I think I have probably found a wonderful balance and law between big and small treasures. When I found that one dozen two was overdue for four months, my first thought was "Huh? so this is it？ Anyone who hears "one dozen two" will show a scared expression, and then he will definitely say "terrible, super powerful" or "how can you do it?" "So I'm on cloud nine and think I'm Superman! "One dozen two" sounds terrible, but it is much easier to say "two dozen one". For example, "Mom+Dabao" against Bao Xiao, or "Mom+Bao Xiao" against Dabao, so it seems that we rarely get into chaos.
Bao Xiao, who is less than one year old, has no control at all and can only satisfy him constantly. If mother has been gently comforting Bao Xiao, it will be eccentric, and it will easily irritate Dabao. So, although Bao Xiao was comforted by his mother, he was actually thinking softly, "You screwed up again", "You don't know anything, Bao Xiao, you should talk when you are hungry, don't cry" and "You should inform your mother when you poop, instead of screaming all the time! Dabao is indirectly praised and will add a false accusation. " When my sister was a baby, she would say, "Mom, I want to"! 」
In order to encourage Dabao not to deliberately degenerate and compete for her mother's time, Dabao took Bao Xiao to see a demonstration teaching when brushing her teeth. Dabao proudly demonstrated how to brush his teeth, and then preached to Bao Xiao, "You can't brush your teeth yet, because you have no teeth! But brushing teeth seems interesting to Bao Xiao. He always looks at his sister with a toothbrush in her mouth and smiles. Dabao's feelings for Bao Xiao are actually very complicated. My sister likes my brother very much, but she doesn't want to be ignored by her mother. She tried to occupy her mother's time for various reasons. To be honest, her mother spends much more time on Dabao than Bao Xiao.
Whenever Dabao wants to be unreasonable again, her mother will remind her that since she has decided to degenerate, she will completely degenerate and be a baby with Bao Xiao! That means you have to give up all kinds of games, and life is lying on the ceiling and drinking milk. "Is this really the life you want?" Dabao is always wise to know how to choose, knowing that the privileges he can enjoy when he grows up are far more interesting than being a baby. In this regard, I really feel that Dabao is a mature sister and has given her a lot of praise. I have done this for a while and have gained unexpected results. My sister's passion for Bao Xiao was aroused. She used her age to "correct" her mother and taught her how to coax Bao Xiao in chess. "Mom, you say that the baby will not be happy! You have to say ◎●◆! After a long time, she listened to Bao Xiao's cries and recognized her needs as well as her mother.
Now that two children have been born, it is not so difficult to calm them down. What is difficult is that in such a tight schedule, children's growth and development, balanced nutrition, intellectual development, self-care and so on should also be taken into account. In recent years, experts and bloggers have written many articles to remind them of the importance of setting an example. It seems that even mothers feel guilty about sliding their mobile phones. I think I am really a mother who advocates "I am happy and my children are happy" and actively studies the best scheme to make three people happy every day. It is not easy, because every day is a new situation. Every night when I take a shower, I always ask Dabao, "Are you happy today? What is the happiest thing? She can always find her own happiness in small things. I hope she has these happy moments every day.
You may want to ask, "Where's Dad? If dad can devote a lot of time, it's not called "one dozen two", is it? I think I am lucky enough. Today is my father's holiday. I can get up late and wait on my dad's "one dozen two" That's another crazy version.
I firmly believe that every mother with a dozen or two has her own thirty-six plans, knowing when to confuse Bao Xiao, when to deal with Dabao, and when to give priority to whom, and then finding time to handle the tedious housework smoothly in these cracks. Finally, at night, I feel like a plane that landed safely on the runway after a long flight. It would be a perfect day if I could take some time for myself.