You send five messages, and the other party only replies with two words ... Oh?
Hehe, is it more common?
Then this article can solve all the above problems!
Happiness should be in your own hands. If you want to catch up with a girl you have a crush on, you must make her "feel". The most effective way is not to learn chat skills, but to follow the correct chat process and use the right skills at the right time, so that she will blush and fall in love with you anyway.
After years of practical experience, the instructor summed up the most popular chat formula for girls-"chat R8 formula":
"I have seen this formula many times, and it is useless at all, otherwise I will be single for so long?" This is the evaluation of the student "Little A" before registration. I'm not angry. What I want to do is to prove with facts that this formula can really help you "chat" with girls.
So, I started chatting with the voice of Xiao A:
Tutor: Take a little princess alive.
Girl:
Me?
Tutor: Yes, that's you. If you hand it over, I will let you go.
Girl: How about Wahaha?
Tutor: So you love Wahaha.
It takes humor to arouse girls' interest in the opening. "Catch Xiao Gong alive" is the first step of R8 formula: "arouse interest", which is a reproducible opening agreement, and the girls' emotions are mobilized from the first sentence.
"Yes, it's you" and "I'll let you go after sex" entered the second step of the formula-"distance jump", and at the same time, the role-playing of "capture alive+blackmail" was added, which did not show that they were strangers at all and successfully completed the distance jump.
Girl: Well, I drank when I was a child.
Tutor: I don't think your 96 should be.
Girl: Do I look like 96? I turned out to be a child.
Tutor: Yes, so that we can go to school hand in hand, put down our big schoolbags and go to the door to buy your favorite spicy strips and bubble gum in the shape of watermelon.
Girl: Wow, you sit at the same table.
Then I continued the previous topic, from cool to childhood and then to age, guessing her in 1996. Why did you guess 96? Because no girl likes being told that she looks old.
Then, I described the scene of buying spicy strips after school when I was a child, which further mobilized the girls' emotions and brought them closer.
Tutor: After all, you are so thin and have a big princess hug.
Girl: I gained three pounds in the New Year and am trying to lose weight.
Tutor: Then you should treat me to something delicious. After all, my previous weight was 190 Jin.
Girl: OK, then teach me the secret of losing weight.
Tutor: Add a WeChat first. Chatting with you is very interesting, so it is convenient to ask you out.
Girl: xxxxxxx
Here, the topic of losing weight by body weight continues to draw closer, but we should not indulge in this comfortable chat. There are too few photos to explore, and girls are not safe enough. We should turn to WeChat in time to let girls know more about us through the circle of friends.
Speaking of which, Xiao opened his eyes wide. He said, "It's amazing that no girl has ever talked to me so comfortably." So I let him talk, and I guided him:
Little a: deskmate
Girl: Hello.
Xiao: It's interesting to chat with you.
(Mirror Law: Girls will treat you according to your performance in front of them)
Girl: You are so funny, so I began to be humorous.
Xiao: If you cooperate with me so much, I will give you the knowledge stick I have treasured for many years.
Girl: I also have a pack of 82-year-old spicy strips.
Small: I suddenly feel that exchanging rings when I get married is very weak.
Girl: Haha, that's interesting.
Xiao said he wanted to start with "hello", but I scolded him like a dog. "Hello" is the opening remarks of strangers, which will make them become strangers instantly, and the relaxed and harmonious atmosphere in front will be wasted. Therefore, I teach my children to start from "deskmate" and quickly find back the pleasant feeling of exploration and chat between them.
At this point, girls have been deeply attracted, but the purpose of chatting is to invite. According to the R8 formula, at this time, it is necessary to shift from the third step of "mobilizing emotions" to the fourth step of "disarming" and the fifth step of "establishing the framework of male gods" to pave the way for the invitation.
Girl: We all use old treasures.
Little a: that. . Choose a wedding dress, let's steal the household registration book.
Girl: Is that you walking south?
Small: no, I'm taller than him, and I'm more handsome.
Girl: Actually, you feel like Lu Zhengyu.
Then, Xiao A used "stealing the household registration book" to relieve his guard, but our goal was to complete the sixth step of "building a sense of security", so I asked Xiao A to guess the girl's occupation with "declarative sentences" and began to get to know each other and build a sense of security.
Girl: Too clever. I learned it in elementary school.
Small: wearing a pair of black leggings. I've worn it, too.
Girl: You know so much.
Little: It feels as if I have known you for a long time. What's your name?
Girl: xxx
Xiao: I suddenly feel that I will blush when I date you.
Here, we can draw closer together with a sense of pictures, talk about childhood and continue to exchange basic information.
Small ah: I dare not hold hands, dare not roll, or even dare not breathe. . .
Girl: You have to practice your vital capacity.
Little: Fool, it must be fun to date you.
Girl: Maybe I'm too shy to breathe.
Little a:
Before dating, we should enter the seventh step of "expected implantation", implant with handles and rolling, tell girls what will happen when dating, reduce the difficulty of dating and upgrade the relationship.
This is the eighth step of the formula. Xiao successfully confirmed the invitation.