A mother of Xi 'an uploaded a video, which caused a heated discussion among netizens. The child's mother, Ms. Li, said that because the child likes to receive cards at ordinary times, the mother wanted to try him with this thing, saying that she would sneak away without paying the bill, and then use this 5 yuan to buy him a card. Finally, the child chose to pay the boss, and her mother was quite happy at that time. Mother's starting point is good, but we should also pay attention to the boundaries in reverse education. If you know that your mother is testing him, will you feel used and cheated by your mother and boss, or you should consider your child's careful thoughts. Let's suppose that if the result of the test is that the child chooses the card instead of giving the boss water and money? "Reverse education" is not to make children afraid to take risks, but to let them know the risks. According to the child's mother, she deliberately refused to give money and wanted to see the child's reaction. She took the water and turned away without paying. She told her son that we wouldn't pay the water fee, and the money saved would buy your favorite card ... My mother pretended to run away, and my 5-year-old son insisted on paying, but I didn't expect her to go back and pay. Ms. Li, the mother of the child, said that she was very happy to see the child so sensible.

Mom bought something and deliberately didn't give money. She wants to test the children's reaction ... this is a relatively successful reverse education, which can shape children's values, living habits and social quality. This kind of reverse education is much better than persuasion education.

I brushed a video before, saying that a mother took her child's private money hidden at home and went to the Internet cafe to play games, and took this opportunity to test her child's concept of wealth. Through such vivid "reverse education", children can quickly develop better personal habits, which will better help them grow up. Dear family, have you ever tried to educate your children in the opposite direction?