She stopped singing and filming, consuming the popularity she earned when she was young, and became a frequent visitor to trivial entertainment programs, taking her remarried family and talking with Kan Kan in variety shows. Because she participated in many entertainment programs and appeared frequently, and because of the uniqueness of her family (second marriage, superstar marrying unknown child star, female male 10, 47-year-old daughter), the whole family has become a hot topic on the Internet. Yi Nengjing, born in 1968, will be 52 years old in 2020. It is common for him to take a back seat among the stars. Born in 196 1, superstar Hua Zai refuses to accept his old age. He suddenly lost his voice at a 57-year-old concert tour in 20 18, crying and apologizing to the audience: "I really can't sing." I never went out to sing again. Many years ago, I sang occasionally. I retired from the music industry before I was 50.
After getting pregnant, she quit the entertainment circle. She married him twice in 2005, and quit the music circle after getting pregnant. In 2006, she gave birth to her daughter Faye Wong, a stay-at-home mother in the family property, who was diligent and kept the house. But she lost money in business, and 20 10 came back to make money, which can be said to be making money in crazy work. On 20/0/0, five tours were held in Beijing Wukesong Gymnasium, and the pre-order test results of the tour within 0/0 days reached 20 10/8.88 million yuan. In June of the same year, 5438+065438+ 10, five concert tours were held in Shanghai World Expo Performing Arts Management Center. The following year 1 month, 20 1 1, she sang "Because of Love" with Eason Chan and won many honorary awards, which proved that she was still the queen of singers after her stay-at-home mother came back. Then I worked day and night. In March, I held five concerts in China, Hongkong and Asia International Exposition. In the same year, I held concerts in Wuhan, Harbin, Chengdu and other places ... until 20 14, I was 45 years old, maybe my age was not allowed. I retired from the music scene again, sometimes singing, but I basically retired. And Yi Nengjing, in 20 15, married an unknown Qin Hao who was 10 years younger than herself. In 20 16, at the age of 47, she gave birth to a daughter.
As I get older, I have no chance to come back. It is impossible for a stay-at-home mother to take care of her daughter for a while and then come back to sing. However, she must also work to make money. What should she do? Take advantage of your past popularity, participate in various entertainment programs, and be active on the performance stage again to earn popularity and make money. Must she go out to work? Now that you can't sing, can't you retire? Unless they are rich and expensive, women will work crazily to earn money after their children grow up and become full-time mothers for a period of time. Yi Nengjing is just one of these very famous and capable mothers.
In social development, stay-at-home mom is an embarrassing position, with no time, no income, no satisfaction and easy to be discriminated against. I have invested a lot, and my mental and physical activities are no worse than those of those who have just entered the workplace, nor less than those of those who have just entered the workplace. However, with the same time and investment, I got a salary, a promotion in my position, and a display of sales performance. This is what everyone wants to see. For stay-at-home mothers, the service project is aimed at children and families, social development is intangible, and sales performance and income are promising, but this time is too long. For too long, all her current use value and satisfaction have been recognized by her husband and family, and she is grateful, but the necessary economic development behind this worker must also be spent by her husband and family, which offsets some of the value of housework.
Being a full-time wife is not easy, and it is easy to produce contradictions. This is an industry where men spend money on women workers-you see, I'm still supporting you. This is all you should do. I paid for it. Therefore, many extreme men feel that they should not be grateful, and they are also a family, and their children are each other's, so parents should participate. Therefore, the position of full-time mother is very embarrassing from the perspective of social development. The level of economic development at home is good, but not very good, and full-time mothers are still embarrassed. It's ok for men to understand, but it's very easy to cause conflicts if they don't understand.
Because it leaves social development, it has no influence and sales performance in social development, and its status is reduced; At home, because there is no income, economic development is not a person. With the help of men, family status will also be reduced. In this way, all the self-esteem and sense of value of stay-at-home mothers have to be maintained with the help of social development and family understanding and gratitude, and things like understanding and gratitude are empty and floating, so it is hard to say that they are good. Therefore, women who have been full-time mothers are very eager to do a good job, to prove themselves, to get rid of wealth and live well. As Yi Nengjing's main performance in variety shows.
Yi Nengjing participated in this program, but she was very tired. The contestants who sang the talent show "Sisters Braving the Wind and Waves" were very tired, and they continued to train folk dances and songs. Yi Nengjing complained to her husband that it was very hard for her to take part in the video recording of this variety show, and she lost a catty a day. After the variety show, she lost a full eight pounds compared with before recording the video. The husband said, "Can you lose weight? Because I want to have a try. " Yi Nengjing was startled and immediately showed her husband the Qing Wu mark on her knee. She suffered many injuries because of dancing. Therefore, the husband immediately indicated: If it is not good, leave it alone. Xiaomi also misses her mother.
But Yi Nengjing said: If you break the contract, you must pay compensation. Husband said directly: then pay for it. Her mother-in-law could see Yi Nengjing's real thoughts and reasons for not wanting to leave, and said: As a mother, she can understand that Yi Nengjing has been taking care of her children at home for so long, and it must be a relief to have the opportunity to come out. She said that she is very suitable for her wife to work again, stumbling is a trivial matter, and happiness is the most important thing.
Like Yi Nengjing, they can get rid of stay-at-home mothers. They just need a stage to perform. No matter how tired you are, even if you are injured, you will not give up easily and will work hard. Yi Nengjing gave birth to a child at the age of 47, and then brought the child back to work. She came of age at 50. In the show business, she is getting older and older. So she cherishes every opportunity at work and seizes every opportunity. Once a performance is ruined, it is likely that she will never return to the stage, and she will do her best to ensure that it is the best.
