This is an era of looking at faces, and countless women constantly struggle with their own desires in order to have a good face.

However, just recently, Xiao S made a hot search list because she posted a Weibo late at night.

In Weibo, she seems a little angry and tired, angry at the abnormal aesthetic of the moment: people's life is only for the pursuit of thinness and beauty, I quit!

The picture is a plain face, without makeup, far from the exquisite beauty, but it has a different sense of reality.

In fact, this society has high requirements for women.

So women might as well be kind to themselves, be brave and be free and easy. Cherish your body, care about your feelings, live the life you want and enjoy.

Be kind to yourself, this is a compulsory course for a woman's life.

Once upon a time, the small S has always been the embodiment of "thinness and beauty". She once put forward some famous sayings to lose weight, such as "Fat people are not qualified to eat" and "This is a cruel society, and appearance is more important", which is regarded as the standard by many young ladies who want to lose weight.

So is she. In order to keep fit, she insisted on exercising and ate a nutritious meal with clear soup and boiled water.

Now, Xiao S is finally "fed up".

Everyone has a love of beauty. Looking at the entertainment circle, many female stars live in a thin, white and beautiful shadow.

Little S's sister, Big S, is more abnormal on the road of losing weight. In order to lose weight, high school used many extreme methods, such as taking laxatives and fasting to lose weight. ...

After giving birth to a baby, I gained weight and lost 20 pounds a month. The slimming secret of Big S has been published online.

To this end, she once published a book-The Beauty King.

Everything in the world has a cause and effect, and going to extremes is easy to slide to the opposite side. The so-called "extremes meet, the full moon will lose" is the truth.

Some time ago, Da S terminated her third pregnancy. Due to her thin figure and insufficient fat content, her fetus developed abnormally. This incident has dealt a great blow to big S, and it is also a wake-up call for us. Never lose too much weight.

It is true that everyone wants to have a proud chest posture, a young face, firm skin and firm buttocks. But in fact, many people can't have it all their lives.

We have to accept the fact that most people's bodies are mediocre. We should learn to love our bodies and treat them like first love.

Be brave and don't be afraid of others' eyes, even your boyfriend or husband. If he really loves you, he will love everything about you, including your body.

As the poet Ye Zhi wrote in his book When You Are Old:

Ten thousand people are not as miserable as one person, and ten thousand people are not as familiar as one person.

Every woman wants to have a lifelong love, but there is always a gap between ideal and reality.

As we all know, the variety queen Xiao S is a strong woman. Her successful career, happy marriage and happy family are the envy of many people.

In fact, everyone's marriage has some disappointments, such as drinking water and thinking about the source.

From time to time, Xiao S posted some self-portrait videos of drunkenness and crying on Weibo. She seems to imply that she is unhappy, so what about happiness?

Over the years, rumors that her husband Xu Yajun wandered around nightclubs, cuddled young models and even committed domestic violence against Xiao S have made headlines from time to time. Xiao S rushed out to excuse and cover up her husband, and even came out as a scapegoat to apologize to the public.

Last year, Xiao S admitted in the program that he had had two domestic violence experiences, and admitted that he had thought about separation, but did not want to divorce.

In the program, Xiao S asked Nicky Wu:

? Nicky Wu asked Xiao S: Is this your experience? Or was it really beaten?

After a pause of two seconds, Xiao S actually replied: I was beaten twice.

Zhang Aijia once said:

Under the surface scenery, only she knows the inner pain. It turns out that the strength in front of outsiders is only a strong support, and she is an inferior woman at heart.

The ultimate goal of her life is to "keep her marriage".

Xiao S recently posted a selfie video on Weibo about a face that had just been washed by tears.

She choked up and sang:

Yes, in her mind, the most terrible thing in the world is forgetting.

Many netizens watched this video and said to her with distress: Leave quickly, stop struggling, and live so unhappy.

