So is a woman beautiful for the person she likes or for the person she likes?
Let's first analyze the meaning of "people who like themselves", which can refer to: people who like themselves, people who make themselves happy, and people who please themselves.
Personally, everything that is beautiful is pleasing to the eye. No matter who they are for, they don't force themselves to do anything for anyone, just be happy.
I used to force myself to lose weight for beauty. I used the "three-day apple slimming method". For three days, I haven't eaten anything except apples and water.
Although the result was gratifying (I lost 4 kilograms), the process was really painful. Every time I come home from work, the smell of all kinds of food will float in the corridor. I swallowed saliva and endured it. I went back to my room at once and ate an apple to satisfy my hunger.
I don't want to please others, nor do I want to please others. I just love beauty so much. A beautiful face and a perfect figure have always been my dream.
Once, I took losing weight as my lifelong career. No matter how thin I am, I will feel heavier. Now that I think about it, it is really tiring to live like this.
Women should not torture themselves like this, but learn to love themselves.
It is a woman's nature to love beauty. Most women like to buy beautiful clothes and wear delicate makeup, not for anyone, but for themselves.
If you are beautiful, you can give yourself a happy mood. Being in a good mood and spirit can bring vitality and rhythm to people and make themselves and others happy.
The sentence "A woman dresses up for a man who likes her" has a demeaning meaning: A woman loves beauty for herself, why should she show it to others?
In fact, "women like themselves" seems to be for others, but the ultimate goal is for women themselves.
In the process of "women like their own looks", others are just a mirror, and women can see their own beauty through the mirror.
How beautiful women are! I heard that the most painful thing for a woman is to put on her favorite new skirt, but there is no mirror to look at.
When a woman sees her beautiful self in the mirror, it is not only to please others, but also to be happy and confident in herself.
So, believe in yourself, when you love beauty, you are already beautiful.
Of course, the "capacity" and the so-called "beauty" mentioned here are not just cosmetic modifications. A person's beauty lies in her talent, temperament, personality and cultivation.
Brilliant, refined temperament and noble character are much more important than just gorgeous appearance.
People often say that "all we can think about is poems and books". Only when we have a poetic temperament can self-cultivation be naturally displayed around us.
Only by reading more, thinking more and being optimistic about life can we improve our temperament, because our unique temperament and cultivation are the root of our eternal beauty.
So, read! Woman! Reading good books can not only help us understand the true meaning of life, improve our cognition, but also make us become a woman with temperament.
A woman is not to please her own people, nor to please her own people, but to herself.