I sat by the window. When I opened a page in the book, my eyes stopped at two lines. I will never forget that sentence.
She said-the so-called happiness is the appearance of insisting on taking care of life. People come and go, don't cater, don't make do, and live their lives in their own way.
Living in the way you like is happiness in the eyes of many people. However, many people don't know that happiness actually exists in everything, big or small, around everyone, but they are not good at exploring. Is this what people say "I don't know if I'm lucky"?
Happiness is actually very simple. Happiness is the smile on parents' faces when they first hear their children cry. Happiness is the joy of a writer after writing his first work; Happiness is the satisfaction of helping strangers get a sincere thank you. Happiness is like this.
Happiness is actually two-sided. Just like my weak self, it is also happiness to be able to express myself bravely and overcome this fear one day. Although the process of expression is very difficult and requires great perseverance, it is in this difficult process that we can realize the difficulty of success and become better ourselves. We should regard it as a special happiness, an opportunity to make you a better self. I know that some people now have disheartened thoughts because of some setbacks, but they can't afford to lose, and some people even go to the point of no return because they are too pessimistic after failure. For this kind of thing, I feel very unworthy.
As students, we all know that another senior high school entrance examination has passed. Our brothers and sisters have all received the report cards. Seeing this, they must be happy and sad. Remember what happened after the senior high school entrance examination a few years ago? I believe everyone has seen many news that candidates failed in the exam. We are all very sorry about this. Because I think exams are very important and related to my future, but is life more important than exams and the future? Yes, we admit that the future is very important. However, if life is gone, what is the future for? If you don't do well in the exam, don't be sad, don't lose heart and don't do impulsive things. We should persevere, strengthen perseverance, reflect on ourselves and find out our mistakes, so as to correct them and become better ourselves than now. Isn't this better? Just like a sentence in the book-true happiness is knowing when to turn the page.
Happiness is all around us, and our destiny is in our own hands. Let's feel happiness together! Let's live the life we like!
At first glance, I think this book is nothing more than a bowl of chicken soup, but I like to drink it recently, so I will drink it patiently. But I don't want to, there are so many inspiring words and wisdom. So I can't bear to put the book out, like a wolf drinking blood, hungry and thirsty, reading it together. Sure enough, I benefited a lot.
People always haggle over trifles. Isn't the whole society made up of trivial things like dripping water? However, few people can jump out of these small things and see farther and bigger. It's not a bad thing to be content with the status quo and content with being plain, but how many people are not afraid to really live this life of looking forward to death and sighing? It's really a lifelong struggle to get along safely after being afraid. And those who can decisively leave the backwater, dare to challenge the wind and waves, and challenge the stormy waves are not necessarily real heroes, but they will never change in this life! Struggle, struggle, the width of life is different, bravely choose to live a different life, no matter what the outcome, the process is always beautiful and meaningful. As Li Jian wrote: "How many times can you live in your life? The key is not the length, but the width. If you choose a different life bravely, you will have another chance to experience a different life. "
I just read sister yat sen villa's book, and here is her article. I feel surprised but comfortable. She is such a woman, who lives the life she wants, is not persistent or flattering, tries to do what she likes, defends her love and life with all her heart, and never wronged herself to help others. Only when she can take care of herself can she take care of others. Here, she told us to learn to refuse. In fact, many times we are doing things that backfire, just like her aunt. Relatives are still like this, especially at work! This colleague asked you to help with this, that colleague asked you to help with this, and this leader asked you to do this ... If so, the white people in the workplace are estimated to be crazy, not to mention his old "bad" good people in this workplace! But many times I just complain, but I dare not refuse directly, because I want to maintain that kind of colleague relationship and get the appreciation of the leaders. Therefore, as Sister Yixian said in her book, people who want to please too many people only ignore their own growth. In the end, no one takes you seriously. Just waving your hand is a trivial matter, and the leader thinks you are useless. Great changes! So you don't have to please everyone, take out your due level and do your own thing well, so that you can accumulate more knowledge and experience in peacetime, and it will be more worthwhile to show your edge inadvertently than to please others during this time! Let's talk about rejecting others. Sometimes it really takes courage. Leaders are always domineering and bossing around, and relatives will be sensible and emotional. Their purpose is to sacrifice your time or something else. Since this is beyond their control, refuse it as soon as possible. Sister Yixian's words always hit home. "People who will embarrass you don't necessarily care about you. If something makes you uncomfortable from the beginning, then
Lin Qingxuan's writing style is fresh and refined, or gentle and moving, which makes people feel tangible and immersive.
