First, improve your personality. Love can go by its own temperament or be romantic, but it needs to be a rational person in the face of marriage. So don't copy what you did when you were in love to your married life. In marriage, you need to improve your personality with each other. If one person is stubborn, another person will learn to be tolerant in time, and even if they quarrel, they can make up in time; One person is sensitive and fragile, and the other person has a thicker skin. Going out will also make the other person feel fully safe. However, if the two sides are too similar in personality, such as self-strength, when dealing with contradictions or problems, it is equivalent to lack of solutions or even tit for tat. Therefore, there may be more setbacks in the relationship and it is more difficult to get through it safely. In intimate relationships, most people only see each other but not themselves. Therefore, the sense of demand is very high, and we can't extricate ourselves from negative emotions, accusations and complaints, while ignoring the importance of doing well. If you want to better adapt to the new married life, you should try to adjust yourself a little. Although we say, don't lose yourself in marriage, but also remember: you can't be yourself stubbornly in marriage.
Second, learn to tolerate each other's shortcomings. What attracts us when we are in love is the advantages of each other. Marriage magnifies each other's shortcomings. The process of two people running in is the process of accepting and tolerating each other's shortcomings. Everyone tries to find a perfect person, but unfortunately, in the end, you will find that there is no perfect person in this world. I have always believed that even the best man, I still think he must have shortcomings. When you are in love, you only care about each other's advantages. Even, you will magnify each other's advantages ten times and one hundred times. However, when it comes to getting married, it's very different. At this time, all you see is each other's shortcomings. The more you watch it, the angrier it gets. You are so angry that you want to get divorced and find another one. I think Tu Lei's final summary is very reasonable. He said that when you are madly in love, you will give everything you want. Because during love, you see each other's advantages, and after love, it is a process of accepting each other's shortcomings and needs tolerance. Looking around the world, there is no perfect partner and perfect marriage. There are only fools who turn a blind eye. They are calm and calm, and they can seek common ground while reserving differences in a balanced way, in exchange for so many years of seemingly peaceful marriage. The advantage that we always marry one person. In fact, we must put up with a person's shortcomings.
Third, be sure to bring love. It is lucky to get married for love! When you get married, you will understand that you will live a miserable life without love. If you think about it carefully, there seems to be no other way for two unrelated people, whether male or female, to establish a long-term and stable relationship except through love. If the purpose of your marriage is that I don't love you at all, I didn't wait until the right time to get married. At that time, I really didn't know whether you delayed others or you hurt yourself. Never marry for the sake of marriage, please be responsible for yourself and the person you marry. At any time, love should be the premise of marriage. Don't enter marriage without love, or you may be in a trance when you meet love after marriage. Either the right one is the best. No two people are born right. They all grew up together. You don't even want to be with someone you don't love. If you miss the person you love, you will find that you originally wanted to find a suitable person to marry, but in the end you found a person who is neither suitable nor loved. However, life is so realistic and helpless. It is said that when girls miss the person they want to marry most, they will become more and more picky; When a boy misses the person he wants to marry most, he will become more and more casual; Picky because no one is worse than you, just because it's not you anyway. Therefore, there must be love in marriage.