Part 1: Set an example
1, respect everyone. It is very important to be respectful and courteous if you want to handle interpersonal relationships well and succeed. If you want your brothers and sisters to be less stumbling in their later lives, you should set a good example, respect them, respect your parents, friends, acquaintances, strangers and even yourself. Don't contradict your parents and teachers, and don't be rude to them. Even people who don't like it at school can't treat others like this.
2. Do things with a sense of responsibility. Avoid drinking and taking drugs, but get good grades in school or participate in community activities. You can even earn money by yourself, so that your younger brothers and sisters can see that you can get what you want as long as you work hard. Of course, we should keep a humble attitude towards things and don't be arrogant in front of our younger brothers and sisters. Let the sense of responsibility be your own reward.
3. Don't spread negative energy. Speaking appropriately is the embodiment of good education and intelligence, so we should educate our younger brothers and sisters to speak appropriately and have mature manners. Be reasonable, be gentle, and don't use dirty words.
4. Action should be peaceful. Those children who think that violence can solve problems will eventually bring trouble to their lives. Don't show violent tendencies to your brothers and sisters or anyone, and solve problems through communication.
5. Be proud of yourself. Set an example and make your brothers and sisters respect themselves. Take care of yourself, don't let yourself sink, and try to make yourself a better person. Pursue what you like and ignore what you hate.
6. Do the right thing. Even in the face of difficulties, don't give up, protect those who can't protect themselves, tell them that persistence is worthwhile, and apologize for doing something wrong. Doing the right thing and setting an example for your brothers and sisters can make you all better.
7. Don't be arrogant to your brothers and sisters, it will have a bad influence on them, in that case, they won't respect and appreciate you any more. Lack of respect is bound to lead to quarrels. You should treat each other as equals.
Part II: Establishing a Good Relationship
1, go out to play with my brother and sister. It doesn't matter where you go, what matters is that you want to improve your relationship and are willing to be with them. Go out to play with them and do what you like.
2. Emphasize their self-esteem. If you help them respect themselves, they will live better and like you more. Praise them when it is time to praise them, and pay attention to their success rather than failure.
3. Create a space of trust. Your brothers and sisters should be able to trust you, so that they can come to you when they encounter problems that their parents can't solve. This means not only letting them know that they can talk to you, but taking them seriously when they tell you serious problems, instead of judging them or telling their parents.
4. Advocate individuality and independence. Be glad that they have their own opinions, not let them imitate you. Encourage them to work hard on what they like and try to get involved. Sometimes you will enjoy it.
5. Look at the problem from their perspective. Quarrel is inevitable, sometimes it will irritate you, but when you start to look at the problem from their point of view, things will be easier to solve. People often make mistakes when they are self-righteous. When you realize your mistakes, you can get along better.
6. Help your brothers and sisters as much as possible. If they want something from you (provided that you don't hurt yourself), help them as much as possible. Things can be big or small, but nothing is too difficult for you. But if they don't want you to help them, you should also respect their choice and don't interfere. Some people have to do what they have to do, and it's better to respect them.
7. Encourage them in life: let them discover the meaning of life more, be happy for them and do their best. After this life course, they will become happier. If they want to live according to their own wishes, you can't laugh at the way they appreciate things, but try to help them find time to do something so that they won't feel lonely.
8. Protect your brother and sister. No matter who bullies them or leads them astray, you should protect them from these troublesome guys. Support them, try to isolate them from those negative energies, guide them to get along with you or your friends, or create a new environment to avoid evil spirits.
9. Make them feel needed and valuable. The idea of feeling useless will bring trouble, especially to your beloved brothers and sisters. Participate in their lives and get rid of this idea. If your brothers and sisters bother you while you are doing your homework, try gently persuading them to give you some free time. They just don't know they're bothering you.
10, you are a sister, not a mother. Don't interfere. Parents and other elders always have to do what they should do. All you have to do is watch quietly and treat them as friends. This will create a better and healthier relationship.
Part 3: Do more.
1, make them feel better. Whether your brother or sister needs a hug or some advice, or just a shoulder to lean on, you should comfort them when they need it and make sure they know they can find you. You should also be good at observing their emotions and detecting their sadness.
2. Do something good. Maybe you think it will be interesting to give them trouble, but in the long run, you should be kind to them. You should find ways to help them, such as repairing toys, making groceries, or helping them mow the grass. Don't keep stressing to them what good things you have done for them. This will make them think that you are selfish in this matter.
3. praise them. Don't be stingy when they deserve praise, or just say something nice, which is especially useful when the relationship is not good. They will find that even if they often complain when the relationship is not good, you can see their benefits and advantages.
4. Choose a good gift. Don't spoil their mood by giving them boring old things on holidays or birthdays. Giving them what they really need, even if it's not expensive, can remind you of the good times we spent together in the future. This shows that you really care about them.
5. Share it with your brothers and sisters. Now is not the time to be selfish. You should share everything you have, whether it's food, favorite games or family heirlooms. Be generous, because to whom can you express generosity besides your brothers and sisters?
6. Keep in touch. If you don't live together because of family or growth, remember to keep in touch. No one can replace their big sister who loves them. They still need her. By telephone, together or in a direct meeting, keep your feelings and do what you can.
Tip: It's okay to play with friends, and so are your brothers and sisters.
Play with him and do what he likes.
If you don't accept his apology or do something excessive, he will always forgive you and eventually forget the unhappiness. Remember to stay calm next time.
Remember that he will imitate you and don't have a bad influence.
He is younger than you and learns from you because he respects you and wants to be like you.
If you have more things, give them to your brothers and sisters. Or at least give him a bigger share. You have a chance to share things in the future, and they will remember your kindness then.
Don't give them orders. They will resent or even hurt your relationship. Even if they are young, you should know that they feel the same as adults.
Offer help and tell them that they can talk to you about anything.
Buy them cones and ice cream.
Share interesting secrets with them and become good friends.
Do some trivial things for them to show concern. Don't ignore them when they come back. Smile and ask about the situation. A cold attitude doesn't help your interpersonal relationship.
Make them laugh. They will like you more, and your will be closer as friends.
Respect his friends.
Give them unconditional love.
Warning, helpful. Stand up when you need help, don't let them down when you are helpless, even if you don't think it is necessary, don't refuse. You don't want others to take your place, do you?
Accept him. If he likes music you don't like, it doesn't mean you can't dance in his bedroom.