The word "male" only shows that men are completely utilitarian and practical. Cao Xueqin said that daughters are like water and men are like mud, which is also the key point. In the old society, women had no right to be officials, so they kept their natural nature and could not engage in heavy manual labor, which made them look elegant. Men, on the other hand, bear the interests of their families and the demands of society. They must be obedient and competent. They roll in the mud every day. Being strong is strong enough, but I don't think it's beautiful. In modern society, manual labor has become unimportant, but whether a man has money and power is still the standard for society to measure the value of a man. And this is an era when the door of desire is wide open and greed can never be filled. Men are unfortunately alienated species. The exquisite women in the novel who are willing to live a pure life with their lovers have long been extinct, and men can only move forward like derailed trains, but they can't retreat. I am surrounded by such men, who shout that men are tired of living, while looking for the same erotic women, money and power with wide eyes. All kinds of secular so-called men's norms make them angry, so what if they get promoted and get rich? I just think men are so dirty. What distastes me most is their frivolous attitude towards women's bodies. When it comes to making love, I think it is a very sacred thing, but a man is just a brain that reaches his crotch. For them, making love is just "fucking" a woman, but for her, it's all self-centered. Androgen does not exist for possessiveness and conquest, and estrogen does not exist for possession and conquest! This is probably the male world of men. I asked myself, what kind of man do I like? I think, people are first of all people, and they are bred by the essence of heaven and earth. They must convey a fresh and natural atmosphere, have a healthy and natural humanity, and let people smell the fragrance of mint and lemon. No matter how society squeezes the raw liquid of life like a juicer, it must stubbornly retain the most primitive fragrance. Men who don't like materialization, maybe the so-called mature men in modern society are just men who really distort themselves. Because society has low requirements for women, women are relatively real. Of course, I also like mature men, and my boyfriend is of this type, but this is a secular and pragmatic love, and the man in my dream is not like this. The kind of man I like may not exist in such a utilitarian society. Because they are beautiful, too beautiful to adapt to the reality of rough troops, people say "you are still not a man" and completely deny it. Beauty is destined to be out of tune with what is too realistic. I like men who are feminine. You say they are good at water, smoke and flowers, but you can't say they are shemale. The shemale is a dirty mire, but they are pure and elegant moonlight. When I was a child, I liked the beautiful teenagers in comics, but I didn't dare to use the word feminine. When describing the beauty of men is limited to one word "handsome", girls dare not be too infatuated. It was not until that day that I suddenly saw the word "masculine age" that I suddenly realized that large tracts of gorgeous words and chapters came to my mind and felt that these chapters could be used in the beauty of men. With these beautiful essays, men's temperament becomes soft, their eyes become warm, they are no longer bound by secular utilitarianism and so-called masculine standards, and they begin to have aura and ethereal temperament. Light and ethereal, you can often understand the true meaning of life. Isn't this where men praise women? Why can't men do this? People always say that men pursue truth and women live in it, so why not allow men to worship beauty directly and live in it? The man in my dream is like a deck of cards. A card shows an image, and together it becomes the most perfect image. On the first card, there is a man in a light blue sweater with short hair. He is only about eighteen or nineteen years old, and his hair is dyed light yellow. His facial features are extremely beautiful, his nose is scary, his eyebrows are like ink painting, his lips are faintly flushed, his eyes are shining with the color of the sun, and he is holding a puppy and showing a pure smile on the green grass. The smell of the sun is mixed with the green air of the grass, which is called the beauty of nature and the beauty of sunshine. The third card is the man in the rain. His eyes were slightly closed, and it seemed that he was still steaming faintly. His nose is straight and straight, and there is a perfect side in the powder. His hair was wet, and drops of water slipped down the tip of his nose, drawing a perfect curve. A lock of hair clung to the face, and the white shirt was open at the neckline, revealing a sexy collarbone. Such a man makes women want to commit crimes against him. He has many such cards, drawing the beauty of men of all colors, and together, flashing the figure of people. This is a feminine man. I can smell the faint smell of tobacco from him, read his tenderness from his eyes, feel his comeliness from his slender fingers, and see his innocence from his smile. Most importantly, I no longer play the role of being "fucked" by men during sex. He can see my beauty, and I can see his beauty. He kissed me with his mouth, and I bit his collarbone, his fingers and his joints with my teeth. We are appreciating and praising each other until we reach each other's climax. Like a man with aesthetic feeling, it is better to be pure and elegant according to the rich man. In reality, there are few feminine men and many sissy men, so that's not what I appreciate. But in the entertainment circle, Chinese mainland doesn't. I have seen Japan, South Korea and Taiwan Province Province. I'm not a groupie, and I won't shout "I love you", but I appreciate their character. In The Witch's Condition, isn't 16-year-old Long Ze the angel who guides Caicai to pursue bravely? In "Winter Love Song", the image of Bae Yong-jun's integration of the beauty of men and women is the highlight of the whole play; Needless to say, the four handsome guys in Meteor Garden are so beautiful. I don't like idolization, but I like that kind of beautiful man. Is this wrong? The loveliest thing about this kind of man is that he has the air of natural vegetation, without the rigid requirements of pedantic dogma on the image of a man, without the desire for power and utility, without the desire for possession and domination of a man, and he naturally looks elegant and beautiful. They make women feel very safe. They got rid of the image of men as eternal strong men and raised questions about the true meaning of life, which is weak, but very real and ethereal. At the same time, it also frees women from the cage of holding the image of the weak, and explores the inherent potential of a stronger life. Isn't this the liberation of men and women? Perhaps the most beautiful things can only be in dreams forever. If life goes on like this, boyfriends still need them. The above remarks are just nonsense in a dream, for everyone to make fun of and have fun in their leisure time.