Secondly, it is also in line with human nature. Whether men or women like to associate with the opposite sex that conforms to their own aesthetics, it is not necessarily how handsome and beautiful they are, because everyone's aesthetics are different. Now is the fast food era, you are willing to make a lot of efforts to give your heart to someone, only to find that he/she is not what you think?
So, girl, don't take this kind of thing too seriously. You can take photos, or meet when you feel it is necessary, so that you can get to know your friends more stereoscopically, right?
I am very happy to answer your questions in Xiyuan, hoping to solve my doubts.
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I wonder if you have heard such a joke.
A female netizen and a male netizen are chatting online. The portrait of a female netizen is a beautiful young girl. In fact, male netizens have long been unable to hold back their inner hormones and often meet female netizens.
Female netizens have been avoiding and asking each other, if I am ugly, will you continue to chat with me?
Male netizens swear that you are so gentle, I believe you must be beautiful, even if you are not so beautiful, I like you.
As a result, after the meeting, the male netizen beat up the female netizen and said that the gap was so big that you fucking lied to me for so long.
There is a saying that love begins with face value. When a boy approaches you, he can have the desire to continue chatting with you, even for how long, depending on how you look at it.
The head portrait is not good-looking, so it was filtered out without looking. The head looks good, and then I watch it in a circle of friends. If you don't have a circle of friends, you always want photos. They just want to make sure that the girl he wants to flirt with is worth flirting with and saying good morning and good night every day.
What is the psychology that boys want girls to send photos as soon as they chat?
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I remember once I took a photo of playing guitar in a circle of friends.
In a few minutes, whether I know it or not, familiar boys seem to be waiting in line to reply.
"No face, bad review!"
"Beauty, keep a straight face."
Some boys even asked me privately, "Is it you who plays the guitar in the circle of friends?"
I said, yeah.
"Why have no face? Show me a face. "
Suddenly feel speechless. I don't know him well, and my disagreement with him was exposed. who does he think he is？
"Don't show"
"Then take a picture now (with a smile on your face)."
This kind of boy who starts asking for photos without a few words and can't suppress his inner hunger really needs to be improved. But this kind of boy can be seen everywhere in our life.
What is the psychology that boys want girls to send photos as soon as they chat?
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First of all, let's talk about whether we know unfamiliar boys.
The girl's head is a photo, and the man plus the following dialogue is basically:
Hello, is that me? How old are you, where do you work, where is your home, how tall you are, how much you weigh, what major you study, and send more photos to beautiful women! Why not send it? Make friends!
The girl's head is not a photo, but the man plus the following dialogue is basically:
Hello, beauty, how old are you? Let me take a picture of you. If you don't send it, then where is your home? Oh, that's a nice place. Let me take a picture of you. If you don't send it, where do you work? Oh, I know this company. Let me take a picture of you. ...
They just want to see if they want to continue talking through photos. Of course, those who only look for blue confidants are not excluded, but this situation is rare.
What is the psychology that boys want girls to send photos as soon as they chat?
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There are also some men who clearly know each other who also like to ask for photos on WeChat. This situation is usually of interest to you before, and you haven't seen each other for a while. For example, they graduated and worked.
If you say you haven't seen it, you need any photos, or there are photos in your circle of friends, they will say it was before and want to see what you look like now.
A man always comes first in vision. He wants to see what you look like recently. To put it bluntly, he just wants to see if you are disabled!
It's not embarrassing to be ugly. If you look like before, or become beautiful, you will continue to be embarrassed.
For such a person who wants photos and doesn't talk,
If a woman's photo is ugly, he will gradually regard her as a purely boring pastime;
If a woman's photo is beautiful, she will express flattery or shyness in the text.
Either way, it will not be honest and natural to get along.
First of all, I don't think you two have met. You are neither acquaintances nor friends. You may have accidentally contacted on social software. I think there are three reasons for this situation:
First, a boy who directly expresses his feelings may have a good impression on you and want to see your appearance to establish their relationship, whether it is a friend or a lover, which is very common in blind date occasions. In this case, maybe you two have just been introduced, and you don't even know each other, and you haven't even met formally. Only preliminary written communication. Boys want to further deepen their impression and see each other's true colors. Photos are direct expressions.
Of course, the decision is in your hands, and it's entirely up to you to give it or not. If you don't like it, you can definitely refuse. For girls with shallow social experience, you should have a sense of self-protection, and don't send photos to boys casually, so as not to cause unnecessary trouble and eventually get hurt.
