1, I think marriage is a choice, not a necessity, but this premise is that even if I can choose a good partner, I choose to be single; Even if I can have children, I will choose Dink, which is my choice.
But many people describe me as "unwilling to make do" and "unwilling to compromise". I think this is a forced compromise. This is not a voluntary choice, but a forced choice.
I don't think so. Forced = choice.
2. I believe that I have really thought it over. Those who choose not to get married are a minority, definitely not a majority. They choose voluntarily, not forced to choose the rest.
For women, my point is,
As long as you are willing to marry, you can marry. It is nothing more than a question of whether you are satisfied with your marriage.
Only men can't get married, and no woman can't get married.
3. Some people may say that they are "delayed by love rat" and "unwilling" to be single. I will treat this part as a cognitive problem. As long as a girl wants to get married, she can't get married. That is a cognitive problem, and it is definitely not a condition.
I think I am a girl with 7 points in the marriage and love market, but in the eyes of her target group, I may only have 4 points.
The difference between these scores, if you are willing to understand it yourself.
Let me emphasize my point again. The problem that older women want to get married and can't get married is a cognitive problem, not a condition problem.
No matter how bad the conditions, you can get married. If you don't believe me, look around you. If the conditions are not as good as yours, are you married?