Many treasure mothers are not careful during the month, which leads to their own roots. When I was young, these root causes were hardly revealed, but as I grew older, the pain became more and more obvious because of the root cause of poor confinement.
Recently, several friends got together, and we talked about the problem of women confinement. Wen Wen, a friend, said that she was ill after giving birth. Her mother-in-law took care of her during confinement. In fact, my mother-in-law is very kind to Wenwen, and she prepares a lot of delicious food for Wenwen every day, which is a great supplement.
For example, the soup of crucian carp is almost constant, but it is this that leads to eating too much, which not only does not help lactation, but also leads to indigestion and constipation. The baby has flatulence after eating such milk.
Finally, Wen Wen consulted a doctor, and the doctor learned that Wen Wen's diet in the second month was big fish, big oil and big meat, which was not conducive to the recovery of the maternal body. These greasy things, for newborn mothers, have not recovered their gastrointestinal function, which is not conducive to digestion at all, and can only become fat accumulation in the end.
And this is not just your own problem. By breastfeeding, the burden on your baby's stomach may become heavier. The digestive function of newborn babies is still not perfect, and breast milk with high fat content is naturally not conducive to the baby's digestion. Often feeding like this can only lead to flatulence and indigestion.
So this kind of food seems to be a tonic, but pregnant women should not eat more. Of course, you can't blame the elderly for such consequences, but such food is really bad for Ma Bao and the baby.
1, pickled food
Pickled food itself has no nutrition, and the nitrite content is still high. Because the salt content of pickled food is too high, it is easy to increase the burden on mother's kidney and increase blood pressure after taking it. Not only is there no nutrition, but it may also lead to the decline of maternal immunity, so women should try to avoid it.
2. Residue
In the past, because of food shortage, the leftovers of the last meal were likely to become the leftovers of the next meal. There is nothing wrong with eating such food once or twice occasionally, but it is best not for mothers who have just given birth, because leftovers will breed a lot of bacteria, and eating too much is not conducive to women's postpartum recovery, so it should be avoided during the month.
3. Cold food
For a pregnant mother who has just given birth, her body is still very weak. If they eat too cold food during the second month, it will only lead to more serious loss of qi and blood, damage the function of spleen and stomach, and hinder the recovery of uterus. Hairy crabs, seafood, watermelons and mangoes are all cold foods, which should not be eaten during pregnancy or for a short time after delivery.
In fact, the moon meal is also very meaningful. This is not only a simple meal, but also represents Ma Bao's position and importance in the family. At the same time, we can see the family's attitude towards maternity from the moon meal, so the moon meal is also an indicator to test the happiness of a family.
1. Family attitude
What the family gave Ma Bao during his imprisonment largely represented the family's attitude towards Ma Bao. If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good and she gives her daughter-in-law leftovers every day, Ma Bao will inevitably be wronged, which will turn into a very serious family conflict over time.
But if the family tries their best to meet Ma Bao's requirements, so that pregnant mothers can not only supplement more nutrition, but also achieve a balanced nutrition, then Ma Bao will feel that it is worthwhile to have children, because the family attaches great importance to themselves. This will also make Ma Bao more willing to pay for her family and future family.
2. Family happiness index
In fact, a family's happiness index can often be seen from the moon meal eaten by pregnant mothers. If all family members are very serious about preparing Ma Bao's moon meal and helping to take care of the newborn children every day, then the family will be naturally harmonious and the happiness index will be quite high.
And if the family is perfunctory about Ma Bao's confinement, it is not that the marriage is not harmonious, but that the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is too deep, so there is no way for such a family to have a harmonious and happy index. Therefore, the moon meal is a representative of the family happiness index to a certain extent.
Conclusion:
A happy family will make people envy. However, such a happy family did not come into being out of thin air. If the mother-in-law is willing to seriously prepare a moon meal for her daughter-in-law, then I think even if there are great contradictions at home, it is easy to resolve them.
Do you remember who prepared the moon meal for you? I also know which confinement taboos, welcome to share and exchange!