Second: Out of curiosity. For the unknown, everyone has a strong thirst for knowledge. I haven't seen what you look like, so I want to know more about it, see the beauty, the ugliness, the height and the thinness.
Third: It is not excluded that boys care more about girls' looks, don't want to spend time eating and watching movies to deepen their feelings, and want to determine whether your looks meet his requirements through photos.
Finally, I want to say that photos can only look at appearance and body shape, which is the first impression of appearance, not the understanding of three views, personality and temper, and dealing with people. A serious and thoughtful boy will still be willing to take the time to meet and talk.
Boys will be asked to take pictures as soon as they come up. The first choice of appearance conditions must be better, at least the face value has the upper hand, and there may be several reasons for boys to make such a move:
Two people's lives have no intersection at all, just happen to meet, so he may fall in love with you at first sight. Of course, you still have to be rational in this case. After all, love at first sight is more about face value.
This is a legendary master of picking up girls, and you have aroused his interest. Of course, such an experienced person will definitely start to act at once.
In either case, if you don't know each other, it's best not to agree rashly. If the other person gives you a good impression, you can add WeChat to find out first, and the circle of friends can also indirectly see a person's personality. If it feels good, try to get to know each other better. The above is personal advice, I hope it will help you and wish you good luck.
The boy who just met you asked you for photos as soon as he came up. I think at least, in order to show that he has a good impression on you, some boys are a little shy and don't know how to treat girls, so they implicitly ask for photos of girls, which can also be used to guess girls' minds. If a girl promises to give photos, it means that this girl at least doesn't hate boys. If she refuses, she may not be satisfied.
There are also some boys who want to show photos of girls to their friends and brothers to show off how decent it is to have a beautiful girlfriend, and may even show them to relatives to reassure them that they care about their marriage and don't be urged by relatives.
Of course, there are also some annoying people in society who do some bad things with photos of girls. These people are scum. I hope that girls will stay awake and make rational judgments.
In short, I hope young friends treat their friends with honesty and sunshine, and I hope everyone is full of love and positive energy.
A website once conducted a survey. What is the most annoying behavior of straight men for girls?
The first one is: Can you send me a picture of you without makeup?
The second place is: it's not in the phone, so why not shoot it now?
The third place is: send me a photo of you.
When girls meet these three types of chats from men, their first reaction is not to send you photos at all, but to greet you and then hack you.
Why should I send you photos? Who do you think you are?
I didn't. I have to take a picture of you on the spot. Do you think you are a director? !
Do you know how difficult it is for me to send a picture in a circle of friends?
Also send a plain photo? !
All girls, beautiful or not, will feel angry and offended when they encounter these three problems again.
Although this behavior of straight men is annoying, it represents the most instinctive and direct idea of men. Why do men insist on taking photos?
1. Because men are visual animals.
This point needs no explanation.
Pictures are more intuitive than words.
2. Save time.
Because there are too many painful experiences.
After chatting on the Internet for a long time, I finally found out that it was Joe Robbie, and it was a dinosaur reincarnation. what can I do?
I can't help it The person I have an appointment with should stick to it with tears in her eyes.
Gao once told his online love story in the Story of Seven Paes. He made an appointment with a girl from Tsinghua to meet at the north gate of Tsinghua. He didn't dare to go to the appointed place, just watched from a distance until the girl appeared. The girl at the school gate in Tsinghua blocked half the door. I couldn't even admit it, so I ran away immediately.
Xu asked him why you didn't send photos at that time, and he said because I didn't want people to know that I looked like this.
Therefore, in view of the painful experiences of so many predecessors, it is better to take out a photo directly in order to save time. If it looks good, go on. If it doesn't look good, pull it down as soon as possible and then the next one.
3. To show off.
Generally speaking, a girl who has a Daniel Wu-level boyfriend will not show off in the circle of friends and girlfriends.
However, if a boy associates with a beautiful girl, even if the eight characters are still intact, they will be publicized everywhere in front of their buddies and in their groups.
Are all men so shallow?
Before reaching a certain level, yes.
Few men will say, I am face-blind, and I don't know if she looks good or not.
It is a man's nature to brag about saving face, and associating with beautiful girls can greatly satisfy this natural nature.
