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The first chat, the opening remarks that boys can't refuse.
The first chat, the opening remarks that boys can't refuse.

1. Pet prologue: You: There seems to be a cat in your circle of friends. Boy: Hmm. You: I plan to have a cat, too. Can I ask you something about keeping cats? Boy: No cats. You: Then you should also be a cat lover. Boy: Cats are cute.

Solution: I also like cats very much, and then I will share some interesting cat videos with him. What kinds of cats are there, what are their characteristics, what are their personalities, and how to choose Balabala for cat litter.

2. Introduction to Photography: You: Look at the photos of your circle of friends. I also like those scenes, angles and styles. I can teach you some photography skills.

Analysis: praise+consultation, boys will have a feeling of being worshipped instantly. Even if the face value is not high, he will be happy to share it with you and personally test it.

3. prologue: hello, little brother, look at your hair band. I appreciate your style of dress. I want to choose a suit for my cousin as his future birthday present. Can you take a look at it for me? Then, send him the photos of men's wear prepared in advance.

Solution: Boys will be happy to blossom in their hearts. Some people will be happy to help you use his eyes, and even find you some styles that he thinks look good.

4. Introduction to Tourism: You: I'm going to travel in the near future. I have seen your friend's garden and visited many places. I have no experience. Can you give me a push? He: What specific places do you want? You: I want to go to the ancient town, what coast, Barabara.

Analysis: Find the same hobbies, or if the other person is interested, you can bring him in and get to know him gradually. If you talk too much, you will naturally become friends. It is normal for friends to chat often.

5. Food prologue: You: Send him a picture of his circle of friends. He:? . You: I want to go to this restaurant with my sister these days. I've seen your circle of friends. I want to ask his family which food is more delicious. If you have been there, can you give me a push?

Analysis: Even the most boring people can't refuse the temptation to eat, so you can talk about the dishes, where they come from, what taste, what shape, and how they feel after eating, which can be the topics of your chat.

6. movie prologue: you: look, your friend sent this movie, and I just saw it. Are there any other good movies to share with me? He: The play is OK. You: Do you feel anything after reading it? My comment is Barabara.

Analysis: Many boys prefer movies, while fewer boys watch dramas. You can increase your sense of connection through the movies you have seen (talk about the positive side of the movie and its inspiration to you), and the other party will feel sorry for you. At the same time, it also paves the way for watching movies together in the future.

7. Opening remarks: You: Look at a lot of fitness content in the circle of friends. Many people around me don't like sports. I want to exercise, but I don't know which exercise suits me. Little brother, I can learn from you.

Solution: chat like friends, and the other person will not be too defensive. How to choose the exercise that suits you, what you need to prepare for exercise, what you need to pay attention to in exercise, and what role exercise plays are all topics you can use to chat.

8. Job Introduction: You: Look at all the work-related content posted by your friends. You should be a boy who loves his work very much. I would like to ask you how to keep enthusiastic about your work and what skills you have to get along well with your colleagues.

Analysis: Even if a boy is usually a boring gourd, he can talk to you about what he is doing at work every day.

9. No friends circle opening remarks: You: I am attracted by this avatar. He: What do you mean? You: This person is like a deskmate I haven't contacted for a long time. AT and I are a little good at it. I want to explain clearly, but there is no news now. He: What misunderstanding.

Analysis: acting! I once had a serious misunderstanding with him because of some things, and now I feel very guilty, Barabara ... Then I thanked him for listening, and you regarded him as a friend. I hope we can talk more in the future.