-Wen Wenzhi to all those who have not given up their dreams in the face of reality. [Give you a compliment]
Up to now, I still don't want to give up my extravagant dream. It's not that I'm not satisfied with the status quo, nor that I'm unrealistic. On the contrary, I am a very realistic person. Even I feel like a miser (hehehehehe), but I don't want to give up my dream, and I can't convince myself to give up, because there is a voice in my heart that keeps telling me: where dreams can go, footsteps can go. To tell the truth, sometimes when I meditate on this sentence, I have an impulse to cry, because in the face of such a skinny reality, I feel that the existence of a complete ideal is like a joke. I am like a clown in an ideal world, jumping around on the stage alone, and everyone in the audience is laughing. However, if you don't have this so-called ideal thing in your heart and don't know which direction you should go, how should you go? So, for a while, when I tried to get rid of this ideal thing, I suddenly found that my world became as white as the dawn after the autumn rain, and my head was covered with water mist. When faced with a choice, I have no judgment. When faced with the direction to go, I don't know which direction to go. Just like that, I spent a few days in a daze, and finally I felt very tired, really tired, unable to eat or drink water. Suddenly, I feel that unreasonable desires are more tiring and painful than ideals, and that my life is more disabled than the "sick". So after that, I understood the meaning of having an ideal.
Without ideals, living is to catch my breath. With ideals, life is called.
It is true that ideals are indeed extravagant in reality, which I don't deny. On the contrary, I admit that ideals are indeed extravagant in real life. But without ideals, we can't even live a real life. Life without ideal "boiled water" is really tiring. That kind of fatigue is really not the kind of fatigue of staying up late for the ideal, not to mention the kind of fatigue of running outside for days and nights without rest for the ideal. That kind of emptiness brings mental and physical exhaustion, which makes people feel depressed and at a loss, so tired that they have no friends around and no one in their eyes.
Believe it or not, I think ideal is a necessary condition for real life, and real life is a sufficient condition for ideal.
When we have an ideal, when we face the choices in real life, we have judgment. When we face the road ahead, we have a direction in our hearts, so that our real life will become very beautiful. Similarly, if we mix real life with our ideals, real life will support our ideals and help us reach our ideal situation faster and better. Therefore, facing life, I think we have ideals, live a good life and face life. We still travel around the world and "fly away". No matter what the result is, at least we won't leave regrets in our life consciousness.
In reality, many people have their own ideals, because no one wants their lives to be a mess, but it is on this road of chasing dreams that some bumps make us want to give up. It's not that we have no determination, but that there are too many bumps, which make us fall all over and exhausted. There is no better way than not giving up. I have had this feeling, maybe you have, and there are many people like us, but what I want to say is, since we have fallen so many times, are we still afraid of falling more? We have nothing but ourselves. What is there to be afraid of before us? Might as well take a few more steps. With luck, your dream will come true. If you are not good, you must open up a new realm for your life!
In any case, facing life, most of us still want to travel around Qian Shan with curiosity. Especially, I, a post-90s generation, seem to be pursuing my own ideals in this so-called reality, with thicker skin and harder bones.
Choose what you love and love what you choose.