm not complaining when I write the following. I am very happy to have two healthy and lovely babies. I just write my own experience and share it with you!
Today's itinerary is like this:
Dabao gets up at six! I didn't go to kindergarten this week because of a cold and cough.
At 6:40, Bauer got up and a busy day began!
At seven o'clock, I dressed Erbao, poured water into the thermos and began to make breakfast. Father is taking a bath in the toilet.
Eat at 7: 30
At eight o'clock, my father went out to work, and Erbao had a good meal. I started washing dishes, sweeping the floor, cleaning the room and preparing medicine for Erbao.
Take Erbao out for a walk at 9: 30.
/kloc-Go home at 0/0: 30, eat fruit and prepare lunch.
1 1:30 lunch
12:30 Bauer is asleep, Dabao wants to shit, and I wash dishes and clean the kitchen.
1:30, Bauer got up and Dabao's nap was ruined.
Go for a walk at two o'clock
Go home at 3:30 to add meals.
At 4:40, take Dabao Bauer to the clinic for a follow-up visit to see a cold and cough.
Go home at half past five to cook.
Eat at half past six.
At half past seven, Bauer went to bed.
Dabao goes to bed at half past eight.
At nine o'clock, I started cleaning the kitchen, scrubbing the floor, washing clothes and so on.
10:00, when the father came home from work, I was too tired to say anything → _→
I am tired and happy! Come on (_? )?
As a nanny, I don't think it's easy to take care of children. More tired than going to work, but also very happy. The child is very thoughtful. He is uncertain all the time, which can make you sleep badly, lose your temper easily, and hurt all over in class 24 hours a day. But it will also bring you happiness, and the baby's growth and growth will give you a unique sense of accomplishment. It also made me realize that it is not easy to be a parent. I thank my parents for bringing me up.
On the surface, many people seem that stay-at-home mothers don't have to go to work and stay at home every day.
Or just dress up and take the children out shopping. It's really fun and relaxing.
But in fact, how hard it is for a stay-at-home mother, you only know when you are a stay-at-home mother.
Actually, I'm not a very sociable person, so I don't have many friends at ordinary times, and there are not many dinners.
But occasionally.
However, since I gave birth to a child, I have been taking care of it myself until now when the child is over two years old. In these two years, I only went out to eat once. It's just that I didn't take my children out for dinner once, about an hour at noon.
In the rest of the year, I go out for dinner four or five times at most, all with my children. Every time the children run around, I follow them into the restaurant because I'm worried that he will hit someone or be in danger.
So, after having children, I really don't want to go out for dinner. I'd rather buy something and go home for a meal.
Go to work and start maternity leave after 9 months of pregnancy.
I haven't slept once since I got pregnant. I wake up countless times every night. Especially during lactation, children will be much better after weaning. At night, the child stopped crying, but I have formed a biological clock and woke up at that time.
When the child is older, change the diaper. Pick up the children every night and take them to pee.
Looking back now, the most painful thing during the whole period should be the lack of freedom, because I have to take a child with me wherever I go.
Mastitis during lactation must be around 10. That taste is really more painful than caesarean section.
So whenever I hear someone say that staying at home is easy, or look down on staying at home, I really want to slap him to death.
Since giving birth to a child, no stay-at-home mother can feel the happiness of sleeping and waking up naturally. Because Xiong Haizi at home usually gets up early. And as long as he wakes up, you don't need to sleep at all, because he will come and pick your eyes, nose and mouth. Until I pulled you out of bed.
I cook, clean the room and wash clothes every day. Xiong Haizi is really a bad man's machine You are cleaning the floor here, and the place that may be cleaned there is in a mess again. I feel that there will never be a quiet time at home.
In the eyes of others, you may have done nothing this day, but only you know how many times you cleaned the house this day.
So I really admire a stay-at-home mom, because I am also a stay-at-home mom now, and I know the hardships. I especially admire them. I want to tell them that stay-at-home mothers have no economic income, but they are also a career. Because we don't want our children to be separated from their mothers, we choose to give up our jobs and exchange our spare time for the company of our children for several years.
So stay-at-home moms are the greatest people in the world.
I am a stay-at-home mom, and I tell you from my personal experience that staying-at-home mom is really not easy at all.
I haven't slept for a while since the baby was born. I wake up many times a night, mostly nursing, and changing diapers in the second month.
