Attending a party in the community, the neighbor's aunt came with her daughter. My neighbor's sister, 18 years old, is really beautiful, beautiful and free from vulgarity, as white as a lily, as delicious and juicy as a tree full of fruits, with a face full of collagen, innocent and baby fat. Why is she a bit of a big girl? When I looked at her, she stared at me, leaned over her mother's shoulder and whispered, My sister is so thin and beautiful that I envy me for losing weight. I said with a smile, don't lose weight if you are not fat or thin at this age, or you won't look good if you don't eat enough. When my aunt saw that I hit it off with her daughter, she told her little sister that you are 18 years old and are going to college soon. Ask my sister to give you some advice. I'm a little bad. Although I am 30 years older than her, I haven't managed myself as I want, but as a "experienced person", I am happy to give some advice that I haven't done before, in order to * * *.

Read more books and enrich your spiritual world. It's true that you are full of poems and books. San Mao once said, "If you read more, your appearance will change, in your temperament, in your talk and in your boundless mind." It can also be expressed in words and life. "On the surface, everyone has only one life. However, people with rich souls have lived several more lives. They swim in the rich spiritual world under the guidance of words, away from temptation and extremely happy. Although it is as important to read thousands of books on Wan Li Road, it is better to read thousands of books first. In this way, wherever you go, you will see more than just excitement and scenery. When traveling, you will bring your thoughts and soul, your understanding and reconstruction of culture, and you will see mountains instead of mountains and water instead of water.

Good exercise, health is the most important thing. If possible, pay attention to the lines instead of the weight. Seeing a lot of seventeen-and eighteen-year-old girls trying to lose weight, chasing the trend and getting thinner makes people think that this is beautiful, but it is not worth the candle. It is the age of long body, malnutrition, poor physical fitness, and old age will suffer greatly. This is a warning from someone who has been there before. Thin is not necessarily beautiful, and thin without lines is definitely not beautiful. You can exercise your physical fitness and shape a good curve through proper aerobic exercise, dance and yoga. For girls, vividness, water, curves, personality and fullness are all beautiful, beauty is the temperament distribution from the inside out, and beauty is the smart and rich display of a healthy body.

Cultivate one or two hobbies of your own. This can not only enrich your life and exercise your self-confidence, but also be the best way to get along with yourself and learn to be lonely. The older you get, the more you know the importance of learning to accompany yourself. Besides work, children and family, we have ourselves. We should grasp it well, whether it is piano, dance, flower arrangement or pruning, and choose what we like to do to make ourselves happy and interesting in a dull life.

Form good habits. Whether eating, studying, resting or working. Slowly, we will find that everyone is actually a slave to habit. Many times, we are like a limited machine, talking and doing things under the guidance of preset programs. We just don't know it at all. In this case, how important it is to form good habits such as going to bed early and getting up early, loving cleanliness, knowing how to sum up, being punctual, being honest and so on. Adolescence is the best period for habit formation and stability. Grasping this period and developing good behavior habits will benefit you for life.

Learn to reflect and summarize. It is not terrible that people will make mistakes. What is terrible is the muddled life. When I am old, I will have a lot of troubles and regrets when I recall. Then, we must learn to review regularly, reflect on our words and deeds, sum up our gains and losses, affirm the good aspects in constant summary and reflection, and continue to carry forward and maintain them, and correct and improve the improper places in time.

Make one or two bosom friends. Friends are partners on the road of life, accompanying each other to grow up and share joys and sorrows. A friend is also a mirror, reflecting our shortcomings. Don't need many friends. One or two are precious. Sincerity, kindness and reliability are the most precious qualities of friends. Of course, we should become such people ourselves first.

When I shared this with her, the little girl kept looking at me with watery eyes and holding her chin thoughtfully. She didn't ask questions or take a stand. I don't know if she listened. I seem to see myself 18 years old, staring at others with innocent big eyes. The difference is that no one told me this at that time. I patted her on the head and said, actually, I didn't do it well. I think if I go back to your age, these are all things I should and want to do. Let's work together. Life is beautiful. "Well, thank you." This time, she smiled and showed a very approving expression, which made me feel very happy. ?