And then go out and look for a job. I don't know what to do or what to choose. How many of these stay-at-home mothers who take their children out to work are very easy to find jobs? On the resume, many people are in no hurry to write anything these years. How to make up? I'd rather be empty than write the word stay-at-home mom. I was old at first and missed two years of work experience. I also have children to take care of at home, and many companies don't want them. Moreover, this society has developed and upgraded rapidly, and some work is indeed backward. For various reasons, it is difficult for stay-at-home mothers to find jobs.
Just as Yi Nengjing can't sing in her old job when she comes back, many stay-at-home mothers change jobs when they come back to work, and even don't come out to find freelancers. With the talent and popularity of Yi Nengjing when he was young, he now goes in and out of entertainment programs everywhere and chats at home, while Doby is full of benevolence and righteousness. Not demoted. But Yi Nengjing worked hard. She enjoyed it and gave full play to the advantages of entertainment programs, making Qin Hao's family famous, profitable and popular.
The average stay-at-home mother will be downgraded when she comes back, but she doesn't have the advantages of her old spectacular rivers and mountains. She has the rivers and mountains when she was young, and many stay-at-home mothers don't have much assets for later consumption. This shows how crucial it is for women to work hard and make solid progress when they are young. Because of their own shortcomings, such mothers work too hard, want to prove themselves too much, and want to be invincible in their work. In saving their work, it is best to swim up and down, sometimes it is inevitable to use too much force, which leads to controversy, but it is okay. This kind of woman who has been honed into a full-time mother is very strong inside.
Yi Nengjing, who was born a stay-at-home mom, symbolically demonstrated this point. After doing so many talk shows and daily life programs, there must be times when the language is not smooth. Not long ago, Yi Nengjing took Anita Mui's regret of hating marriage as an example in a variety show, and compared it with his happy life of getting married and having children, which was angered by netizens and criticized for a long time on the Internet. She is still in a variety show, because looking for her mother-in-law and calling her full name in public has also led netizens to reprimand her for her lack of etiquette and neglect of the elderly.
However, such negative reports and online language violence did not crush her passion and courage to participate in entertainment programs. What should she do after she apologizes? It should be said that this kind of jumping frog is several times stronger and more wear-resistant than these 20-year-old girls (such as Shirley in South Korea) who have been severely hit by online language violence and even committed suicide. Being a mother is really fair. Moreover, looking at the frequency of Yi Nengjing's going abroad and the flow of entertainment programs, she put all her money into her work.
The marriage between Wu Xin and Yi Nengjing is really right, which also proves that Yi Nengjing has paid a lot for this family. Mothers who come back with their children will of course get rid of being at a loss and ramble, becoming clearer and more determined, free from distractions and full of energy. They want to earn enough assets for their children. How much money you can earn is infinitely stressful, so that children can have a strong family situation and will not be looked down upon because of their weakness and poverty. Earn enough money, but also earn enough self-esteem, which requires not only money, but also social development and influence. They must also strengthen their marriage and family. Yi Nengjing is older than her husband Qin Hao 10 years old. She said it was foolish to talk about not being afraid or worried. Because of this, she is particularly worried that she will lose it one day. So, she wants to prove that Qin Hao married the right person, so that Qin Hao can't live without her.
She gave birth to a daughter at the age of 47, but having a child alone is not enough. She wants to help Qin Hao work and earn money to support her family. She said that when she became a father, Qin Hao said that she would shoot all the films and earn money to support her family. But she said, don't take bad plays. If you stay with me and play a bad drama, won't it prove that I am scum? You need to persevere until the opportunity comes.
Yi Nengjing said on the variety show that when she got to know Qin Hao, Qin Hao only earned hundreds of thousands a year. He went to an overseas film festival and didn't even have his own image consultant. He didn't take the money. It's all about cleaning yourself. Yi Nengjing has no doubt about Qin Hao's performance, but he is a persistent plastic artist, pursuing perfection and taste, and never accepting bad plays, which leads to his unpopularity. This is what Yi Nengjing said. Who knows if it's true or why Yi Nengjing crowned her husband with a red crown and deliberately portrayed Qin Hao as an overall image of plastic arts pursuing perfection and obeying plastic arts above all else in variety shows?
It is precisely because Yi Nengjing kept talking about Qin Hao in variety shows that everyone gradually accepted Qin Hao's brand image of "pursuing perfect plastic arts level" and perfected people. Qin Hao is famous for no reason, just because he is an insignificant hero in Yi Nengjing's mouth. Later, Qin Hao finally became a star, and the online drama "Hidden Corner" appeared on the Internet, which was well received by users. Because she often participates in variety shows with Yi Nengjing, Yi Nengjing will also bring her mother-in-law. Her mother-in-law is very likable. She was called Ji Fen in the northeast of Luo Wenji by netizens (Luo Wenji, a well-known and lovable brand image of grandma in Korea) and became a "laughing star" for everyone.
Yi Nengjing brought the Qin Hao family red. Therefore, Qin Hao said in a variety show that the most appropriate thing he did in his life was to marry Yi Nengjing. The average stay-at-home mom is not so lucky. This road should be more difficult than Yi Nengjing, right? Although not ten years older than her husband. In an interview, Yi Nengjing said, "I think I am very happy ... don't you think I am very happy ..." However, where is happiness?