What capital do you have to show off in front of other men? This girl must be very beautiful.
If you are not beautiful, or if you are crushed by a dinosaur you meet for two hours, it will only become the capital for everyone to ridicule and laugh at you. Keep your head held high in front of everyone for a long time.
Therefore, men have some boring experiences, and they will not say anything when they are killed. They will only bite their teeth and swallow blood.
Therefore, it is related to your face and whether you can show off in an ostentatious manner in the next step. Of course, you should be anxious and insist on such a major and urgent matter.
So what should we do in the face of such people who want photos?
1. If you don't want to associate with this person at all, or if it makes you angry, then it's directly hacked.
If other conditions are not bad, that is, there is a little straight man, just pull one from your photo studio and give it to him.
3. It is impossible to shoot on the spot, send it again, and build a photo library in advance.
Who doesn't have hundreds of photos of themselves in their mobile phones?
To form a good habit is to prepare a photo library of your own. Classify and be familiar with it.
1 the type of photo, pure and sweet,
The photos sent after three dates are pure and sexy.
After five dates, the type of hair is 10, and it is the royal elder sister type.
You know why men are so obsessed with asking for photos and are prepared accordingly.
I think whether the other person is Yan Kang or not, girls must be thinking at this time, unless they meet love rat, right?
Ha ha ha ... just kidding.
In this case, I'm not sure if it's scum, but it will definitely be embarrassing, and it may be a little embarrassing, especially for girls. After all, it gives people a very casual and disrespectful feeling. Not much better than asking girls how old they are at first. Put yourself in their shoes. If it's a girl, the boy will definitely blow up.
And generally speaking, if two people are really together, long-term love may not be great, which may be to regard love as a pastime.
Girls still need to find a good man who loves them.
Boys want to see the true face of girls, because some women add makeup and beauty. Totally different. I know one or two things here. Eyes are more important than makeup, or dull, lacking eyelashes and single eyelids. Lipstick on the mouth is too heavy, and some mouths are very wide [Yi Ya]. Personally, I don't like girls with bangs because most of them cover their high foreheads. From the facial point of view, because they are too smart, good at picking and easy to leave, it is best to tie up their hair. At least in this way, you can see that more than half of her face [teeth] are covered with hair. The above is purely a personal opinion. Don't spray if you don't like it
Don't want to waste time
Men like and love women, there is a condition before they know each other, that is, women should be beautiful.
There are many conditions and factors for a woman to love a man, and even a man can label him, for example, a man is rich and powerful. Men look at women from their appearance, looks and figure.
Nowadays, many men and women communicate through the Internet. Everyone pretends to be their real self and makes friends with the virtual side. When they develop to a certain extent, they may meet.
Many people are not confident in themselves, or protect their privacy, and have good contact on the Internet. When we meet in reality, we often "see the light and die". Destroyed everyone's expectations and even had some disputes.
But the photos now are really not good-looking. Some use other people's names, some have beautiful pictures, which are far from the actual people.
It's often boys who ask women for photos as soon as they come up. Their utility and purpose are relatively clear, and those who want photos directly will not talk to you, that is, they will make an offer.
So, when a boy asks you for a photo, there is a purpose. Maybe, after you give him a photo, you will have a relationship, even feelings. However, I still want to say that he just wants to see if it is worthwhile to spend time with you and whether he can fuck you.
People are sensory animals, and there is no gender difference. When we first met, it was very possible to judge people by their appearances. For boys, the behavior of asking for photos generally appears on the basis of the idea of establishing a heterosexual relationship. Because of the lack of qualitative and time relations, most boys will choose to look at photos first. Compared with men, women are more direct and action-oriented, so in the early days of love, men usually propose to look at photos first. In fact, everyone looks at photos with similar mentality. They just want to know if the other person looks good, and I need to do the next step. After all, the five senses determine whether we should continue to discuss the three views, which determine whether we should continue to get along, and getting along determines whether we have more possibilities.
In fact, people who ask this question are generally women's positions, and most of them will be more introverted girls who will consider these. If you are looking forward to what may happen, you can bravely send photos to each other. After all, you have to submit your resume for job interviews, not to mention the possibility of a lifetime. For the behavior of boys asking for photos, most of them are just curious to know each other's looks, and they don't necessarily want you to be a beautiful city. As long as there is eye contact, after all, besides strawberries, we also like to eat cherries and oranges. They are completely different.