? The teacher of the younger brother and sister, of course, should be called a teacher out of courtesy. At that time, I was teaching politics at school, and she came to me on the pretext of looking for some political review materials. So the first name after meeting is to call me teacher Zhang. Later, people made fun of me and said, "It's outrageous to have a teacher-student relationship. Actually, I haven't taught anyone all day.
? At that time, my wife had graduated from high school. At that time, the college entrance examination was really a wooden bridge with thousands of troops. Pre-selected students are eligible to take the college entrance examination. Therefore, many high school students went to high school, and even never entered the college entrance examination in their whole lives. She failed in the college entrance examination, and her heart was depressed and tangled. She just heard my brother and sister praise me, so she wanted to see what kind of person I really am. I didn't expect it to spark and bear fruit.
? In retrospect, the sparks and fruits we realized were really full of sweetness, happiness and hardship.
? The county seat of my hometown is in the Jinghe River Basin, and the river has formed a natural basin in the county seat. The basin opens to Nanshan depression and reaches the floodplain in the north, just like a dustpan for farmers to winnow the grain in summer, and the terrain is very similar to Yan 'an. The river runs east-west, looking up at the sky, and the north and south platforms are opposite, forming a long and narrow sky in the east-west direction. People are the product of the environment, and what kind of environment there is, there is what kind of people. The closed environment causes the limitation of thinking, and small counties often become information depressions. My wife studies in the only high school in the county. When talking about her plans for the future, she thought of repeating reading. It was under my inspiration that she got out of the rut of thinking and gave up the physical and mental repetition.
? At that time, students in small counties didn't know that many universities offered remedial classes at their own expense, and they didn't know that they could still find a self-supporting job as long as they got their diplomas. Because of studying abroad, I know something about universities, and because I teach in schools, I know that teachers in primary and secondary schools in the county are very scarce. As long as you get a college diploma, the Education Bureau will directly resettle and then become a full member. Therefore, it is a good choice for ordinary people to get a public office. It was with my encouragement and support that my wife chose the self-taught remedial class of a university in Xi and started her college career.
? I believe that marriage was concluded in a previous life, and God doomed you in this life. She gave me a chance, and I gave her a chance. ?
? After a private life, she took me to see her father, and the enlightened old man fully affirmed our decision. At that time, her eldest brother was admitted to the university, her father was an ordinary worker, and her children were under great pressure to go to school. I told the old man that I would bear the tuition and living expenses, and my father-in-law said that one of us would continue to pay half. I am happy for my bold decision and for meeting such a father-in-law.
? With my father-in-law's consent, I helped my wife pack the bedroll and went to Xi 'an to find a suitable school. I have been to Shaanxi College of Traditional Chinese Medicine, xi Jiaotong University and private Aihua College, and finally I chose xidian university as my computer application major. At that time, computers had not been seen in small counties. In the process of our investigation, even the universities in Xi 'an rarely have a few computers, and computers are the predecessor of 286. I am a teacher in the Adult Education College of Xi Jiaotong University. The analysis and description of computer application prospects have strengthened our confidence and choice. Unexpectedly, as the teacher predicted, when we graduated, only three people in our small county, including my wife, studied computers. One is about to retire, the other is a leader, and the remaining wife has become the best choice for microcomputer courses in vocational education centers.
? When I was at school, I was several grades ahead of her. When I was a student, junior students may have an impression on senior students, but senior students often have no impression on junior students. Although my wife and I are neighbors and go to the same school, we have never contacted and talked. To tell the truth, I remember seeing my wife several times while waiting for the bus to go to school. At that time, I was impressed that my wife had a chubby round face, big eyes and two thick black hats with pigtails. She was tall and straight and very beautiful. I once thought in my mind that she was my future daughter-in-law. But the idea at that time flashed by. But on the pretext of asking who Teacher Zhang is, she went to school to find political review materials. When she heard and saw her coming towards me from a distance, I decided that she was the one in my life. I also left a good impression on him: humorous, decent, kind and sincere. So they fell in love soon.
? The power of love is infinite. Before going to school, she said, if you think about it, we will be fine. You have to wait for me for years. I replied: I do, the seas run dry and the rocks crumble. I asked her: you should be fine, too. We must be lifelong. Don't run away after graduating from college. She replied: there is no turning back arrow before opening the bow. This life is yours.
? In this way, she went to her school and I went to my class. I waited for her for three years. For three years, we handed books to Hongyan, but in every letter, I urged her to study hard and strive for excellent results to pass the exam; In every letter, she repeatedly reminded me to pay attention to the combination of work and rest. This is the way we encouraged and supported each other for three years.
? At that time, the monthly salary was 86 yuan. In addition to paying enough food on the stove every month, I also try my best to save her a month's living expenses and pocket money, and I have to prepare the tuition for next semester early. My father-in-law paid his wife two semesters' tuition, so my father and son ran a relay race to ensure her three years' tuition and expenses.
? After a long time, I miss my wife. I bought a bag of red Fuji apples, found out the good red apples in it and took the shuttle bus to Xi 'an to see her. It was already dark when I arrived in Xi 'an by bus in the morning. Sometimes she goes to Xigong University to get on the plane, and I wait for her for a long time. When they met, she said, it's all my fault for keeping you waiting for so long. I smiled: not long, it's good to see you! At that time, we were not as enthusiastic as young people today and dared to express ourselves. We seldom get close on campus. We go hand in hand to the streets and parks outside the school, bask in the sun on the lawn of the park and talk to each other.
? After graduation, ZTE had just started, and the computer major was already very popular in the special economic zones in the south. Many students went to the south, and a fellow villager joined ZTE. But my wife wrote to me after school and told me to pick her up at school on time. I also encouraged her to go outside, but she insisted on going home.
? So we got married.
? Opportunities are always given to those who are prepared. Li, a very enterprising principal in the county vocational education center, opened a microcomputer class in the vocational education center for the first time, but there was a shortage of substitute teachers. For social recruitment, the examiner is the leader mentioned above. She is the only candidate. I took a class in the 1950 s and continued to take exams to improve my academic qualifications. It happened that a large number of formal teachers were recruited in the county, and my wife became a teacher in the country after five years of work.
? Life is just a few decades, suddenly like a dream, and all the sweetness and happiness are still yesterday. Why don't we cherish each other and greet each other with a smile? Spend a lifetime together?
? May my wife be as handsome as ever, just like the morning when I was waiting for the bus at school!
? My wife's teacher Zhang has wronged me for many years, which is my confession of my "teacher-student love" with my wife!
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