"Liars and Deceptions" In Li Xiaojie, modern society often heard about liars and deception, but few people knew the true relationship between liars and deception. When it comes to deception, some people will say that it is not a measure and means used by scammers. I dare not deny this statement, but I think the relationship between the two is not the same. Let me explain the deception in detail, starting with the types of deception.

One is random deception, which is only used in unexpected situations or unprepared situations, and most of them can identify each other. Usually, the other party has good eloquence or psychological knowledge, and it is better to induce the other party to deny one party by dialogue or behavior, so as to trust the other party and identify the three major environmental deception. Generally speaking, there are many people or experts who have to do this, so that they can feel safe and do it. It is not easy to identify the four bait tricks. Usually, they use rich rewards and attractive things as bait to make the other person willing to believe or think about the idea of trying. It is not easy to identify the five strokes, which usually makes the other party feel that the impossible result is biased and that it has reached this point, so try it and then have a deviation, think twice before you act. There should be no next time. The result will never end. Most of them don't recognize their own six-combo scam, design a big scam, and then use countless small scams to protect themselves, such as setting up a scam to get the scam and gain trust, or creating a false image that they don't want to do first, and then creating a scene that the other party must do to avoid losses. It's hard to identify, and it's all combined in the end. It can be said that few people recognize it. These are all kinds of tricks, but under the promotion of one liter of binary, there are already hundreds of millions, so there are so many deceived people.

Say the kind first, then say good or bad. Liar is a derogatory term and a manifestation of a despicable person, but deception itself is not good or bad. Deception is not only a skill, but also a science. Not to mention the disadvantages, I think everyone knows a thing or two. Let's talk about benefits first. You can protect yourself and your important people from being hurt and cheated by others. You can save one party, protect the country and educate the world. According to historical records, in the rise of the church, the name of God appeased the world and inspired people to do good. During the Spring and Autumn Period, the Prime Minister used deception to protect national treasures and treasures. Zhuge Liang of the Three Kingdoms can fool countless people. First he lied to Cao with Zhou Yu, and then he lied to Zhou Yu by pretending to be a ghost. Also lied to Jingzhou not to return, lied to Sima Yi's empty plan, and so on. After his death, he deceived hundreds of thousands of troops and Wei Yan with false images. But not only can't we say that he is a liar, but we should respect him and follow his example. Deception is justified. Deception itself is not good or bad, but people have good and evil. Therefore, we should bear in mind that deception is a part of wisdom. When wisdom is small, it is used to protect ourselves and people around us. Speaking of it, it is to serve the country and safeguard justice. Deception, like martial arts, is for self-defense, not harm. If you think deception is invincible and commit crimes everywhere, there is only one self-destruction.

If deception is regarded as a building, peace of mind is the lowest foundation, followed by cultivation, wisdom, experience, communication, ability, eloquence and so on. Then tell me about this foundation. As the last layer, peace of mind naturally lies not in offense but in defense. Since it is to hold on to one thing, it is natural not to think of others wrongly. The trick is to correct yourself first. Second, everything is fine. Don't be happy when something good happens to you. First, consider whether you got it. If you get it, is it worth the wait? When you encounter something bad, don't be afraid to consider whether it is true, why it is like this, how to confirm it, and so on. Self-cultivation, don't be a bad person, good things must be done, but its 1 considering its own situation, the second is true or false. Third, do you have that ability? The fourth reason is what kind of method to adopt. ..... Second, don't be greedy. Third, don't think too highly of yourself, know yourself correctly, and don't listen to others saying that you are lucky or extremely smart or have no courage and love. First, learn to read relevant books, newspapers, news, psychology books, etc. Or read novels about the Three Kingdoms and the Almighty Alchemist. It is important to watch the entertainment programs hosted by Morphy. The second is to analyze what is possible and what is impossible under what circumstances, and to see the consistency between the essential combination conditions and reality through the phenomenon. For example, if I call you and tell you that I will give you 5 million yuan, what company will give so much experience to individuals without publicity? Ask different people to observe and learn to gain their advantages, communicate with swindlers and fortune tellers, find out their advantages and disadvantages, and analyze their rationality and irrationality. And find the breakthrough point and balance point, understand the loopholes, expose them at any time, take care of them, understand their purpose, understand their needs, and let them be used for themselves. As ................................. said, most fish will take the bait when they see it, while smart fish will not be tempted when they see danger, but will run away when they see danger and opportunity to bite the bait. The cleverest thing is to find a way to bite the bait when you see the interests and crisis, and then say to the bait maker, if you put another bait down, I will take the bait.