You must lose weight, not because of others, but for yourself. Are you unhappy to lose weight and look at yourself like a goddess in the mirror? Beauty, health and happiness also need to be paid and managed. Enjoying the tempering in the process is a test for yourself. How sweet the harvest is, you won't know until you have tasted the bitterness. Believe me, show your best self and make those who have said you tongue-tied! Taking a healthy approach is also the key.