It's really hard to meet bosom friends at the age of twenty! Share with you how I had the cheek to "hook up" with my best friend Fenxue.

One sunny afternoon, I took my daughter for a walk in the playground. Not far away, I saw a girl crouching down and talking softly to a little girl over 2 years old. The content is roughly: "Baby, do you want to ...". I thought to myself, "I must know such a patient mother."

A few days later, she came to my house for breakfast. I thought to myself: should I satisfy the "prophecy" that I can know who I want to approach?

Later, I learned that she was the WeChat business of HK purchasing. After adding her, I asked her to help me purchase, and I also chatted with her from time to time.

In this way, we changed from passers-by to ordinary friends.

After two or three years of in-depth exchanges, we found that we are like-minded scientific parenting mothers with similar educational views. After that, I frequently talked about various problems of raising children, and gradually became a girlfriend who talked about everything.

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Lin Fenxue has two children, son 13 years old and daughter 5 years old.

She often feels powerless in the face of her adolescent son with great emotional fluctuations. However, instead of "following the crowd", she turned her attention to Burke's lifelong development psychology to understand the characteristics of children's physical and mental development in adolescence. Moreover, I know a lot about the psychology of adolescent children and read all kinds of books related to raising adolescent children.

No matter how busy you are, set aside a fixed time every day to talk about various topics with your son, because the child feels the understanding and tolerance of his mother and can talk openly with his mother about his feelings and thoughts.

I think it is because of constant study and reflection that adolescent sons will open their hearts to powder snow and say everything.

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Mothers in small villages have generally lost their enthusiasm and passion for life because of trivial matters. They take care of their children every day, do all kinds of housework at home and have three meals a day. If you add work, the whole person will be very tired and collapsed in bed at the end of the day. Just don't complain.

But Fenxue can read picture books to her daughter every night for 65,438+0,800 days. When reading, parents and children will ask questions patiently. After reading, they will role-play with their children. You know, Fenxue is a kindergarten teacher during the day and a housewife after work.

Once her son asked her, "Mom, you have been working all day, cooking and singing. Why are you so happy when you get home?"

Fenxue responded to the child: "Because my mother loves this job, not to mention it. The children are so cute. "

Because of this love, Pink Snow has gained countless "little fans".

I remember once, two second-grade children were discussing: A said, "You haven't been taught by this teacher, have you? She's fine. "

It can be seen that the child's perception ability is so strong that he knows how lucky he is to meet a rural kindergarten teacher who rarely beats and scolds!

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Fenxue will take out 1-2 hours of exercise every day, from the initial daily 1 group to 7 groups of fat-reducing exercises every day.

The result of sweating is from L code to XS code, with charming curves and strong physique. This process lasts only 60+ days, and during these 60 days, I often go to her house, lie on her sofa and eat snacks. While watching her exercise, I praised her: "How did you do it so easily?"

She replied, "That's because I do this every day."

Fenxue also cooks healthy and delicious fat-reducing meals every day to make her body healthier. It has been going on for 40 days now.

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Pink Snow's love for life affects my attitude towards life. In the past, I felt that life was a chicken feather and boring, just like a dark cloud covered the sun and the world was dark. But after meeting Fenxue, she helped me clear the dark clouds and let me see the sunshine again. Let me no longer feel lonely.

We learn positive discipline offline, develop picture book courses together, discuss children's psychology together, climb mountains together ... Because of the snow, I feel the fun and significance of life.

I want to say:

It's so happy to have powder snow!