? I am a classic self-projection projector. I like to be appreciated and praised, which will make me motivated to do things. Every time I do a little thing, my husband will show me a little appreciation, which makes me very satisfied. The power of praise blessed me and made me want to do better.
? I didn't know I couldn't launch it before, so I just waited quietly for being invited. I thought it would be easy if I took the initiative, but as a projector, I didn't have the energy. I often feel discouraged and depressed after I don't get a response from others. Now I understand that it is the best strategy for the projector to be myself and let others see my light.
As an authoritative demonstrator of emotional types, it is common for my husband to lose his temper and have a small mood. I sometimes ignore him, and when he comes up in a small mood, he will be more serious with him and try to pull his temper, which makes him even more angry when he is on the verge of rage. After the quarrel, his mood had passed and he was no longer angry, so he came to coax me. Originally, it was his own simple venting. I thought it was his big temper and no tolerance and confrontation.
Knowing that he is an emotional authority, I won't dwell on this problem, because it's not his problem or mine. What he wants to learn is how to face up to himself in this ups and downs. I can't help but be glad to get in touch with this and avoid many family disputes and quarrels.
Because of the influence of the surrounding environment and mother's education, my husband made good use of the strategy of making a monitor. When he takes any action and goes anywhere, he has to inform his family, me or my mother-in-law, which makes me feel respected and relieved. It also taught me to explain my whereabouts and thoughts to my husband in time and respect him as a exhibitor, so there are few contradictions between us.
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