Bao dads often say that "Bao dads should bring up their babies alive", so most Bao dads are not at ease to give them their babies. However, in real life, some Bao dads have made great efforts to take care of their babies, but it is still a scene of a large-scale rollover. It seems that Bao dads were not born with babies, so taking care of their babies has become the responsibility of Bao dads in many families, forming a widowed parenting style. Recently, Po's fathers extended their hands with their own actions.

Recently, there is such a proactive dad who has become popular on the Internet. It turns out that compared with Bao Da, who stands by and is indifferent, this Bao Da is very active and takes care of his children to get up and get dressed every day. This treasure dad has a triplet daughter at home, which is very cute. This treasure dad loves them very much. Every day, he wakes the babies himself and then makes them sit in a row. After getting dressed, Dad Bao should do the most important thing.

Do you feel super warm when you see this scene? In fact, Bao's father has long been wishful thinking. He tied different styles of pigtails on each baby to prevent him from "admitting his mistake". Yes, you heard me right. Dad Bao can't tell the difference between a tiger and a mouse, so it's easier to tell the difference by tying cute pigtails on the triplets. Watching Bao Dad skillfully tie a rubber band and split it in two,

Then Bao Dad holds the baby in the dining chair, feeds them and takes care of them. The action is also done in one go, and it looks very skilled. Compared with those Bao dads who are busy watching "Ma Bao" alone on weekdays, Bao dads' practice has won praises from countless netizens, calling: This move is too 6! Some netizens teased Bao Dad, why not paint your child's toes with nail polish instead of braiding them? However, some netizens praised Bao Dad for his extraordinary craftsmanship.

In fact, it can be seen from Bao Dad's daily life with triplets that Bao Dad is not pretending, but taking care of him carefully. From this, we can also draw the conclusion that not all Bao Da's treasures have overturned, but Ma Bao's daily worries have limited Bao Da's play, leading to the emergence of widowed parenting. So how can we avoid widowhood and child-rearing, let Bao Da join the ranks of taking care of the baby, and reduce the burden on Ma Bao?

1. Affect family relations

In a widowed parenting family, Bao Dad only cares about his own work, leaving the whole family with the problems of food, clothing, housing and transportation and taking care of children to Ma Bao alone. Ma Bao has been working hard all day, and the long-term pressure is too great. Conflicts and even wars will occur between husband and wife, and the feelings between husband and wife will also be affected, and cracks will appear in the originally harmonious family.

2. Affect parent-child relationship

The healthy and happy growth of a baby needs the companionship of both parents, and if one parent lacks companionship for a long time, it will make the child dissatisfied, and even the position and image of the father in the child's heart will be greatly reduced, which will not only affect the parent-child relationship, but also the distance between parents and children will become farther and farther. At the same time, the baby's personality will also be affected by long-term absence, and his personality will be very withdrawn, timid and even introverted.

1. Ma Bao should let go and let Baoda try to participate.

Who was born to walk? Many treasure moms will feel that Bao Dad is careless when they watch him take care of the baby for the first time, especially when he doesn't do enough details. For example, when making milk powder, the temperature is not well controlled, the amount is too much or too little, or when changing diapers, it is all clumsy. At this time, Bao Ma will blame, not guide. If you don't do it well once, you won't let Bao Dad try again. At this time, Bao Dad gave in.

First of all, Baoda should be involved. If they don't do well, Ma Bao shouldn't be disgusted. They should give patient guidance. When they master it, two people will take care of the baby together, and Ma Bao's burden will be lighter. At the same time, Bao Da will also realize the hardship of raising children and feel even more distressed for the future of Ma Bao.

Ma Bao should give encouragement when Bao Dad takes care of the children.

It's not easy for the clumsy dads to take good care of their babies. Therefore, when encountering problems, Bao dads should not blame first, but give more encouragement to Bao dads. Encouragement and appreciation are the motivation and source for a person to do a good job. The more encouragement, the better they will do, so that Bao dads will take care of their babies more actively, and the burden on Bao moms will naturally be reduced.