Not long ago, I just watched the movie "I am losing weight", which is a Russian movie released on 20 18. I don't watch Russian movies very much, because I can speak Russian, and I prefer English movies. Even in other languages, such as Japanese, Korean, German, French and Italian, I only watch them occasionally.
In fact, when I look at it, I can't help but have the ingredient of "bystanders are clear". I think it's hard to fully understand this feeling without really experiencing it. To this end, I still have some "complaints" that this film does not show well why gluttons choose to overeat when they know it is wrong. This is actually the key to the problem to a large extent. Among them, the description of the pudding with a corner missing expresses that the hostess's gluttony behavior is due to the lack of a certain part of love, but she chooses to avoid filling it with other "love" (a corner pudding next to it). But the depth of the trauma accumulated over the years, I am afraid, can only be realized by the audience consciously.
It's actually quite difficult. If it's fully displayed. I can't help feeling that people's happiness is different, but I'm still "grateful" for the recent release of such a movie, which shows that this issue has been concerned by many people. Because they are not in contact, I think of climbing a mountain with a friend not long ago, chatting and laughing, but it is difficult to understand. Yes, when I couldn't help watching this movie as a bystander, my anger and "self-control" became black and white. When you don't understand trauma and pain, it's hard to understand why a person will overeat all at once.
But when I learned more about this, I began to think that it might not be necessary.
There is really no need to delve into the composition of trauma. Actually, it may just need to be touched. More, it will help to heal.
However, you may find that it is even a bit like detoxification. Sometimes I can't help thinking about the similar ingredients between them.
This can be summed up in two words, escape and happiness.
If anesthesia is a great invention, it can relieve some pain, then hallucinations and repeated simple actions can also temporarily blind the brain. People's brains are smart and stupid. They are not good at remembering, but they are very good at thinking. Five minutes after you don't make a decision right away, everything will change because of "thinking". This may also be why people always choose to keep themselves busy to reduce the behavior of staying on things they don't want to think about.
I later wondered why men and big men encourage each other but don't lose weight. In fact, the whole film, the whole process of losing weight, is that her friends have been strictly helping her, that is, it is impossible for her to lose weight by herself. For example, in the opening of the film, although the hostess has started to exercise and her diet is very strict, as a dessert chef, she failed in the struggle between inner fragility and correct will when she was alone in the kitchen. She finished the whole cake in tears. Seeing this, I actually understand. Some things are written and published, but you don't have to worry about strange words, because if you can finish reading them, it means that there are more than 50% songs. And this kind of * * * sound at least shows the understanding ability behind the behavior. It's true that women cry and eat.
So later, she can resist taking food from the refrigerator in the middle of the night and exercise every day, because she has two good friends who really love her and help her. Here, we can see the selfless love of these two friends. Later, after the woman lost weight successfully, the man was still so big. Finally, her good friend, who was willing to be with her, broke up with her-"You never cared about me. You need to learn to grow up by yourself. No one will always accompany you like this." You said you would stay with me until I got better. After losing weight successfully, the hostess fell into emotional confusion. The two friends kept saying "If you don't love yourself, others won't love you", which also made the hostess reflect on herself.
Well, as you can see, two friends have been sacrificing themselves for her. I think there must be times when a big man can't hold back from overeating, but in order not to put more pressure on his wife, he silently endures it. So he is still so fat. Of course, this is just my understanding, or maybe the director wants to judge a book by its cover. ...
In short, this movie is quite close to reality, including the psychological components of women, which is a bit like he doesn't really like you that much. In addition, it is really true love to supervise sparring every day at the ugliest time. ...