365 days a year, I accompany her every day, and my grandmother will take care of her for a while occasionally, but others can only help me play, nurse and sleep, and I have to rely on myself.
Every child's situation is different, some are sleeping slag babies, and some are sleeping god babies. Unfortunately, my baby is the former, which means I don't have much time to do what I want to do.
No matter how old you are, you can't leave people as long as you are awake. When I was a child, I woke up as soon as I put it down, which led to sleeping in my arms. Holding for a long time and incorrect posture caused tenosynovitis in my left hand.
When she is old, she turns over and can't let her play alone. She can only watch. Housework and other things can only be done when her father is at home. Her father also works shifts, and he is often in a state of catching up on sleep. She can't take care of it at all. Only occasionally, I can help look after the baby. I can cook, wash clothes and mop the floor. I have to spend time doing these things.
After I can climb, I have to do a good job of cleaning and expand my activities. Fortunately, her father mopped the floor for me every day when I was not too tired after work, which lightened my burden. I concentrate on playing with her during the day, and she eats after a short sleep. Since I gave birth to a baby, I haven't eaten two of my three meals on time.
Up to now, I have been running all over the floor, but I often let you hug me, stop you from working, make a complementary food for her, move everything out, and have a meal and it will be everywhere.
But even so, it is better than her illness. When she is ill, her mother will die. The child is uncomfortable and can't express it. She can only release it by crying, always hugging, or she will cry.
Being a full-time mother, you have to take care of yourself when you are sick. No one can replace me, but I am tired and sweet.
I didn't miss every step of her life. I witnessed her looking up, turning over and calling her mom and dad for the first time. ...
These are inestimable and irretrievably missed by money. I only have one childhood, so I want to spend a good time with them and give me a good time.
Seeing her heartfelt smile is the happiest thing for my old mother.
I hope she can always be happy, happy, healthy and smooth.
Let me briefly talk about my time of day. Get up at seven in the morning to prepare the children's breakfast. My son is only ten months old and needs to eat some food with high nutritional value, so he usually gets up early and goes to the vegetable market to buy it and cook. When my husband doesn't go to the company, you can help me look after the children a little and try to buy delicious food quickly. When the son wakes up, he needs to change clothes, wash his face and change diapers. Feed the meal. Then I started washing clothes. Because children's clothes must be washed by hand, hand washing is better. Then wash clothes and play with the children for a while. At about ten o'clock, I began to eat breakfast that was already cold. Play with the children for a while. He began to sleep in the morning. I quickly put my clothes into the washing machine, started preparing lunch and washing dishes in the morning. When lunch was ready, the child almost woke up and began to feed him again. After feeding, I began to eat. Moreover, when I eat, I will keep rummaging through my clothes and holding the bowl in my hand ... it's like a war. I have finished my lunch, it is estimated that it is past two o'clock. I'm ready to take my children to take a nap again. About this time, many boys think I can still take a nap with my children. This is the time to dry dishes and clothes in the morning. Then dinner will be prepared in the evening. Bathe the baby after meals and put the baby to bed. Mopping the floor ... has been busy until ten o'clock at night and eleven o'clock. Do it again and again every day.
In fact, women are more tired.
One day for a stay-at-home mother: get up in the morning to dress the baby, relieve herself, prepare breakfast for the baby, clean herself (wash her face and brush her teeth, change clothes because she doesn't want to be a yellow-faced woman), clean the room, wash clothes by hand, get her some fruit to eat, buy lunch, clean up the kitchen, coax her to take a nap (maybe she can't sleep, my baby basically doesn't take a nap), and take her to play for a while. It's almost 10 after the baby falls asleep, and I can have some time to myself every night after 10. This is my baby's day, and I haven't said that the baby is disobedient. When the magic man is around, my baby is basically myself. Is it easier than going to work? Someone envies?
I'm Mama Shudong.
Full-time nanny, baby at home 1 year and 4 months.
Full-time nanny, all year round, is harder than going to work in 996. It's really 007. My husband is out of town and comes back once a month for up to 3 days. Children are basically at my mother's place until they are one year old, so they will help me look after them at night. It's cold now, and I'm taking care of the children alone.
In fact, physical fatigue is ok, the key is that no one understands. The weather is good recently, and I take my children downstairs for a walk every day. Children go to bed after 10 every day. She fell asleep and began to clean. /kloc-she didn't sleep before 0/2. .......
I am happy to watch my children grow up day by day, and I don't want to miss their growth.