First, the sense of vitality.

In fact, for too many real men, the most primitive attraction still comes from the most active and vigorous vitality, that is, the sense of vitality. This kind of girl is full of energy and curious about everything in the world. She always has many strange ideas in her mind, moves super fast and tries new things every day.

For example, if you are a boy, you are traveling with an energetic girl. This girl is curious about the culture and customs of the destination, and the whole person is excited to walk, even if the destination is ordinary. And some girls, even if you take her anywhere, either complain that they are tired or the food is not delicious, and they seem to be not interested in anything. Which girl do you want to be with?

In fact, the same is true of love. Girls with a sense of vitality chat with boys, and they are also full of interest and curiosity about what they share. She can be excited to pick up anything the other person says, and never has negative energy and pressure on men. Not picky when dating. She can have a good time wherever you take her, and you will feel young with her.

Second, a sense of relaxation.

What is a sense of relaxation? Literally, it is a sense of randomness that is not deliberately pleasing. By extension, you can always create a relaxed and happy atmosphere in the process of getting along. Don't put any pressure on each other, don't have a strong purpose, don't care about the result, just enjoy this relationship. In this way, you don't need to express yourself deliberately, and boys will naturally be attracted by your energy.

So how to do it specifically? When we first get in touch with boys, don't let them think that you care about the result. Even if you know each other on a blind date, make them think that you just want to make friends. We all have the same hobbies, so we can chat and relax together when we are free. I don't mean not to let you take the initiative, but to relax at will. Take the initiative to ask him out, without making excuses or paying attention to wording for so long.

Third, advanced sense of charm.

In essence-you are comfortable with the charm of women, and many girls think it is charming and full of amorous feelings, but they just don't know how to accept it. That's too vulgar. Without blank works, beauty is beauty. Song Zhiya is the representative figure who has no soul and charming feeling. I don't know if you have noticed, but her fingers are always gently playing with some things beside her hand, such as fluctuating the water in the swimming pool and playing with the umbrella handle (this reminds me of Yang Mi playing with Hua Chenyu's clothes, and everyone who knows it knows it).

With her long curly hair, slender waist and red skin, it is absolutely perfect. And she dresses like a woman, often wearing pink, white and beige, and her style is very gentle. Compared with you who is black, white and gray all day, guess which one men like? Most importantly, her etiquette management is excellent. Every time she talks to a male guest, her eyes look at each other as if there is light in her eyes. This kind of eyes is really talking, and there is no need to say anything more. If you look at it, the deer will hit it.

Fourth, the sense of innocence.

The childlike innocence here is not silly and sweet, but an unbreakable wisdom willing to believe that the world is beautiful. A woman's innocence is what I think is a kind of wealth. She may have experienced wind and frost, and she has so many emotional tortures of her own, but she is full of vitality to the world and people, with sincere love and warm life.

This kind of girl may have bad feelings, but she will always believe in love (even if she doesn't believe it, it will make men think she does), and she will never say that boys don't have good things, and men are big pig feet. To make a man fall in love with you, you must first believe in love, and then you must make him believe in love.

When a man says, I won't like other girls and I will always like you, the average girl will say, "I don't believe your story, I want to see the actual action", and she will say, "Of course I believe you, my husband loves me the most". Don't always say something very sophisticated to each other, and constantly care about the gains and losses in your feelings. Some girls, you say a word to her, as soon as you catch a small problem, they go online, and they are always unhappy. If you are stuck in traffic for five minutes, she will rise to the point where you ignore her.