On the weekend, when I was sorting things out, I came across an old address book with the phone numbers of people who had crossed paths, which were neatly classified according to the strokes of surnames.

In the era when communication is underdeveloped and mobile phones are not popular, the address book is necessary and is the link between relatives and friends. Write down the other party's phone number, company, home address, etc. Maintain the intimate relationship between the two sides in the form of words.

At the moment I found the notebook, I was full of hope and a little excited, trying to contact an old friend who was not bad in those days. Finally, I entered a familiar number on the mobile phone keyboard. At the moment when the phone was connected, I excitedly shouted the name I remembered, but the other party's clear and suspicious voice came from the microphone: Who are you? Is it the wrong number? Like a basin of cold water, it gave me a cold heart.

I think she has forgotten me for a long time, or phone scammers are popular now. Based on the psychology of self-protection, caution is also appropriate. But I obviously didn't have the impulse to reconnect, so I hung up the phone silently and let the endless loss spread in my heart.

Yes, in this life, people are constantly meeting and leaving. What's the use of contact information if you have agreed in your hearts that the other party is no longer a friend and neglected to manage this friendship? It's the same for her, maybe in the column of friends, I have long lost my place.

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The "address book" is an antique that has long been eliminated, but everyone's mobile phone still retains a powerful address book, which is more convenient, faster and bigger than the original one.

It's just that the times are constantly updating and new things are springing up. Now people seem to be more willing to contact WeChat.

It not only has all the functions of the mobile phone address book, but also can chat, leave messages, voice, video and send friends to know a three-dimensional and vivid person in all directions.

As a result, this social way has gradually eroded everyone's circle of friends, and it is in your default situation.

I checked my WeChat address book, and there will be hundreds of people in the future.

Wechat has a variety of businesses, including intermediaries, relatives and friends, colleagues, parents, family members, classmates at all stages, and even some strangers who don't even have a note. I don't know under what circumstances, they are also very lively, although they seldom interact.

In middle age, people have looked down on all kinds.

Wechat circle of friends is actually an acquaintance circle, and it is more accurate for so-called friends to call them acquaintances. Therefore, a nodding acquaintance, meeting by chance, etc. It should not be the focus of our attention, but let it openly occupy our precious time.

I have nothing to do on weekends, move my fingers, lose weight for the noisy circle of friends, delete some unnecessary information, filter out some unnecessary troubles, and take a vacation for my mood by the way.

Sure enough, the circle of friends after cleaning up is as clear as the sky after the rain, and people have become more transparent.

Time will precipitate the truest feelings. No matter how I arrange it, there are always a few figures that I know by heart and will not forget. Even if I delete them from the address book now, I won't panic, because I know they have always been there and they are friends for life.

What goes far is just passing clouds; The rest are the most cherished friendships.

Come out from the vast sea of people and give yourself a quiet corner where there are only a few like-minded friends. Maybe it's enough to do their own thing and chat occasionally.

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When I was in normal school, Xia and I were like-minded friends.

Not a deskmate, a roommate, or a fellow villager, we appreciate each other and come together.

Seventeen or eighteen years old, talking about their respective visions for the future, accompanied them through that beautiful lush years.

I graduated, but somehow, I walked away and lost news of each other.

Time and distance really affect the feelings between two people. This rule applies not only to the opposite sex but also to friends.

Although at first we could express our feelings through letters, over time, we gradually drifted apart.

The feelings between people are sometimes like knitting a sweater, one stitch at a time, which melts into a lot of true feelings. But suddenly one day, maybe it's just a casual joke, maybe it's a minor misunderstanding. With such a gentle pull, the sweater you worked so hard to knit will be torn down and fall apart, and all your feelings will be gone.

A few years ago, an enthusiastic normal student set out to build a classmate group. Everyone is here, so is Xia, but I have no impulse and desire to contact again. Maybe I'm afraid of endless embarrassment after greeting. I don't want to keep anything deliberately, and I also believe that things here will not leave.

Also, each has its own life circle and circle of friends. Both emotions and thoughts have already passed through and cannot be merged again. Why go hand in hand and go our separate ways?

People always come and go at different times. When someone suddenly disappears from your life, it's time for her to leave. Just accept it, don't ask.

Get calm and lose indifference. There are some things that individuals can't do after all, which is the price we must pay when we grow up and mature.

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Friends are hard to find.

Shakespeare once said: friends must help each other in adversity, and that can be called true friendship.

Gao and Pu Shu should be such a friendship.

They are all talented people, and they are all very individual people. It is such a person with completely different temper and personality that gives us a perfect interpretation of what a true friend is.

At the wonderful conference, Gao shared the story of borrowing money from Pu Shu: At the worst time, I borrowed 50,000 yuan from Pu Shu, and Pu Shu didn't like to talk, so he came back with two words: account number. After a while, Pu Shu was out of breath, and another word came: Pay back the money.

Everyone couldn't help laughing and praising the rare friendship between these two real men. Such a story is rare and beautiful. This kind of life has also melted into poetry and a part of the distance.

I'm glad to have such friends in my life.

Unforgettable study and life, let me have the honor to make lifelong friends. When I am in trouble, I don't hesitate to lend a helping hand without asking why.

Growing up together, although ridicule is indispensable at ordinary times, when life is full of gloom, she always patiently and slowly enlighten, open her heart and talk to each other;

Other friends, who are not good at words, just stay with you faintly, share the trivial things and happiness in life with you, and spend every ordinary and beautiful day in life.

Wind and rain will test the warmest companionship.

Many relationships are neither old nor new, but after experiencing some things together, they still feel good about each other. This is the relationship that we should take seriously and care of.

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Time is the touchstone. Whether it's affection, love or friendship, what remains is the most precious.

What I believe in in all kinds of relationships has always been "rather short than much" and has never changed.