I suggest you learn jazz dance. Although pole dancing is now a formal dance, it is inevitable that some people will have bad feelings, especially friends around you, who may often make fun of your pole dancing. Jazz dancing is more popular than pole dancing.

Jazz dance is a kind of street dance. Generally girls dance more. If it is zero-based, you can find a hip-hop jazz dance training class and start learning and practicing from the basic skills. I believe you will achieve something after a while.

Moreover, jazz dance is very helpful for women to keep fit. Girls practicing jazz dance can make their limbs softer, and their bodies will have a feeling of stretching out, so the whole person looks tall and straight. Moreover, dancing consumes a lot of heat energy. Girls can naturally keep fit without losing weight, and practicing dancing to keep fit is more beautiful than dieting to lose weight.