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There is a black hole in everyone's heart, and we have been filling it all our lives.
I have seen your real pain, but I have never seen your real happiness!

This line was given to Xu Sanduo by a comrade-in-arms in Soldier Assault. He told Xu Sanduo to be happy no matter what happened.

He made Xu Sanduo laugh, and Xu Sanduo smiled to show two rows of big white teeth, but it was uglier to laugh than to cry.

Some people are just unhappy, or just unhappy. His pain rose from the bottom of his heart, overflowed and came out inadvertently.

If people in the world are divided into happy and unhappy, one is happy and the other is unhappy, and there are very few people in the middle.

In a variety show, Liu Mintao always feels lost when others are particularly happy, and can't hide his lost and lonely expression.

I even shed tears behind others' backs and asked why, saying that my blood pressure was high and my body was uncomfortable.

We can feel her unhappiness.

Na Ying in "Sister Lang III", her happiness is easy to infect people, and her unhappiness is a kind of voice.

Rose Zhang, as soon as she put on her curly wig, a rock queen who played music appeared, and her happiness was revealed from her heart.

Some people's happiness is superficial, and some people's happiness ripples from the bottom of their hearts. Happiness that ripples from the bottom of my heart can infect people around me most.

Talk show actress Li Xueqin talked about her parents' divorce and her need to comfort her mother, her love experience and her experience of seeking treatment for depression ... Every experience is free and easy, but it is all part of her inner black hole.

Mary told her experience of losing weight, because in order to lose weight, he had to put up with not eating. In the end, he felt that life and performance were meaningless. What is the significance of losing weight?

Bo Huang told a sad story before he became famous. He was stuck at home by a deadbeat and pretended not to be at home. Only those who have experienced it know that this will never be forgotten.

We are unhappy because the black hole in our hearts is too big.

In fact, each of us has a black hole in our hearts, and we have been filling this black hole all our lives.

Some black holes in our hearts are missing in the process of growing up, and the most important thing is the lack of parental love.

Some people are shocked by their own experiences.

Some don't even know when it was formed, maybe it is the trace left by accumulation.

Once this black hole is formed, it will be difficult to smooth it out.

In the face of emotional betrayal, it is difficult for our goalkeeper to rebuild trust;

When parents treat us differently, it is difficult for us to love others equally;

We will be sensitive to strict discipline;

When we are alone, we will deliberately do a good job of attracting others' attention.

When we encounter rejection, we will deliberately please.

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We can do anything, and we are willing to do anything, but even if we fill the hole, there will be traces.

There are always some people who are both sunny and happy. They are like a lamp. We all envy such people and want to be close to them.

When we got closer, we found that they actually had black holes in their hearts like us.

The only difference is that their black holes have not swallowed up their happiness and self-confidence.

They bury the black hole with the happiness they create every day.

Are their black holes there?

Yes

But this will not affect him to enjoy every moment of his life happily.

We envy such people, we look up to such people, and we want to be such people.

Gloomy us, with our own holes, are healing, burying and urging ourselves.

Into the sunshine, into happiness!