Living in this world, many people are too lazy to think about why they live and what kind of realm and level they pursue. However, despite this lofty ideological problem, each of us, as long as we breathe this earthly air, will involuntarily pursue a state-a better life. What is a better life? Is there more money, more love and more beautiful clothes? Maybe! The answer is yes andno. In my opinion, living well is an extremely personal psychological perception and satisfaction with the current state of life. However, too many people, especially emotional women, often don't know what they want. In the eyes of outsiders, they have obviously got a lot, but they are not satisfied with their present situation and always want more, especially those things that are beyond their ability and power. Therefore, in their own hearts, they feel that they are not happy enough. This loss of direction in life will eventually lead to their life being interpreted as a tragedy. Like Lu Xiaoman. When it comes to celebrities in China, no one will ignore Lu Xiaoman. This woman was born with a good deck of cards. Only when she has a good family and looks good can she learn well. However, this smart beauty is not wise enough. Marry a rich man, but long for two of the same kind; With tenderness, I hope two thousand gold. Lu Xiaoman always ignores what he has when life is not suitable. If we don't cherish our present situation, how can we achieve "secular stability"? Tang Ying, a famous person with the same fame as Lu Xiaoman, has a much richer life. Tang Ying is not without love, but Tang Ying's heart is like a mirror. She won't gamble on her future fate for those dreamless dreams and romantic love. Life is full of dangers, and only by always being able to carry it can we go far. Since you want a lifetime of prosperity, you can only follow the established life trajectory on the road of celebrity. Thirst for salted fish. Who doesn't have the regret that "even taking Qi Mei as an example, it is difficult to make peace"? It doesn't matter whether you are sad or depressed in spring. Life always has to give up and gain something. Besides, who can guarantee that you won't get along for long? Only women who know how to be kind can their lives be closer to perfection. It is not only a woman with a beautiful head who becomes a goddess. I appreciate the tenderness of Hu Die Bow, which is the reconciliation between mature women and the secular. Since you can't change the status quo, let yourself adapt to the status quo and try your best to live the best under the existing conditions. Thirdly, I admire Jiang Dongxiu's ferocity. This is a woman's heroic. Why do you have to get a name to get a person? Why do you let her get married legally? Happiness doesn't fall from the sky. Why can't she fight for it and defend it? I admire Lin's wisdom and perfection. Although there are all kinds of obscene rumors about her, she always knows what kind of man she needs and what kind of life she pursues. She is willing to make extraordinary efforts for this, and she is destined to be unmatched by others. I regret Jiang Biwei's heroism. This beautiful woman, if she can be one tenth as mellow as Hu Die, know how to reconcile with the secular, understand what she wants and what she can get by relying on herself, her life will not be lonely and desolate. I'm sorry, Xiao Hong can never recite clearly. Xiao Hong's life is doomed to be a tragedy. When she was seriously ill, she still couldn't see the negative assets imposed on the man who took care of her, and even asked for her own commitment, which just added a contemptuous joke to the other party. What many women still don't understand is that conjugal love and family harmony are of course perfect, but sometimes women don't have to be accompanied by men to live well. The problem most women face is not how to "get rich", but whether this man is worthy of "getting rich", "getting rich husband" or "getting rich himself", which is cheaper and more rewarding? There is another kind of woman in the world, which has already surpassed the realm of ordinary women. Their life pattern is not only affectionate, but also bears lofty ideals and ambitions. This kind of woman naturally does not attach importance to the lifelong yearning of ordinary women like you and me. For them, the driving force of dreams is the driving force of all behaviors. A person can walk as wide and far as he can pay for his ideal. Such as Soong Ching Ling. Maybe you will think that it is a pity that she does not have the happiness of husband and wife for a lifetime and the happiness of children. However, how do you know that she is upset and unhappy? Happiness is a self-aware private matter. Seeking benevolence is a kind of happiness. What is the outside gossip? Life is not a legend to be interpreted and appreciated by others, but to be truly appreciated by your own body. All the cold wind and rain, all the frost, snow, rain and snow, all the ups and downs, all the laughter, are swallowed up by themselves bit by bit. Take your life to achieve the legend in the eyes of others, and the ending is to disappear with the legend. Meaningful things have made my life better; What I can't figure out has become a joke of others after dinner. The heart is heaven, but the mind is hell. Only living your own life is king.