1. Chatting is purposeful, and purposeful chatting is rejected.

Chatting should have a purpose. Not when you miss him, let yourself chat to relieve boredom. It's like knowing to control your weight and not eat dessert, but you comfort yourself every day and I'll eat a little. This is not self-deception. Besides, who can guarantee that I will really eat a little every time? People are greedy, they want a little after eating a little, and then regret it after eating the whole piece. Why?

You guys who have nothing to talk to boys, besides satisfying your so-called sense of security, do you have any impetus to the results?

If there is any effect, it is to expose that you like her and that you are idle and never return.

I never advise two people to punch in and chat every day, even lovers. This kind of chat will not have any influence on boys except the path dependence of girls for a period of time. Don't believe it. You can talk to a boy continuously for the first half of online teaching, and then he stops suddenly for half a month. You will find that you are crazy. No, don't be naive. Men's genes and psychology determine that they will not like it because of their habits.

Any punch-in chat without topic has no positive effect, but has many side effects. Slowly, boys will make a preliminary portrait of you according to your behavior, and an image of a girl who is idle, boring, lacking in connotation and too active will float to the table. Once he has a fixed impression of you, it's even harder to change it.

In my opinion, every step of chatting with the boy you like is planned and premeditated, rather than wandering around like a headless fly. If you do something with the mentality of buying lottery tickets, then the result you get will not be as easy to win as you hope.

In my opinion, the purpose of chatting is divided into several levels:

The first level: similar performance, close the distance.

The second level: show your advantages and create attraction.

The third level: touch the soul with your heart.

Remember, it's best not to chat without a purpose. If you do this thing, you can't have any positive impetus to your results, just for your temporary coolness and happiness, then don't do it. Learn to control your desires. People who have achieved great things are not allowed to vent their emotions, and it is never wrong to be result-oriented.

2. Reject the fun of low taste.

I really read too many chat records. All the interesting chats you think are throwing stalks, all kinds of hahaha, and some even pretend to tease and argue with boys. I feel really embarrassed to find a gap to drill down.

To tell the truth, men don't like this way of chatting either. They will feel puzzled. Do I know you well? You took the gun medicine, which has nothing to do with the word interesting.

Interesting is based on normal speech. Looking at the embarrassment of the full screen, I just want to say whether we can be normal.

3. Don't narrow the distance by taking the initiative.

Some are worse. I am obviously a good girl and have little experience in love, but I just want to convey to boys the feeling that my mother knows everything. The boy said I would come to see you at night, and the girl said, "Come on, who's afraid of who?" Boys say you haven't tried anything, girls are joking to see whether you are better or me. I can't stand this old face.

Girls who really have love experience are all weak white rabbits in front of men. I don't know what you mean, but you little white rabbits still want to play the big tiger that eats people. Who will die if you die?

4. Relax moderately and refuse to be strong.

There are many bloggers sharing provocative words on all platforms, but I really recommend that you use them with caution. These seemingly emotional words are actually extremely low, and the boys you can attract with these words are really your own conditions.

The feelings of boys with really good quality can only be described in two words: greasy. Just like the feeling of despair and discomfort when those greasy men tease you, especially when the other person is straight. If you say a few more words, the other person may not reply to you directly.

Words, like the oil consumption, cooking wine and pepper we put in cooking, are very common seasonings. Not every dish needs oil consumption and cooking wine, but some fixed dishes can play a role in improving flavor and icing on the cake, and the dosage is very small, for fear of robbing the umami taste of the dishes.

5. Too aggressive.

I strongly support girls who like a boy to take the initiative to fight for it, and I try my best to practice it, but taking the initiative and taking the initiative are two different things. There is a saying that survival of the fittest. Everything can exist because it conforms to the law of survival and can make human beings live a better life.

Just like falling in love, it's the same. No matter who makes the first move, men are the ones who take the initiative to attack and pursue, and girls are the ones who show their advantages and release their usability. This rule is locked, and your love foundation will not be too bad.

Those who violate this rule, women try their best to chase and attack, are also successful, but you rob a man of what he should do, and you should always be a man during the whole love process. You have to put up with his indifference, his indifference, his lack of effort, his dependence on you and his intolerance to you, because these are all based on his desire to protect you and his dedication, without which he would not have it.

Chatting is not just chatting, it is the embodiment of a person's comprehensive quality. Some people can feel her advanced, textured and bounded feeling as soon as they open their mouths. Some people can feel her empathy and generosity once you chat. Chatting is not about words, but more about your thinking. In my opinion, language is the embodiment of thinking mode and cognition. Any attempt to attract others and lock your heart by accumulating words is extremely naive and short-sighted.

A wise man seldom talks, but every sentence is the essence. Some people are dignified and not angry. It is always a question of planning, thinking and cognition to make him feel good about you through chatting. Language is just a carrier. It's not the attraction itself, it just plays a bearing role.

And quite a few silly girls simply think that if I talk to him and we have something to talk about, he will get used to me and like me. Really stupid and cute.