The fragrance is far away and the taste is near. Don't live under one roof, or you will quarrel in the future, such as educating children. The daughter-in-law agrees to give money to prove that she is not unfilial, and of course she will not refuse her grandmother to visit her children occasionally. If you don't trust the elderly to return to their hometown, you can rent a house nearby or across the street to place your mother. If the old man doesn't object, find her a wife or something, just like you can't be spoiled in your mother-in-law's arms. Don't ask and don't expect your daughter-in-law to treat her mother-in-law like her own. As a father or son, it is the most useless way to appease, quarrel and complain at both ends. Mothers always love their children, and it is natural for old people to want to see their grandchildren. But there is a generation gap between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. It is not easy to know more about their wives and talk about their mothers. There will always be some effect.