Time waits for no one, but time is getting old.
Life is like a dream, always inadvertently, galloping forward; The world is in a hurry, always sighing, and it is difficult to find the way home.
San Mao once said:
People have gone through the ignorance of youth, the confusion of middle age and the retirement age in a blink of an eye.
The past years are still in my memory, and the lighted lamp is still in my hand. I want to get up after falling to the bottom ... but I understand more and more that the past will never come back.
How many people, busy, children grow up and leave home; How many people are walking, parents are old and need your careful care. Stumbling, more and more understand that life, only forward, not backward.
I always miss the happiness of my childhood and the melancholy when I left campus. Perhaps, at that time, you thought that you no longer had to read a big book word by word every day, but when you look back, you find that the best youth time in your life is gone forever at the moment when you bid farewell to your study time.
Over the years, have you also experienced some gullies? Have you ever wandered on the edge of helplessness? Will you be bitter, tired and heartbroken, but still wipe your tears and keep running with a smile?
In fact, it is not difficult to say that people are happy when they are old, and it is not easy to say it. The key is how you treat them.
Life is a long road. When you retire, you will understand that everything in the past is just a joke. Most people have learned to be indifferent in the complicated world and to be stable in the cold and warm human feelings.
But there are also many people who find it difficult to enjoy the happiness after retirement. Even after retirement, they still live in panic and are very uneasy. I hope you read this article and don't panic, so living is the most comfortable and comfortable.
Perhaps, in the past, you have tasted the ups and downs of life and experienced the influence of secular fireworks. Your heart has long been like a rock, and no thunder can shake it.
However, people still have to be soft-hearted when they are alive.
Lin Qingxuan once said that darkness is necessary for the sake of light.
The meaning of this sentence is that only when people have experienced and felt can they survive in suffering and bloom even embarrassing, uneasy and depressed flowers in the desert.
Therefore, no matter what you have lived, it is already in the past, and the present life is the future you seriously consider.
Learn to be soft, learn to enjoy life, make every day a little happier, and let those people and things that bother you go away and not think about it.
When we came into this world, we owed nobody but ourselves. Live as much as you can. Don't make yourself miserable. Don't always compare horizontally. Everyone has his own difficulties. Some people show off in front of you. Don't take it seriously and don't worry. Others are just looking for a sense of existence in you, seeing the mountains and the sea.
Maybe you used to go out for work and home, so now, with good health, good legs and feet, you can turn as much as you can, the great rivers and mountains of the motherland,
Eat well, sleep well, be unaffected by others, be idle, and not find fault with yourself, that is, live naturally; People who can talk, talk more, people who can't talk, stay away, that is, live a full life and understand.
Life is too short to retire. Remember: Enjoy when you should.
Lin Yutang once said:
Perhaps, after middle age, people can best realize that most of life is stop-and-go, life is an ocean, and being able to have a round home is the best happiness.
Therefore, when you are old, you don't want to be rich or expensive. What you want is a kind and happy family. That's good.
Children are the continuation of their own flesh and blood. Don't put pressure on them, and don't think about how they can repay you. Affection is not cause and effect. Many times, it is difficult for you to pay directly in proportion to your return. So, don't worry if your children are not around to take care of them. After all, they have their own lives and children to raise.
The only thing you can do now is to take care of your health, worry less and interfere less in their family affairs.
Some people are old, and children are always worried when they encounter a little thing. They can't eat well or sleep well. You know, children and grandchildren have their own blessings. If they don't let go of the thread in their hands and let them fly freely and travel, they will never grow up.
Think about when you were young, did you expect less bondage and more freedom? Therefore, there is no river that cannot be crossed, and there is no bridge that cannot be built. Let them be independent, which is the best way for you to guide them to grow up.
You know, when you are young, you have the experience of an ascetic monk, and when you are old, you will know how to cherish what you get.
In this life, the person who has been with you for the longest time is your bedside person.
The so-called young couple are always together. After a lifetime, I may quarrel all my life, but after the quarrel, it is still the same as before.
If you have something, discuss it with your wife first; When he was ill, his wife stayed with him; When I am depressed, I will talk to my wife first. ...
In this life, you have gone through spring flowers and autumn moon, and you have experienced ups and downs. When I was young, I also spent the first month and February, full of romance; Having children, I also shed tears of excitement as a parent; I once put each other on the tip of my heart and held them in my palm; There have been disputes, there have been cold wars ... Anyway, when you retire, you have to understand that your wife is the biggest reliance in your life.
Don't dislike each other, don't complain about each other, you know, your life will be lonely without that person who will accompany you all your life.
Cherish him, is to truly cherish the present day.
Usually idle, two people can go to the square dance together and sweat like rain; Let's go for a walk in the park, listen to birds and see the flowers are red and green; Do some volunteer activities to relieve loneliness; Thinking about health, cooking a pot of good soup and making a pot of old tea will add a little interest to the day. ...
Good days are spent with people around you. Who says that people are old, can't be romantic, retire, and have more time for romance and luxury?
Playing makes life more interesting, not only for young people, but also for the elderly. To make yourself physically and mentally happy is to live a good retirement life.
Good health is the capital for everyone to live a good life after retirement.
It is better to love health than to love your country, your family and your children. Health is gone, everything is gone. Therefore, we must insist on exercising every day and have three meals a day on time to make ourselves feel happy and happy.
In this life, there will always be some insatiable desires. Luck may seldom take care of you, but whether you live happily or not depends on yourself.
A happy life and a good mood are the guarantee of good health. There are many definitions of life in the world. What you feel bitter is probably envy in the eyes of others.
So, no matter whether your life is good or bad at the moment, you should give yourself a smile. Living freely is your creed, and living happily is your pursuit.
Life is only a hundred years, you know, in this life, people have thousands of floors, sleep only seven feet at night, and eat only three meals during an eclipse.
Talk to old friends when you are depressed, don't hide anything, just say what you need to say, hum if you want to sing a few words, and drink a little occasionally if you want to drink a few glasses of wine. Natural mood, relaxation is the magic weapon for your longevity.
Old people, in good health and good mood, can make life easier.
Eating well and sleeping well is your best life at the moment.
Mr Cai Lan once said:
Perhaps, you used to be mediocre, or perhaps, you used to enjoy a high position and high salary. No matter what you used to be like, after retirement, there is only one thing: live happily.
You know, we've been looking for ourselves all our lives.
When you retire, you have more leisure time, so you can indulge in what you like, read what you want to read and ponder what you are interested in. So there is no standard answer to life after retirement. Finding something that makes you happy is the answer.
Life is busy looking for dullness, that is, looking for stability in a simple meal room.
Living a good life is the most meaningful thing you will do after retirement.
I hope that every retired person can be a wise old man after reading this article, and can enjoy life without regrets and live a good present.