In recent years, the trend of cosmetic surgery in Korea and Japan has swept through China, and it is not uncommon for a large number of beauty lovers to enter and leave plastic surgery hospitals. But nowadays, many students in the mood for love have joined the plastic surgery army, trying to make their "plain appearance" become "as beautiful as flowers and jade".
However, is this "face" from peeling and cutting meat reliable?
Everyone has a love for beauty, and it is human nature to pursue more beauty. That's understandable. Plastic surgery can make people with appearance defects (such as rabbit lips) normal and let them have a normal life like us. However, there is no need to follow the fashion and admire the perfection of appearance, especially to imitate the appearance of others. Everyone has a unique skin appearance, what's more, the body and skin are influenced by parents, and spending money on knives is exactly the same as others. Why bother?
Appearance beauty and ugliness is only a standard in a period (this sentence should be "Dujiangyan has different standards of appearance beauty and ugliness in each period"). Perhaps the commercialization of today's society will lead to a tendency to judge people by their appearances, but we should not deny ourselves everything for the sake of temporary standards of beauty and ugliness. After all, the most important thing for a person is not his appearance, but his inner wealth that can really stand the test of history. Although there is an old saying that "a tree is afraid of losing its skin and a person is afraid of losing face", this face is not just appearance, but a personal conduct and quality. When I hear "so-and-so girl died of slimming and dieting" or "so-and-so girl died of cosmetic surgery and wound infection", I always feel a burst of regret. The beauty and ugliness of appearance will always be diluted by time, so why be so obsessed with the beauty of the moment. Why not spend time and energy on shaping the beauty of the soul worthy of scrutiny and aftertaste?
The root cause is that most students nowadays, especially those who pursue plastic surgery, lack correct values. In this materialistic age, those superficial ideas are easily misled. Worship and blind imitation and comparison have become fatal reasons. Of course, society and parents are also absent in guiding values. It is understandable that teenagers lack life experience and long for social recognition. But if the society can give a correct guidance and parents can give some psychological guidance, it will not be so difficult to correct the values of teenagers.
I once heard an interview with Jing He, the chief makeup artist of CCTV. She has created many stars on the stage, but she never wears makeup. When facing the freckle salesman, I said confidently, "Thank you, I like my freckle!" " "What kind of confidence is this? In fact, isn't this real beauty?
Beauty is definitely not equal to exquisite appearance, but a quality of itself. Only such firm spiritual beauty is the magic weapon to keep beauty forever.
Beauty is not just a matter of face. Don't indulge in pursuing superficial beauty. Look at your heart. More beauty is budding.
The comment on this article was rated as "basically in line with the meaning of the question". It should have been a well-written article, but it was not a good exam-oriented composition. At the beginning, the transition from summing up the phenomenon to discussing it, to investigating its root causes and connecting it with practice, and finally drawing a conclusion is clear. However, the discussion is not profound, such as "society and parents are also absent in guiding values", which is only a superficial view and fails to touch the essence of the problem. Article 2: Say face.
Yi Zhongtian once said: China people are proud to die. Why? Is face really that important? He said so. When a person hurts his face, he hurts his heart and his self-esteem. So many people would rather hurt themselves than protect their faces. Because the damage to the body is only a little bit of pain, hurt your face, but it will leave an indelible scar in your heart.
Therefore, we can clearly see how many people would rather sacrifice themselves to save face in order to keep a place in the long river of history. When Xiang Yu stood on the banks of the Wujiang River, he also wanted to make a comeback, but in order to save face, to prevent future generations from laughing at his incompetence, and to avoid accusations from his elders in Jiangdong, he didn't have the courage to choose to leave his face behind and cross the river. He finally chose to commit suicide in Wujiang, but he never got a chance to rally, and his life stayed at this moment. Du Mu has a saying in Tiaojiang Pavilion: "There are many talented people in Jiangdong, and it is unknown to make a comeback." I deeply regret this matter. (The above two sentences are incorrect. )
So, sometimes it's not a bad thing to put down face. If Han Xin didn't choose to be patient and throw his face down to fight with people in the street, then the "Three Heroes of Han Chinese" might not have his place. A true gentleman should know how to bear the burden of humiliation and be flexible, so as to find more opportunities for himself.
God said, "One door opened and the other door was put down." Yes, saving face means maintaining your dignity and status. But sometimes, for this face, people have to bear the bad luck of "saving face and losing money". At this time, why don't we put aside our face for a while? Even if you hurt your face, it is worthwhile to sacrifice this face in order to find another chance for your life and win another chance for your life.
This is a well-known story. Back in those days, when Gou Jian, the King of Yue, was defeated by the King of Wu, and was captured by him, if he considered that he was also a powerful king, instead of enduring this kind of pain, he chose to die, then he would never succeed again. It was his courage to bear the burden of humiliation that gave him the opportunity to rebuild the dynasty.
Face is very important to a person, especially a person with high status, but we can't always be proud of face. When we face the choice of face, we should weigh the long-term interests, so as to lose face but win big face.
The comments on this article were rated as "in line with the meaning of the question". Good language expression, more specific materials, first positive argument of the main part, and then negative argument, summary can be combined with positive and negative. The author is clever in the arrangement of the structure, but what is "small face" and "big face" is unclear, which affects the depth of the content.