It is necessary to live together before marriage, because you can know what a person really looks like. A man will certainly do well before he gets it, and try not to let you discover his true side. Once a woman is touched, it is easy to become blind. So I think a woman should get in touch and know more before getting married. Marriage is a lifetime thing, and no impulse is allowed. It is best to live together before marriage.

The process of getting along is the best way to deeply understand a person's personality, emotional intelligence, personality and ability to cooperate with others. These are the more important dimensions of getting along with each other in marriage, and they can also have a more real understanding of each other's ability to get along with each other, reducing the elements of deception and fantasy.

If you just "date occasionally" and "keep your distance" before marriage, there will be some "fantasy space" or "beautiful misunderstanding". When you are disillusioned after marriage, you will find that the other party has many problems in getting along. The impact of "collapse" is great, and the cost of "marriage and divorce" is very high.

"Sexual harmony" is also an important indicator of marriage.

The harmony of sexual life, whether it is full of love and interest, whether it is comfortable in size and whether it can meet sexual needs is extremely important in marriage.

Everyone has their own "sexual preference" and "sexual desire code", and finding "disharmony" or "obstruction" after marriage is very harmful to the experience of getting along.

"Sex" is based on "love" and is a sacred way to relax. Two people can experience the blending of "lust" and "love".

If the combination of husband and wife is not based on "emotion", but only for "punching cards" or "reproduction", it will be difficult for one of them to maintain intimacy without "enjoying" the relationship between husband and wife, and the weak-willed one will easily "seek satisfaction from the outside".

Let go of yourself appropriately and learn to improve "taste" and "sexual experience". Good "sex life" will also enhance the intimate feelings between husband and wife.

It is suggested to have some "emotional counseling" before marriage to get to know each other better.

Seeking the help of professionals can help us better understand each other's attachment patterns, emotional needs and personality characteristics, consciously learn to improve emotional intelligence, sexual interest, communication and get along with each other, and enhance the ability of lovers, which is very necessary for building a loving family and requires the wishes of both husband and wife.

Let marriage become a beautiful physical and mental experience full of "love" and "support", rather than a "human purgatory" of mutual abuse.