With the continuous opening of social concepts, people will treat everyone around them equally. Whether making friends with others or falling in love with others, it is best for them to maintain a state of mutual respect. But most boys don't like chubby girls, and some even suggest that girls lose 20 pounds, so boys chase her. I don't think this is a good way to get along. Since boys can't stand your weight, even if you lose weight successfully, you have to face more and more rules.

Weight is a detached thing, and weight will not affect the changes of two people's feelings. At the same time, we should also respect other people's choices, instead of asking others to lose weight quickly.

Don't use your requirements to regulate other people's behavior. Because everyone's life concept and living environment are different, this will lead to some differences in the way everyone treats others. Some boys are very strict about girls' weight. He asked his girlfriend to control her weight within 100 Jin. This is just a boy's idea. Now girls have the right to choose boyfriends, and boyfriends should not participate in their high demands on girls. What's more, love is not a bound emotion, but an interactive emotion. Losing 20 Jin is not a simple matter. Most girls should not have weight anxiety.

Boys who make this request don't really like girls in real life. We have encountered too many disappointments, and we should also cultivate a psychological state of being optimistic about life. However, most girls have unique weight and appearance, so girls should always be confident. At the same time, it is striking that boys really love girls, that is, accepting all the appearances of girls. Since the boy offered to make the girl lose 20 pounds, the boy would pursue her and prove that the boy didn't really love the girl. What's more, everyone's physical quality is different, and too many girls lose their due health because of unreasonable fitness methods and slimming methods.

On the whole, I don't think this incident will make the relationship between the two people better and better. On the contrary, I think this boy's behavior is a bit of a moral kidnapping. At the same time, 80% of male and female friends will form interactive behavior. Even if boys don't take the initiative to propose that girls lose weight, girls will always be strict with their diet. Don't pua each other between men and women, keep sober cognition and judgment, and two people can walk into the palace of marriage. At the same time, the high demands of boys will also affect the feelings between two people.