After giving birth to a child, as a mother, all her thoughts are on the child, and her husband has long been ignored. After giving birth to the child, in the dark night of a month, the husband climbed into Ma Bao's bed carefully, believing that Ma Bao would not simply think that her husband was coming to see the child.

After giving birth, the husband monkey went to bed in a hurry and returned in failure, which led to the cooling of husband and wife's feelings.

Xiaoya gave birth naturally and was confined to her mother's house after delivery. During childbirth, Xiaoya's mother accompanied Xiaoya to sleep with her children. Once Xiaoya's mother went to take care of her grandmother, and the task of helping her baby at night naturally fell to her husband. It happened to be the 28th day after delivery, and my husband, the monkey, went to bed in a hurry to enjoy the tenderness after 10 months. Xiaoya wanted to refuse, but she couldn't let her husband down.

Xiaoya didn't expect that the first time after delivery was very painful, probably because the side cutting edge didn't recover well. My husband was even more depressed, saying that he didn't feel anything at all and finally failed. Because of this roommate, Xiaoya also suffered from mild inflammation, and her husband was even more disgusted. Now that the baby is 2 years old, both of them sleep in separate rooms.

This "first postpartum time" is an important moment in the couple's postpartum life. The quality of this period directly affects the relationship between husband and wife, maternal mood and maternal health.

When can I share a room after childbirth? Don't be shy, know these details to avoid embarrassment!

One: the dangerous period should be prohibited.

For women who have just given birth, lochia has not really been discharged, the incision has not healed, and the cervix has not been closed. If you share the same room when the maternal body has not recovered, it will only delay the recovery of the maternal body and increase the probability of infection. Therefore, in the critical period, husband and wife cannot share the same room. Moreover, the dangerous period of natural delivery and caesarean section is different.

Natural delivery: Many women think that they can share a room after 30 days, but this time is not right. The first month was confined for 42 days, and the postpartum examination was also done after the second month. For women who give birth naturally, these 42 days are a dangerous period, and they must pass the postpartum examination before they can consider sharing the same room.

Moreover, 2 months after delivery, most women's demand in this area will be very low, so it is beneficial for couples to adjust the crisis period to 2 months and give the parturient a better buffer time.

Caesarean section: Although there is no side incision, Caesarean section has two relatively long scars, one on the stomach and the other on the uterus. These two scars really healed after 3 months. This period is a dangerous period for women who have caesarean section, so they can't share the same room. And if the husband can hold back, the time of sharing the same room will be delayed to 6 months, which is more conducive to the recovery of the mother.

Two: no bad mood.

Since we are roommates, we must be in the mood to increase our feelings. Within 2 months after delivery, mothers are still relatively indifferent to the same room, and there is almost no demand. Plus the baby crying and so on. If the mother is in a bad mood, then husband and wife are not suitable for sharing a room. In this case, sharing a room will only reduce the quality and affect the relationship between husband and wife.

Three: it is forbidden not to take contraceptive measures.

After enduring the whole pregnancy, many men become impatient. But no matter how urgent it is, contraceptive measures must be done well, because it directly affects the health of pregnant women. Most precious mothers need several months to menstruate because of breastfeeding, but not menstruating does not mean that women do not ovulate.

In addition, just after giving birth, the maternal body has not fully recovered, and it is difficult to accept a good pregnancy. If you have a caesarean section and get pregnant again in a very short time, it will do great harm to the uterus and even endanger your life. Therefore, in any case, contraceptive measures must be available.

Four: If you feel unwell, don't ban it.

A sister said that it didn't hurt so much with her husband for the first time, but for the first time after giving birth, tears almost fell out. Many women will feel a little uncomfortable when they share the same room for the first time after childbirth. Because of body hormones, there will be less secretions, and there is still a gap between husband and wife's life and before pregnancy. Coupled with various reasons such as incomplete recovery of maternal wounds and emotional excitement of husbands, it is easy for pregnant women to feel uncomfortable.

At this point, husbands should be more considerate of their mothers, and once their mothers are unwell, they will stop immediately. There are still many couples living in the future, but the recovery of maternal health is only this time.

It's really important to have sex after childbirth. Only "the right place at the right time" can be good for mother and husband. The above points should not only be remembered by mothers, but also by husbands. It is the most important thing to take good care of their wives.