"Spring was invisible before, but through the leaves on the trees and the flowers on the grass, we can really touch spring! Winter and spring are not as far apart as the two stars in the sky, but two leaves on the same tree, so tightly striding.
Cross the past, spring is not far away, don't lose the mood of germination; And I really won't be defeated by the cold and pruning in winter. Although I sometimes cry when I think about it in the silent night, when the new spring comes, those tears often become the best fertilizer. Only by keeping the mood of spring all the time, those who wait for germination can bravely spend the winter, and after bleeding, they can still reproduce leaves and trees, and then bear better fruits than before pruning. "
The following are my favorite sentences extracted from the original text. Share them.
Don't live in the past, because it has passed; Don't have a hard time with this world, because you have to live.
Perhaps, forgetting a story is to start a new life; Deleting the past is to start your life again.
Forgot that softness is easily broken. You can be strong, but even if you are weak, you don't have to pretend to be strong.
Low-key is luxury, luxury is a kind of self-restraint, an attitude that makes people feel like spring breeze, and it is also a treasure of "goodness" after the storm.
If you want to be happy, you don't have to worship God or burn incense. Put it down a little, and you will be happy.
I happened to see the book "Live the Life I Want" in the library, and I flipped through it and found it very interesting. I borrowed it to take a closer look and felt a lot.
When we were young, adults always asked us what we wanted to be when we grew up. Our answer was our original ideal and future. However, as we grow up, life and the future often confuse us, become ourselves and gradually become luxury goods. We often forget our true self in the corner, but look for ourselves from the eyes of others, judge ourselves by their likes and dislikes, say some timely words, write some rapidly decaying words, lose pride, lose firmness and forget our original ideals.
But I know that understanding life can achieve a lifetime. If you can concentrate on doing your own thing and be the best yourself, you can unconsciously surpass others, transcend the mediocre gap, stand out and live in hope and light.
In this busy world, the anxiety of life and the pressure of work often make women feel distressed and bored. Women are advised to read this chapter. "Why are you busy, tired and unhappy? Because you don't understand life. " Life is like a unique pleasure in a grand dance. There are always all kinds of people coming and going and all kinds of things will happen. Only we can understand the warmth and coldness. Only after the baptism of life can our hearts be gradually enriched and we can have a deeper understanding of life. There are too many disappointments in life. Try to accept them, learn not to embarrass yourself, learn to change your mood, relax your mood, learn to put down your work, try to do some exercise, take a break and eliminate your boredom.
I like many things that are not practical. I like to meditate, listen to the rain and visit my friends unexpectedly ... There are thousands of possibilities in life and the future. There is always one that you want. You will have more opportunities to experience a different life if you are full of prosperity and decline, worry about your life but live wisely, live wide but not long, and choose a different life bravely and take more risks. May we achieve our best in the best years, live our lives in the way we like, and live our lives and future in the way we want.
"Live as you please" excellent thought 4 Time goes by day, we grow up day by day, and youth slowly slips away from us. Facing every day that flies, how should we spend it? Is it possible that we can find a way to completely refresh the calendar of life, so that every day is no longer wandering in the shadows, nor is it a boring day that repeats day after day, but full of sunshine, happiness and value, and every day is so fresh and memorable forever. To this end, what do we need to look like in live high?
How to live the life you want is happiness in the eyes of many people. However, many people don't know that happiness exists in everything and everyone. They are just not good at digging. As one of the authors wrote, getting used to life will make you comfortable, and comfort is sometimes a trap, which makes day after day surge like a hurricane, leaving years and taking away the youth of time, so that all seemingly simple things can never be realized. Let youth drift with the tide, leaving a life that only stays in my heart, but I can never meet it.
In fact, in our life, we believe that we can earn a better life only by continuous efforts, and the external resources are endless. Even if you keep pursuing and exploring for a year, your life will never be satisfactory. Therefore, we should pursue things that suit ourselves and meet our needs in life, so as to make our life more substantial and perfect. Live the life you want.
In fact, on the whole, this book has both praise and criticism. In the process of pursuing life, we will find that the beauty and yearning of life are often unattainable. What we can do is to strive to improve the quality of life while pursuing life, so as to satisfy our inner satisfaction and peace in the process of life. There are many lifestyles we pursue all our lives, and what suits us is the most important. Even the previous misfortune, you forgot him from the bottom of your heart. Constantly pursuing a fresh start. Our destiny is in our own hands. Let's live the way you and I want.