In the face of the marriage dilemma, the little S, who has always been rational and free, seems to be caught in the strange circle of "absolutely unable to divorce". Obviously, my husband doesn't love you anymore and has been hurting you. Why can't you leave him?

Now many urban women are awake. Instead of tying their lives to love rat, they might as well live freely.

Even if I love another person, I don't want bring disgrace to oneself. Love that loses self-esteem is just another kind of injury.

There is a saying that if you want something, just let it go. If it can come back to you, it will always belong to you; If it doesn't come back, it's not yours at all.

So is love.

If you can't hold the sand, you might as well raise it. People who can't stay are not as good as dust.

As Liang Wendao said, it is very important for a woman to have the ability to live independently and have something that others can't take away.

Women can live a sunny life without getting married.

There is no perfect body in the world, let alone a perfect person. Imperfect, this is the normal state of life.

In the entertainment circle, Yi Nengjing is a topic figure with his own flow. Today, at the age of 49, she still refuses to admit defeat: I want to be a girl all my life, even if it is just an old girl.

Over the years, she has many bad things.

Of course, the most criticized by the public is her age, but she has always regarded herself as a princess and lived in a fairy tale dream.

In fact, Yi Nengjing, who grew up to be a queen, was a real Cinderella when she was a child.

She was born in a patriarchal family and has six sisters. Soon after she came into this world, her whole family was abandoned by her father. From an early age, I heard my mother complain that my mother might be better off without you.

This cast a shadow over her young mind and once doubted the value of her existence.

In order to make a living, she had to leave her hometown, and she lived in Japan with her mother and stepfather. 14 years old, came out to wash dishes to earn money. In order to support his family, he entered the entertainment circle without graduating from high school.

/kloc-met Harlem, who is 7 years older than himself, at the age of 0/8./kloc-started an underground romance in 0/3. In 2000, the two married secretly in the United States.

Holding hands for a lifetime, she cheated in marriage. At that time, she and Huang Weide's "hand-in-hand door" had a heated discussion, and their 22-year relationship collapsed instantly.

Returning to being single, she was burdened with a crusade and her life slipped to the bottom.

Later, she went to India to practice. Once she had an epiphany, she reached a settlement with her past self and no longer easily compromised with the world.

Until she met Qin Hao, a man ten years younger than her, he married her firmly without fear of worldly eyes.

The failure of the last marriage didn't break Yi Nengjing's fantasy of love, and she was still full of hope for life. She loves this man and is willing to risk a 47-year-old woman for him and give birth to her daughter Rice.

The best women are hermaphroditic.

Some netizens attacked her, and the more she lacked, the more she was exposed. She went back angrily: the more she lacked something, the more she felt that others were basking in it.

After taking part in "Mom is Superman" in Yi Nengjing, many netizens said that her happiness was fake and Qin Hao didn't love her at all. But for Yi Nengjing, in this love, she was spoiled like a princess, and Qin Hao cooked for her in different ways.

A man willing to cook for you at any time must love you.

Everyone wants to be a little princess, but life in the storm can always make people force themselves into a strong woman.

She has a good proverb, the strong do not hurt others, let alone let others hurt themselves.

I really envy Yi Nengjing, who lives bravely and lives high, and doesn't care about the gossip from outside. People with love in their hearts deserve to be treated gently by the world.

Grandma yang Jiang 100 speech;

Life always goes through some events before we really understand what we want. Only a woman who knows what she wants can look at life completely and live clearly.

What you have now is the best.

Living in the present, not confused, not trapped in love, not afraid of the future, not thinking about the past, so safe.

Life is actually quite short, don't please others, live for yourself. You can pursue beauty, but not perfection. You have to live the truest and most wonderful self.

Life is nothing more than seeking peace of mind and happiness. Therefore, don't be bound by any secular ideas or perfection in others' eyes. Your free and happy heart is bound.

Only by living every day well can we live every day well.

May you always have a girl's heart, keep an optimistic and beautiful life, and be brave enough to be your truest self!