The food in the photo is healthy, delicious and delicious, which really makes everyone cry. However, this is only a small part of a treasure mother's moon meal. What is even more enviable is that these foods are all made by my mother-in-law.

It turns out that Ma Bao has just given birth to a baby, still in the second month. Mother-in-law personally cooked a nutritious and healthy "moon meal" for her daughter-in-law to have a good confinement and recover soon.

Because my mother-in-law used to cook, and she was best at cooking. In order to let the daughter-in-law eat well, this month's moon meal is really a great effort, and three meals a day are constantly changing. Even Ma Bao felt hopeless.

Obviously, Ma Bao's words attracted the envy of countless daughters-in-law, who all expressed that they would rather be fat than have the same mother-in-law. Some daughters-in-law even bluntly said that such a good mother-in-law belongs to someone else.

Looking at the moon meal cooked by other people's mother-in-law, I believe many treasure mothers will think of "moon revenge" that they can't get along with their mother-in-law. They were not very harmonious in the first place, and the contradiction escalated again because of the problems during the second month.

It is said that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies. In fact, they are all fighting for breath and trying to crush each other. If something happens, both sides can accommodate each other, and many things will be solved.

In fact, if you want to get along well with your mother-in-law, there are some things that both daughter-in-law and mother-in-law need to know. As long as you do these things well, the gap between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be reduced a lot.

1. Don't swear sovereignty over your son (husband)

Both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law think that their son (husband) loves himself the most. This idea itself is easy to make the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law hostile. If it is expressed by words and deeds again, it is a declaration of war.

There is only one son (husband), and his love for you is different and cannot be compared. In order not to create conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and not to embarrass the son (husband), we must not swear the sovereignty over the son (husband).

In daily life, a daughter-in-law should not instruct her husband to work in front of her mother-in-law. Mother-in-law should not blame her son for not accompanying herself in front of her daughter-in-law, and understand each other, and the trouble will naturally be less.

2. Don't do anything exclusive.

Some mothers-in-law always exclude their daughters-in-law invisibly and always say something exclusive, such as this is my son and this is my home. No matter what the purpose of these words is, for your daughter-in-law, you just don't treat her as one of your own.

So is the daughter-in-law. You must say less about such things. Although you already have your own small family, you should also pay attention to some behaviors of the family you have always belonged to.

Don't interfere in each other's life.

The living habits of old people and young people are definitely different, which is why many young people want to live by themselves after marriage, but if the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have to live together, we need to respect each other's living habits.

Don't force your mother-in-law to accept a fast-paced life, don't force your daughter-in-law to do everything according to her own wishes, pay more attention to the health of the elderly in life, give young people more living space at ordinary times, and don't interfere in each other's lives too much.

4. Don't be stingy with praise.

Everyone wants to be praised, no matter mother-in-law or daughter-in-law. In daily life, they should know more about each other's advantages and don't be stingy with praise. I believe it is easy to get each other's favor.

For example, as a daughter-in-law, mother-in-law should not be picky when cooking hard. She should thank her for her hard work. As a mother-in-law, you must be considerate and praise your daughter-in-law for her ability.

Of course, it doesn't mean that we just talk and don't do it. You can cook a good meal for each other and buy a thoughtful gift, which can promote the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Relatives whose blood is dissolved in water may have contradictions, let alone relatives who are not related by blood. There will definitely be conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but they must be properly handled. If something goes wrong, we can easily embarrass each other. Calm down first, and then deal with it when both sides are calm.

In addition, as a bridge between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and as a son and husband, this person is really important. He must take the initiative to solve the problem and can't shirk his responsibility!

Today's topic: Have you ever faced the problem of mother-in-law?