First, the experience of using body language shows that "body language" can often convey a lot of information to each other and express more colorful feelings. When you are not good at language expression, you need to use your own body language. According to the calculation, when you meet each other for the first time, 55% of your deep impression lies in the surface and "body language", 38% in speaking skills, and only 7% in the content. Therefore, when girls meet for the first time, they temporarily use more body language to leave a good impression on each other. 2. Laugh and sing together. Friendship and love are always inseparable. Humor has always played a key role in the traditional factors that make men and women love each other. Moreover, the feeling of singing and laughing with each other will establish this kind of intimacy among passers-by, which is more conducive to the development trend of Lenovo. Changing the atmosphere is hardly just the responsibility of boys. As a girl, you can try to tell some jokes when you meet for the first time, so that your beloved boy can see the other side of you. Third, master the method of sending information In addition to zero-distance communication, a large number of contacts between people are based on communication service platforms such as short messages, mobile phones/letters, saving time and effort. Therefore, after the first tryst, girls must grasp the method of sending messages and grasp the hearts of boys. (1) The first tryst has just ended. Even if you have a pleasant tryst with a boy, you don't have to be too impatient to contact him actively, which will make you look too impatient and weaken the boy's interest and expectation for you. (2) Men and women who have been in contact for a short time have not completely run-in period in temperament and thinking mode, which is very likely to cause differences naturally. If there are differences in the whole process of sending messages, you must be rational and kind, and you don't have to fail because of anger, otherwise the relationship will deteriorate. Yes, the solution is to communicate and understand in public. (3) Boys want to create their own self-confidence from the beginning. If a girl finds that a boy is embarrassed, such as admitting his mistake, knocking over a glass of boiling water or encountering difficulties at work, don't send a message to comfort him in a short time, because he will think that you have seen the weak side. The effective way is to wait around him, or change the subject appropriately. Enhance the charm of girls first date skills 2 The first kind of dating skills: If a boy invites you out for dinner, you can be a few minutes to ten minutes late, which will give the boy a sense of distance and stimulate his fighting spirit, which will naturally be better and better for you. Remember, the easiest things to get are often not cherished by boys. The content of the chat should be dominated by boys, and you can't interrupt each other's conversation at will, which will make boys feel difficult to get close to and give up. Remember, don't overwork and dance. Believe me, the goddess in boys' hearts is definitely a gentle fairy sister, not a silly aunt who is happy every day ... When you are in a quiet and emotional place such as a coffee shop or a western restaurant, the charm of your eyes is great. Keep an eye on him with clear and clean eyes until he finds your sight. When he looks at you, you can look away. This will help to enhance mutual feelings. Of course, if you have no further thoughts about that boy, use it with caution. When faced with the need to choose, we must make boys make up their minds. Even if you have an idea in your heart as a girl, don't say it at the first time. Let the boy make up his mind, so that you can see the boy's heart clearly and inspire him to protect you. I believe you must want to find a strong arm to rely on, so give the boy the right to choose. The second dating technique: dressing reflects a woman's taste, even if you don't have designer clothes and bags, it doesn't matter. Remember, neatness is the first element. If you want to breathe fresh air, don't wear too thick foundation, choose light lipstick. Of course, if you can hold the wild sexy wind, the red lips will help you completely charm the boys. Dressing is best to show off your figure, such as the hip-wrapped skirt and pleated skirt with the most feminine characteristics, which can undoubtedly show the curve and greatly improve your lethality. If your body has some defects, you can use tights or stovepipe stockings to temporarily shape yourself, but these things will do some harm to your body and can't be worn for a long time. Therefore, Bian Xiao strongly suggested taking body-building and slimming as a long-term compulsory course for girls, insisting on yoga or aerobic exercise, or practicing according to Swinny sweeney's "5s slimming concept", which can achieve the most obvious slimming and slimming effect, but it is worth noting that no matter how to lose weight, health and safety should be the first. In modern society, image is also a crucial point. Whether it is a man or a woman, your manners and appearance are your first impressions, which also determines the success of the date.